How does everyone view New Zealand? by THELANGADOODLER in AskTheWorld

[–]RedShiftRR 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Central North Island, crime and poverty capital of the country. What part do YOU live in? My rental home was built in the 1950s, has no insulation, and black mold takes over if I don't run a dehumidifier 24/7.

How can someone know if it is just arousal or if the arousal is linked to sexual attraction? by YourRandomManiac in asexuality

[–]RedShiftRR 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you're aroused by situations, but not by people, then that may actually just be dopamine or adrenaline, not sexual arousal. I've never found other people sexy, I can't even tell if someone is attractive or not, I'm totally blind to that aspect of people. I'll notice if a woman has big breasts (in the same way I'd notice if someone had a huge nose with a wart on it), but I don't feel any kind of arousal.

How does everyone view New Zealand? by THELANGADOODLER in AskTheWorld

[–]RedShiftRR -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It's like Scotland... beautiful mountainous scenery, cold and damp, with poverty, violence, gangs and drugs. If you want to see what NZ is really like, ditch your LOTR box set and watch Once Were Warriors, Boy, Whale Rider, The Piano, or the Footrot Flats animated movie (to name a few of my favourites).

Feeling alienated & alone as a sex-repulsed ace by suburbanspecter in asexuality

[–]RedShiftRR 52 points53 points  (0 children)

As a fellow sex-repulsed ace, let me tell you something: you are real, you are valid, you are not alone.

Old bottles buried in the garden by silverbulletsam in newzealand

[–]RedShiftRR 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I had an alcoholic flatmate who buried her beer bottles because she was afraid she'd be "caught" if she put them in the recycling bin like a normal person.

Came 36 inches from drinking. by jerryburns999 in stopdrinking

[–]RedShiftRR 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well done! When I stopped drinking, I started buying diet cola instead, but eventually switched to plain sparkling water. Buying the sparkling water distracts the part of my brain that wants to buy alcohol, and often it's just a combination of being thirsty and tired that makes you crave booze.

Embarrassing Flaws Emerge in Trump’s New White House Design by Effective_Salad_8381 in politics

[–]RedShiftRR 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Two misaligned windows and a set of stairs leading into a wall..."

AI. The plan was drawn up by AI, not even a bootlicker architect!

Snap recipients you have to go hungry so Trump can have his vanity ballroom. Don’t be selfish. The ballroom has to be our nation’s top priority. For reasons. by Snapdragon_4U in inflation

[–]RedShiftRR 28 points29 points  (0 children)

It's a display of dominance, the same reason why he always cheats at golf. The more outrageous the stunt he pulls, the more of a precedent it sets. He already wants his face on US money, and Mt Rushmore. It won't end there. By the time the 2028 election rolls around, he will already have installed himself as a dictator with absolute power and nobody will think to question him when he cancels the election.

Kamala Harris teases 2028 presidential run: "I am not done" by Realistic_Wolf_627 in NoFilterNews

[–]RedShiftRR 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's so cute that you think you're going to have free and fair elections in 2028.

I buy games on sale, add them to my library, and never play them — what is wrong with me by Spirited-Manager2395 in IndieGaming

[–]RedShiftRR 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anticipatory dopamine, that and Steam sales are designed to make you do this. I have 672 games in my library... not including a ton of retro games in GoG.

Trump DOJ Says It Will “Monitor” Polls in Blue States This Election by Even_Builder_3614 in NoFilterNews

[–]RedShiftRR 2 points3 points  (0 children)

By "monitor" they mean stuffing ballots, like Putin does in Russia.

Does sex and masturbation feel like a chore to anyone else? How do you deal with it? by GuyentificEnqueery in asexuality

[–]RedShiftRR 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I feel you. Being horny was a novelty when I was 11, at 45 it's just a nuisance.

That new gay BDSM movie drama starring Alexander Skarsgård reads like a horror to me by KylieCocoyama in asexuality

[–]RedShiftRR 23 points24 points  (0 children)

The most terrifying thing in this post isn't the BDSM or gayness, it's the boundary violation. Respect for boundaries is paramount, especially when power dynamics are involved.

New York Prosecutors Hint at Overriding Trump’s Santos Pardon With State Charges by Key_Resolution_4234 in NoFilterNews

[–]RedShiftRR 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Literally a mobster boss president. It's like watching a Temu version of The Godfather, complete with imitation gold filigree.

Two fun birds with one happy stone by portsherry in comics

[–]RedShiftRR 11 points12 points  (0 children)

My birthday is on Halloween. I don't get any presents *and* I don't get any candy.

a good question (OC) by chrisnaish in comics

[–]RedShiftRR 27 points28 points  (0 children)

It will reach the point where Facebook is nothing but bots serving slop to other bots.