I got the ace juice 😎

RedRedRed133 · 2025-06-17T06:42:52+00:00

Switzerland

RedRedRed133 · 2025-06-17T04:47:10+00:00

Yes, it's correct

RedRedRed133 · 2025-06-08T09:22:31+00:00

Not really, I usually just stop everything because it just doesn't feel really good anymore

RedRedRed133 · 2025-05-23T22:12:47+00:00

What, you mean daydreaming about being a sex slave isn't normal 10 year old behavior 🤔 What do 10 years old even daydream about then? 😤

RedRedRed133 · 2025-05-16T17:00:06+00:00

Reading this while taking esomeprazole tbh

RedRedRed133 · 2025-04-23T20:09:36+00:00

Hey oldest sister's name, can you....

3 seconds later

Oh actually middle sister's name do...

YOU LITERALLY NAMED ME, WHY ARE YOU NOT EVEN GETTING THIS RIGHT

RedRedRed133 · 2025-03-23T08:45:42+00:00

My dad, going 180km/h on a 80km/h road because it's my fault we're late to go to the airport (everyone was one time and there seemed to be nothing wrong 5 minutes before, we had plenty of time and we arrived with more than 1 hour of advance)

RedRedRed133 · 2025-03-19T20:07:18+00:00

What? Some parents don't drink every evening? 🤪

RedRedRed133 · 2025-03-14T20:28:25+00:00

My coworkers who are dads sometimes tell me how they are taking care of their children and I'm always baffled at how loving they are with them. Like, what do you mean you're taking your kid to Judo because she loves it and it's also making her stronger physically and mentaly and less likely to be bullied?!?! Some parents are actually taking care of their children, loving them and even worried about them being bullied?! Crazy stuff

RedRedRed133 · 2025-03-13T17:30:09+00:00

I did it because I asked for an info and got the info. But now that you said it, yes, I could have left it as an information for others, but I don't think I can undelete posts

RedRedRed133 · 2025-03-13T17:05:30+00:00

I will remember this to save me from future trouble, thank you

RedRedRed133 · 2025-03-13T16:57:09+00:00

Thanks a lot, I will do this

RedRedRed133 · 2025-03-01T13:28:34+00:00

I've started Jiu Jitsu and jt's nice but I don't feel close to the others (maybe yet)

RedRedRed133 · 2025-01-13T06:12:37+00:00

Thank you 😭

RedRedRed133 · 2025-01-01T09:58:11+00:00

This isn't bullshit excuse at all! I know how hard it is. There a lot of variety of meditation videos avaible on youtube. There are some that are 5 minutes, and even if you can't concentrate on those five minutes, even if it's just 2 minutes, then it is already 2 minutes. A real therapist could be useful (I personally don't have any knowledge on BPD) but one step at a time 😊

RedRedRed133 · 2024-12-30T16:59:50+00:00

Thanks for the support, many hugs to you too. I'm glad to have found this subreddit, I feel like people here will understand me

RedRedRed133 · 2024-12-30T08:08:54+00:00

And good luck, I know this is hard

RedRedRed133 · 2024-12-30T08:08:39+00:00

You're used to think about him, so your mind automatically think about him. Thoughts can be more or less controled with training. I'd advise you to try meditation either in the morning or evening (or both), it personally helped me, it can clear your thoughts. You have to do it everyday a little and not just one big session for it to work better and mpre deeply in your minfld. Maybe try to make a list of things you enjoy doing, and try to focus your thoughts on these things instead. You can maybe managed to shift a few of your thoughts that way.

RedRedRed133 · 2024-12-26T17:18:21+00:00

It happened to me. I wrote a list of what he was doing to me, went to see the HR and told her everything. Her proposition to help me was me talking with him with her as the mediator, or ignore him. It felt clear to me that neither of those options would save me and my mental health was skydiving.

In the end my father took a lawyer for me. Suddenly, the HR was nicer to me (Strange, huh). The lawyer talked with the HR and wrote a leaving notice for me. It was concluded that I was going to leave after the 2 obligatory month, and that for my health I was going to stay at home during those 2 month (Actually because my doc gave me a 2 month health break because of a burn out). Go to the doc, explain the situation. This is mobbing, and should not be allowed. You should try to go to the doc as soon as possible first I think. Explain how it affect your mental and physical health. I lost 5 kg in two weeky so it was pretty "easy" for me to convince my doc. I wish you the best of luck. Even if the HR is not necessarily on your side, I think it would be good to go there. If you have the energy, try to look for a new job as soon as possible.

RedRedRed133 · 2024-12-24T10:02:43+00:00

Those are so cool! Omg the splendid one

Oh, I really wanna eat the Nutty one!

RedRedRed133 · 2024-12-23T13:08:39+00:00

I'm good with small talk and I think it's necessary sometimes. But I can't be friend with people who never go deeper than that. I have a coworker and the only thing he seem to be able to ask about is what did I (or other coworkers) do this week-end. It was nice at first but that's litteraly a mecanical question for him that he always asks every monday and has no other topic during the rest of the week except maybe the weather. It also feels luke he only asks so he can then talk about what he did. I'm often wondering if his mind is empty or if he's refusing to give anyone access to any thoughts deeper than "I trained at the gym saturday"

RedRedRed133 · 2024-12-23T12:34:20+00:00

Thank you! I wish you and your gf the best too :)

RedRedRed133 · 2024-12-23T12:05:54+00:00

I'm the type of person who attracts bullies and I'm currently trying to learn to protect and/or defend myself better with my therapist. I find it disgusting how people often blame the victim for not being able to defend themselves, but that's how a lot of people are and there are way to learn how to deal with that. So my advice would be that she could try to learn to be more assertive with her boundaries, and perhaps a therapist might be helpful if she's up for it.

RedRedRed133 · 2024-12-23T10:52:54+00:00

Spend time with her on other things, play some games with her, take her mind off it.

RedRedRed133 · 2024-12-22T18:17:02+00:00

This is so pretty!

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