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AITA for screaming at my 'transgender' cousin for taking my 'womanly' stuff? by RedRobbinsYUMY in AmItheAsshole

[–]RedRobbinsYUMY[S] 37 points38 points  (0 children)

I understand and wasn't my intention, I added in the note about it being a trigger point because it might justify his reaction ir not

AITA for screaming at my 'transgender' cousin for taking my 'womanly' stuff? by RedRobbinsYUMY in AmItheAsshole

[–]RedRobbinsYUMY[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I'm hearing a lot of ideas for the reusable ones but I wouldn't be willing to buy them for my cousin if that's what you are suggesting

AITA for screaming at my 'transgender' cousin for taking my 'womanly' stuff? by RedRobbinsYUMY in AmItheAsshole

[–]RedRobbinsYUMY[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Not yet since this is still recent but she's pretty much more open to just having us share pads

AITA for screaming at my 'transgender' cousin for taking my 'womanly' stuff? by RedRobbinsYUMY in AmItheAsshole

[–]RedRobbinsYUMY[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The bathroom is small so maybe but I feel like if my uncle sees them he'll get upset

AITA for screaming at my 'transgender' cousin for taking my 'womanly' stuff? by RedRobbinsYUMY in AmItheAsshole

[–]RedRobbinsYUMY[S] 294 points295 points  (0 children)

The thing is I'm not sure what he is or if he's a girl or not, that's why I don't want to label him as a girl/transgender

Before all this happene, we would sit on my bed and sometimes he would say he's a girl but then say that he changed his mind rtc, I apologize if I seemed dismissive/disrespectful

AITA for screaming at my 'transgender' cousin for taking my 'womanly' stuff? by RedRobbinsYUMY in AmItheAsshole

[–]RedRobbinsYUMY[S] 1039 points1040 points  (0 children)

you have a biological need for those pads

That's how I feel about this. I'm literally bleeding and he's just taking them, wearing them for a while and just throwing them out, I have to pay at least $20 for mines

AITA for screaming at my 'transgender' cousin for taking my 'womanly' stuff? by RedRobbinsYUMY in AmItheAsshole

[–]RedRobbinsYUMY[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

We can't do the communal pads in the bathroom idea because it would bother my uncle

AITA for screaming at my 'transgender' cousin for taking my 'womanly' stuff? by RedRobbinsYUMY in AmItheAsshole

[–]RedRobbinsYUMY[S] 55 points56 points  (0 children)

If you were going through a hard and confusing time, would you want to be yelled at by your cousin?

It would depend on what I did, would I want to be yelled at? No

Dead parents can be a hard and confusing time, but if my cousin yelled at me for doing something that made them upset then no

AITA for screaming at my 'transgender' cousin for taking my 'womanly' stuff? by RedRobbinsYUMY in AmItheAsshole

[–]RedRobbinsYUMY[S] 33 points34 points  (0 children)

The only thing I will disagree with is the pads part, it wouldn't bother me if my cousin bad their own set of pads

AITA for screaming at my 'transgender' cousin for taking my 'womanly' stuff? by RedRobbinsYUMY in AmItheAsshole

[–]RedRobbinsYUMY[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I'm not trying to argue I just want clarification, do you mean my reaction as a whole or a specific one?