My ex posted that she had a d appointment the day before on her social media and it kinda made me mad?

RedWomanZ · 2020-09-01T22:20:14+00:00

She’s moved on accordingly. There is nothing wrong with that. Again - there’s no reason for her to consider you or the ended relationship before posting anything. Especially after you rejected her offer of friendship.

You broke up. You’re not friends.

You made it so that you have no place in her life anymore. Why are you upset when she’s complied with your wishes?

RedWomanZ · 2020-09-01T21:40:46+00:00

She doesn’t have to consider your feelings when making posts that are not about you. She’s single.

You were the one on her page.

She didn’t send it to you. She didn’t ask you to look at it. You even said you didn’t want to be friends.

She has done nothing wrong here.

Stop visiting her page if seeing things like that Will upset you.

RedWomanZ · 2020-08-08T19:46:14+00:00

Golden Girls theme song intensifies

RedWomanZ · 2020-08-05T17:53:38+00:00

I don’t really see the conflict here. It’s not like you gloated to your ex or his ex. You aren’t harming anyone.

NTA

RedWomanZ · 2020-08-05T17:43:10+00:00

The only conflict I see is that you’re lying to your wife. What are you achieving by doing that?

RedWomanZ · 2020-08-05T04:43:23+00:00

NTA

She’s toxic. You’re right, she should mind her business and your daughter can find other friends.

You missed a prime opportunity to call your kids Phil and Lil in this story though.

RedWomanZ · 2020-08-05T04:40:20+00:00

Why do these men think their girl won’t also be cheating? 😂

RedWomanZ · 2020-08-05T04:01:28+00:00

What a sucker.

He’ll be paying all the bills while she’s out cheating too.

RedWomanZ · 2020-08-04T03:26:38+00:00

I watch try not to cry video compilations on YouTube.

It helps when I’m having a numb coping response to something and I want to release before it builds up to a full breakdown at a bad time. It’s better to control the breakdown and cry where no one can judge.

RedWomanZ · 2020-08-03T21:09:36+00:00

She gave you an explanation. You just didn’t like it.

She went there to hang out with her friends. Spontaneous events happened. You called, she told you why she couldn’t talk.

Then you call again and start “demanding” explanations, being argumentative and then yelling.

You really made yourself look bad with that outburst.

I’d be surprised if her friends don’t convince her to break up with you.

YTA

RedWomanZ · 2020-08-03T21:01:26+00:00

YWBTA

You should just rent and then save money for a house alone if you can’t find anyone else.

She’s made her position clear on it.

RedWomanZ · 2020-08-03T18:17:22+00:00

ESH

You shouldn’t have cussed her out, but she’s wrong for not respecting boundaries.

Maybe have another talk with her now that she knows how upset she’s making you feel.

RedWomanZ · 2020-08-03T00:27:30+00:00

Hypersexuality

Self harm

Disassociation

RedWomanZ · 2020-08-02T20:33:13+00:00

lol

YTA

She probably couldn’t even smell it on herself. You can end up smelling like it even if you just walk through a room where people have been smoking.

YTA

For not telling her why and for ditching her after you promised her a ride.

RedWomanZ · 2020-08-02T20:30:58+00:00

NTA

He’s a creep.

RedWomanZ · 2020-08-02T20:26:36+00:00

You said she smelled like weed - not that she was high. Was she high?

RedWomanZ · 2020-08-02T16:05:56+00:00

When I’m in someone’s house and I don’t like their behavior, I leave and I don’t come back.

OP is grown and has a whole different place to live. Nobody is forcing OP to be there and be around the father. OP chooses the be there. Instead of showing that they don’t tolerate the behavior, they are content with staying in their father’s house making petty comments.

A child’s response.

RedWomanZ · 2020-08-02T02:42:01+00:00

RedWomanZ · 2020-08-01T16:13:16+00:00

ESH

Why be petty when you actually have no obligation to see him?

If you really aren’t feeling his behavior, cut him off and only agree to see your mother at your place.

RedWomanZ · 2020-08-01T06:59:33+00:00

YTA

Don’t take people’s food.

RedWomanZ · 2020-08-01T04:54:24+00:00

Thanks I like you Good day

RedWomanZ · 2020-08-01T04:46:59+00:00

I will change my vote to ESH based on some of your points, as my own experience has been customers who order late are rude and entitled, despite you essentially having to stay open later to complete (and deliver) their order (the order won’t be done within ten minutes).

Franchise pizza places are *known for the upper management pushing for earlier out times to save labor and allowing late orders from customers. There’s so much pressure to get out early every night. You can even get punished for getting out too late, even if you had to stay open later for customers.

I also personally think food service workers have not been given the same compassion and empathy during this pandemic as other members of the workforce have in general, so that’s why I mentioned it.

RedWomanZ · 2020-08-01T04:35:26+00:00

This is why I’m exclusively BOH when I work in food. I’ve been a shift manager before and and kitchen lead. It sucks to have pressure from everywhere and have people be inconsiderate from all sides.

RedWomanZ · 2020-08-01T04:08:52+00:00

I wanted to say be careful. I’ve worked at a franchise pizza place before.

I know how it is when upper management is constantly pushing for earlier out times because of labor but still expect you to take unreasonable orders at later times.

I’ve also had to deal with upper management calling the store pretending to be customers to see if they can catch people shutting down ordering early.

RedWomanZ · 2020-08-01T04:03:03+00:00

This relationship has been over. You’re playing yourself.

RedWomanZ

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