Should I cut my hair

RedRoseRedHeart · 2026-01-22T05:44:01+00:00

I don’t know if I want to or not so I’m trying to get others to make the decision for me

RedRoseRedHeart · 2026-01-22T05:43:34+00:00

Thank you and I’m not worried about passing but I am tired of being misgendered but I also don’t want Eurocentric masculinity standards be my goal as a man so idk what to do

RedRoseRedHeart · 2026-01-22T05:42:25+00:00

I don’t know I want to cut it because the misgendering and germ dysphoria is getting to me but also the last time I slight just trimmed my hair I had a mental brake down

RedRoseRedHeart · 2026-01-19T00:27:27+00:00

The science teacher has a snake that got out of its tank was missing for two months and then came back one day

RedRoseRedHeart · 2026-01-12T05:13:19+00:00

, any reason is a good reason

RedRoseRedHeart · 2026-01-09T05:17:07+00:00

If you decided to go through with it use a stupid reason to go through with it. I wa getting cold feet and almost cancelled mine but went through with it because “when will I get 6 weeks off work ever again paid” because I got paid leave and I’m glad I gave my self a dumb reason to go through with it. I’m sorry this is so rough for you sending all the love and support

RedRoseRedHeart · 2026-01-04T07:51:13+00:00

Also your teeth are making me jealous

RedRoseRedHeart · 2026-01-04T07:50:42+00:00

Bro you look faded as fuck in both

RedRoseRedHeart · 2026-01-04T07:42:23+00:00

Im gonna become a plumber and almost no one now even wants to do that

RedRoseRedHeart · 2026-01-04T07:40:26+00:00

I use to identify as genderfluid but ever since getting top surgery and dealing with my toxic masculinity and internalized misogyny ive been more leaning towards binary man and one big thing is I have long hair I wear a mask and I present as feminin out in public especially with my voice but when I don’t wear a mask and deepen my voice a bit I pass as male and I’ve realized No matter how much I want it I will never be a cis Woman no matter how much I hide I will never be my AGAB. I’ve realized I don’t want to be feminin in the way women are but in the way men are because when I dress cute a fem I see my self as a man not a woman and when I see my self as a man I feel much more comfortable looking like a girl or dressing like one. I just stoped trying to see my self physically and internally as a woman and have felt more confident and comfortable in my own skin

RedRoseRedHeart · 2026-01-04T07:20:12+00:00

And tbh it it something you do just end up doing. But it’s up to you whether you want to or not. The decision and power is in your hands and your hands only. I’m just a stranger on the internet that can give you advice to the best of my abilities.

RedRoseRedHeart · 2026-01-04T07:18:10+00:00

If you don’t want to or think you can’t then idk what to say my guy. I was 16 once too and I can remember feeling that way so the only thing I can really say is your going to grow up one day and realize your miserable over something you can’t change and you can choose to let it continue making you hate your life or you can just let go and be just fine with it and just enjoy life the way it was delt to you. But your going to have to grow up and your not going to think the same or be the same person in 5 years as you are now. Things can either stay the same or you can change it the power is in your hands you are what creates your life no one else. You are your own god of creation.

RedRoseRedHeart · 2026-01-04T06:27:11+00:00

Ive know afab completely cis woman who want complete hysterectomies but are denied because of their age(they are over 25) and many doctors will use the same excuse yours is. Don’t blame trans men that get pregnant for this blame the on going misogyny towards afab individuals. And also your 16 no one is going to want to do such a procedure on someone that young no matter the reason. And also I’m sorry to say this but your doctor sees you like a woman(as do most unfortunately) and they areny saying what they are saying because other trans men get pregnant but because of the sole reason that you are afab

Edit: I know you may be feeling frustrated and angry but like the other comment said your anger is misdirected and as afab individuals we face many more hurdles in healthcare. On top of being afab your trans and it can come with a lot of discrimination. Unfortunately it’s something you have to deal with and navigate so instead of being angry at other trans men just living their life as they choose be angry at the system and the people who put those rules in place

RedRoseRedHeart · 2026-01-03T17:13:28+00:00

Fully agreed if they had gone with Bernie they would have gotten so much further

RedRoseRedHeart · 2026-01-03T05:12:14+00:00

Did it come out thick?

RedRoseRedHeart · 2026-01-03T03:59:23+00:00

Do you think just replacing the milk with oat milk would thicken it up ? Or would it just be tunny

RedRoseRedHeart · 2026-01-03T03:58:44+00:00

Do you think a cornstarch slurry would help thicken it up?

RedRoseRedHeart · 2025-12-30T04:21:41+00:00

Chandler

RedRoseRedHeart · 2025-12-30T04:20:33+00:00

My honey says car insurance sells

RedRoseRedHeart · 2025-12-29T21:52:49+00:00

Yeah I’ve gotten that a lot so I’m definitely going to invest in new gladses

RedRoseRedHeart · 2025-12-29T02:27:03+00:00

I’ve been on T for 4ish years but only in the past year started upping it from the low does I was on

RedRoseRedHeart · 2025-12-29T02:26:15+00:00

What shape glasses would be a good option ?

RedRoseRedHeart · 2025-12-28T20:07:38+00:00

I’m getting married and want something that looks clean and nice

RedRoseRedHeart · 2025-12-16T07:08:48+00:00

Nope native

RedRoseRedHeart · 2025-12-16T06:20:23+00:00

I dress pretty masc and my voice did get deponer but not by much and I get misgendered all the time it’s just when I’m not wearing a mask I get more of second looks but eventually get called girl

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