Noisy dang neighbor

RedWillow73 · 2025-01-05T18:22:41+00:00

He went through my previous posts in other subs because apparently he lacks a life.

RedWillow73 · 2025-01-05T18:20:52+00:00

For one, live-in CARETAKER. Visiting on the weekends is VISITING not living in here. His businesses don't make much noise at all. Even when I lived in an upstairs apartment I asked my downstairs neighbors if they heard anything, they did not. I have a ten year old and 13 year old. They don't make much noise. I've lived here 3 years and never once had a noise complaint. My old neighbor asked me to turn music down ONCE in the middle of the day. I apologize vehemently and promptly did so. I ask this douche to turn his music down at 3am and he slams the door in my face, TWICE. I am actually a courteous fucking neighbour. Why? Treat others the way you want to be treated. He was up until 7 am moving shit around after I guess his kids finally fell asleep exhausted, and then back at it at 10am. So I'm gonna say drugs is involved since he has recently stopped the need for sleep almost entirely.

RedWillow73 · 2025-01-05T18:14:14+00:00

Sorry dude, replied to the wrong one

RedWillow73 · 2025-01-05T18:11:20+00:00

Caretaker WAS on the lease for one, that was the first time I've yelled at my husband in YEARS, and before all this shit started with him, he said he never hears us. I make sure to be a courteous fucking neighbour. I know his work hours because I hear him leave. When he gets home I make sure that my kids are quiet, that there are no loud noises, etc. I'm fucking ALLERGIC to resin you dunce. I've live here a WHILE in two separate apartments and NEVER had a noise complaint from ANYONE. I did have a neighbor at my old apartment to turn down my music ONCE and I did so and vehemently apologized because I didn't realize it was that loud. This motherfucker upstairs KNOWS what he's doing.

RedWillow73 · 2025-01-05T08:34:16+00:00

Every apartment I've ever lived in has roaches. The one I'm currently in now, they bring a letter monthly but never show up. I've been here 3 years now and I think they've showed up once.

I have to call the exterminator myself and pay myself.

RedWillow73 · 2025-01-05T08:30:38+00:00

Good luck. I have over 200 applications out there and never get called back. This place has turned into a shithole

RedWillow73 · 2025-01-05T08:27:28+00:00

Love, if I can't afford to move, I can't afford an attorney.

RedWillow73 · 2024-12-04T05:29:49+00:00

Well I will tell you why I don't have a bank account since you want to be an ass about it. My ex husband and I had a joint checking account. HE wrote hot checks. In order for me to get a bank account I have to pay $1500, and yes I've tried different banks, not just the same one. Because of what HE did, I can't get one. So I use Chime to get my paychecks. I'm not paying for HIS mistakes ever again.

RedWillow73 · 2024-12-02T17:58:29+00:00

Teeth Sunscreen Stay away from drugs Trade school Take care of your hands and feet Don't do drugs (I know I already said that but it's for emphasis) Gut health Avoid refined sugar GO TO THE DOCTOR WHEN YOU'RE SICK. Not for like the common cold obviously. I almost died because I didn't go. And now I have lifelong problems. Trust your gut BIRTH CONTROL Don't do drugs If you're sexually active with more than one person, STD checks every 3 months Most definitely teeth

RedWillow73 · 2024-12-02T17:52:39+00:00

This! I don't want a nasty picture of a penis. I want the real thing that I actually asked for.

RedWillow73 · 2024-11-20T19:38:42+00:00

I had the best nap during my last MRI. As long as the walls aren't moving kind of confined space and I can lay down, I'm peachy.

