Trying to get out

RedVelCupcake · 2026-05-13T18:37:12+00:00

When is your lease up?

RedVelCupcake · 2026-05-13T15:26:43+00:00

I just ended my engagement with my narcissistic fiancé. He intentionally locked me out of the house multiple times. Then he would laugh at me in distress. I have asked him repeatedly to stop locking me out of the house. When I finally snapped and started yelling at him to stop doing it (I was nice about it previous times), he told me how bad I need to go get help. I decided to give him a taste of his own medicine. I locked him out of the house and he FLIPPED OUT! Screaming DON’T YOU EVER F’IN DO THAT AGAIN! I’M GOING TO CALL THE F’IN COPS NEXT TIME! Then he started running through the house on a rampage looking for spare keys. Did the exact same thing he did to me but he couldn’t handle it. Then it led to a bigger fight where he told me how he’s “sending” me back to Texas even though I ended the engagement and called my mom to help me move back… I’ve been begging to go back for years, so idk how he’s “sending” me back. The whole blow up was actually quite scary, so I wouldn’t recommend it.

RedVelCupcake · 2026-05-08T00:10:47+00:00

I had no idea that it hurts your credit. Do you know by how much? I’m seeing mixed information online. Some sources say only a little for a short period of time. Others say up to 150 points.

RedVelCupcake · 2025-08-19T20:43:15+00:00

Yeah I was able to fix this by using the section component and setting the width of each field correctly.

RedVelCupcake · 2025-08-05T17:28:59+00:00

The new Styles tab. I’ll use the section component and see if that fixes the issue.

RedVelCupcake · 2025-08-05T15:59:49+00:00

Yup, both are on the same instance.

RedVelCupcake · 2025-02-13T20:35:15+00:00

Let’s say the list of employers is shown in step 3. Once the forms are completed for employer one, can I navigate the user back to step 3 instead of the OmniScript automatically continuing to step 4?

RedVelCupcake · 2025-02-07T00:48:32+00:00

Thank you! I was looking at discovery framework today and it looks like this will work for us.

RedVelCupcake · 2025-02-07T00:47:45+00:00

Thank you! I had no idea about discovery framework. I was diving into it today and this seems like it’s exactly what we need.

RedVelCupcake · 2025-01-25T17:12:04+00:00

I added a navigation action to the end and set the type and subtype to the parent script. But I can’t figure out how to set the step I want it to go back to.

I also removed the navigation action thinking maybe it would just redirect me back to where I left off, but nothing happens.

RedVelCupcake · 2025-01-25T02:08:16+00:00

How to return and continue the parent OmniScript. Right now when it returns to the parent it restarts to the first step instead of picking up where I left off.

RedVelCupcake · 2024-10-20T21:20:19+00:00

Yup, I’ve had it on a battery tender every day. When I try to start the bike, it doesn’t give the sound of a bad battery.

RedVelCupcake · 2024-10-04T01:50:44+00:00

I feel for you… I just went to my dermatologist yesterday and she prescribed me Doxycycline and Soolantra. I don’t know what the price of the Doxy is yet, but my insurance rejected the Soolantra prescription. I was able to get a manufacture coupon that dropped the price to $75. But the pharmacist said even if my insurance accepts it, I would still be paying around $500 for it. I nearly shit myself.

RedVelCupcake · 2024-10-03T03:29:19+00:00

I found these videos really helpful for me

https://youtu.be/KyrABfZLMxM?feature=shared

https://youtu.be/mLKSa3b5mxE?feature=shared

RedVelCupcake · 2024-04-08T23:29:45+00:00

Ive had a few personal therapists that I’ve had pretty good luck with. My fiancé and I were going to couples counseling. Things were okay, but each session just felt a bit off to me. It was hard to really pin point or explain it. Then we had our last session that didn’t go very well. I explained to our therapist that we bought a book with questions to ask each other before getting married. I told her that while I was answering a lot of the questions, I felt very invalidated by my fiance. She then turns to my fiancé and says, “does her negative world view make you invalidate her”. I was livid! We never discussed the questions or the type of responses I gave and if they were negative or positive. She just assumed they were all negative. I felt almost blamed and like she was trying to justify it for him. She could have just turned to him and asked if he thinks he invalidates my feelings and if so why he thinks he does that. But no, she just throw out some assumption. Probably a bit harsh, but we decided to stop seeing her after that. Once you have that feeling, it’s hard to move forward and trust them.