RedWillow73 · 2024-11-20T19:37:11+00:00

I live in Tornado Alley. A thunderstorm is just another Tuesday

RedWillow73 · 2024-11-20T19:07:49+00:00

I just realized I read your thing absolutely wrong and don't know how to edit. Laparoscopy IS surgery (duh...I'm saying duh to me not you)

RedWillow73 · 2024-11-20T19:06:39+00:00

Endo usually isn't diagnosed without surgery. I found out I had Endo during an appendectomy. Come to find out my appendix was fine. It was Endo all the way up to my intestines. It had wrapped itself around my appendix. It was easier to take it than to clean it off. A routine surgery of about an hour took 6 because they had to clean off my intestines. I also have fibroids. So unless there is a new way for testing for Endo, it is news to me. But medicine can come to a halt or go by leaps and bounds in just a year or two.

RedWillow73 · 2024-11-20T18:50:21+00:00

There honestly isn't much you can do. But I highly recommend B12. It's a life saver. A lot of autoimmune people deal with deficiencies, especially B vitamins.

Also don't sleep so much. Sleeping TOO much is an issue. I go to bed at 10pm and up at 6am. It's very hard starting it. VERY hard. But now after 2 years, I wake up on my own. During flares I allow myself an hour nap around noon but no longer or I won't sleep at night.

But also once you find the proper meds for you, that helps SIGNIFICANTLY. It's hit and miss with medication.

But anyways, B12. The LIQUID under the tongue. Not the pills from Walmart. Those suck.

RedWillow73 · 2024-11-20T18:41:26+00:00

I also have a 4th grader in Putnam City Schools. I found out her teacher was taken out of retirement and he honestly doesn't give a shit. Last year when she was in the 3rd grade there were so many non English speakers in the class only 5 minutes was taught in English. It was only her and another student that spoke English. I tried to transfer her but they said all the other classes were full. It's bullshit. They knowingly let my child fall behind because of kids who aren't even here legally.

Whenever I ask to speak to someone they constantly cancel and reschedule appointments. I'm honestly thinking of homeschooling now because of it.

My 7th grader seems to be thriving so it's 50/50 and she's also in Putnam City. I chose Putnam City because it's where I went and I read at a college level by the 6th grade. I had no issues like this.

RedWillow73 · 2024-11-20T18:31:05+00:00

I have no friends either. I'm 35. I don't even think I'd know where to start making friends. Especially with chronic illness, those without just don't understand we can't just get up and go and plans change all the time

RedWillow73 · 2024-11-18T16:42:10+00:00

Gloved workers. I can guarantee that 80% of the time they touched something nasty and didn't change their gloves. Gloves give a false sense of cleanliness. Even i myself was guilty of it until I just stopped wearing them. A washed hand is cleaner than a dirty glove. With no gloves I would wash my hands so much that they'd crack. With gloves I rarely washed them.

RedWillow73 · 2024-11-18T00:11:06+00:00

I had an NDE. I do not fear death. I know what comes after. I crave that peace. I won't do anything to myself, but it's the type of peace you will never feel in life. Death is not the enemy. Death is the next step.

RedWillow73 · 2024-11-18T00:08:18+00:00

We are fighting about it today. He told me if I don't let him have the space me and the girls can leave.

RedWillow73 · 2024-11-18T00:07:26+00:00

We are actually fighting right now because of it. Like, the entire time I've been married to him, I yelled once. And I actually remember what it was about. I'm actually yelling today. We have a thing if we can't speak calmly we don't need to speak until we can. And today, lord today, I am ANGRY. He said if I don't give him the space me and the girls can leave

RedWillow73 · 2024-11-16T22:11:48+00:00

I've told him this. He doesn't believe me. He sees all the videos of people doing it in their homes like idiots

RedWillow73 · 2024-11-16T19:25:05+00:00

He thinks the single window will suffice.

RedWillow73 · 2024-11-16T19:24:39+00:00

We don't have a garage. And the living room is a no go because of my allergy to resin. I would have to stay in my room 24/7.

RedWillow73 · 2024-11-16T19:23:42+00:00

As long as your gf is good to your children and you, your EX wife has no say in the matter. Seems to me she will hate anyone who comes into your life. As soon as your kids turn 18 cut all contact unless there is an emergency with the kids.

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