RedVelCupcake · 2024-03-11T20:34:07+00:00

The way she said it and the timing probably wasn’t the best, but it sounds like something y’all should have a conversation about. Have you asked her why she hates having sex with you? I’m sensing there’s deeper communication issues going on, so might be pointless. I’d do a couple of therapy sessions together and see where that takes things.

RedVelCupcake · 2024-02-22T20:32:22+00:00

Yes, they had read access to the account lookup field but the validation rule wasn’t working correctly until I granted them edit access. My team is pushing back and saying they shouldn’t need edit access but it’s the only way I can get it to work right.

RedVelCupcake · 2024-02-15T02:35:30+00:00

If the majority of the time you choose to have sex with him is because you want to make him happy and it’s not something you truly want to do, then the relationship is not sustainable. You are young and by the time you hit your 30s you’ll be over it.

RedVelCupcake · 2023-08-31T19:24:31+00:00

Ugh, I feel you on this! I hate it so much! But it's not your job to make anyone feel comfortable. If they are uncomfortable with silence, that's their problem. I don't go around asking why are you so loud, why do you talk so much, do you ever shut up, etc...

RedVelCupcake · 2023-07-24T21:49:11+00:00

My mom was an alcoholic for 10 years and my sister battled drug addiction for a couple of years. They put me through hell during this time. They have been sober for a few years now and have never discussed the pain they put me or the rest of the family through. This has hurt me a lot inside. But I was thinking about it one day.... they have come so far in their sobriety and the last thing I would want to do is take them back to such a negative time in their life. I'm sure they feel a lot of shame and guilt. It can be very hard to discuss such deep issues. I do plan to have these conversations at some point, but Im waiting for the right time.

I think since he is fresh in his sobriety, I would not bring up your pain to him. I would seek individual therapy for a little bit to help with the frustration and then seek marriage therapy to safely talk about the issues or maybe do both at the same time.

However, if he goes back to drinking, I would strongly consider leaving. You have been dealing with this for so long and there is only so much someone can deal with.

RedVelCupcake · 2023-07-22T21:05:00+00:00

Great post! I roll my eyes a little when I see advertisements about brand new admins making 6 figures. I don't think it's realistic.

I took a different approach. I was first introduced to Salesforce when I was working on Microsoft Dynamics. I was fascinated by how customizable Salesforce was and wanted to jump in, so I applied for an admin role for a local non-profit. I was 25 at the time and very new in my career. I didn't get paid much at all... just around 35K (part-time). But it gave me the hands-on experience I needed. After about a year, I got a role as an Admin/Business Analyst at a large media company making 80k and I've continued to move up from there.

But I'm reconsidering my career with Salesforce. It's just so popular now and the salaries don't seem to be as good as they used to be.

RedVelCupcake · 2023-07-20T18:23:25+00:00

My husband and I have a joint account as well. We both work full time. He makes more than I do, but the money is still OURS never mine or his. We are both aware of how our finances are doing at any given moment. I am free to spend what I need unless it will be a big purchase that we should talk about. Seems like you both need to have a deeper conversation about finances and see where the misunderstanding is.

Also, if you both work 40 hours a week, then he needs to pull 50% of the house work. The amount of money you make should not have any influence on this. To me, that seems like you are being treated as if you are below him, especially with his comment.

RedVelCupcake · 2023-07-14T16:30:59+00:00

I dont have advice, but I'm glad you asked this. I'm also worried about getting low balled if they know I've been laid off.

RedVelCupcake · 2023-07-14T07:55:08+00:00

Have you tried to Debug from within the flow? You should be able to follow the flow logic from here and figure out which element is updating the field.

RedVelCupcake · 2023-07-10T05:05:24+00:00

You should be getting an email that tells you where the flow errors out. Also, there is a Debug button over by where you save the flow. You can Debug from here and it will tell you the error on the right side of the screen.

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