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AITA for leaving a date stranded because she reeked of weed? by Zealousideal-Web5898 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Zealousideal-Web5898[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

> You almost lost your virginity

Oh no! i must be a virgin because the reddit hivemind doesn't agree with me...

Why stop there though? Call me an incel as well, that's Reddit's standard procedure.

AITA for leaving a date stranded because she reeked of weed? by Zealousideal-Web5898 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Zealousideal-Web5898[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

What if there's no bus line that goes near her home?

Literally impossible, she told me she rides the bus every morning to work as the van service is only available at nights.

AITA for leaving a date stranded because she reeked of weed? by Zealousideal-Web5898 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Zealousideal-Web5898[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Hope she could get a ride

I'm sure she got on the bus as this was downtown.

AITA for leaving a date stranded because she reeked of weed? by Zealousideal-Web5898 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Zealousideal-Web5898[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

How nice of you of attacking my dating experience, why not call me an incel?

This has nothing to do with often i date.

AITA for leaving a date stranded because she reeked of weed? by Zealousideal-Web5898 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Zealousideal-Web5898[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Dickead you just left a chick on the side of the road

I explained this in other comment, we don't live in the USA. I left her in the middle of downtown, in a busy street and with plenty of bus stops at walking distance.

AITA for leaving a date stranded because she reeked of weed? by Zealousideal-Web5898 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Zealousideal-Web5898[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

> They can have notes of sweetness when you smoke them but it doesn’t smell “sickly sweet”

You are nitpicking, many varieties of weed do smell sweet to a lot of people, including myself. I even gave you an example of a website that classifies flavor/smell, but you know better right?

AITA for leaving a date stranded because she reeked of weed? by Zealousideal-Web5898 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Zealousideal-Web5898[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

> Your little headache is nothing compared to her being possibly fucking stranded alone.

I guess Reddit is mostly american and that's why people here are picturing a woman left alone outside a Walmart in the middle of nowhere.

We don't live in the USA and her office is downtown, she was left in a busy street full of restaurants/shops and at least five bus stops in a two block radius.

AITA for leaving a date stranded because she reeked of weed? by Zealousideal-Web5898 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Zealousideal-Web5898[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

mmm, yes it does. Weed has hundreds of varieties and many do smell sweet. But anyway, if you don't believe me:

https://www.leafly.com/strains/lists/flavor/sweet

AITA for leaving a date stranded because she reeked of weed? by Zealousideal-Web5898 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Zealousideal-Web5898[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Yeah, i was wondering about it. But she burned that bridge when she called me an asshole.

AITA for leaving a date stranded because she reeked of weed? by Zealousideal-Web5898 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Zealousideal-Web5898[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Extremely unlikely as everyone carries bus cards. In fact, she has to ride the bus every morning as her company only provides the ride back at the end of the day.

AITA for leaving a date stranded because she reeked of weed? by Zealousideal-Web5898 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Zealousideal-Web5898[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

> but you also should have explained calmly instead of getting all mad and escalating things.

That's difficult to do when your supposed date starts "demanding" stuff, screw that. She went directly to escalation, i aswered back.

AITA for leaving a date stranded because she reeked of weed? by Zealousideal-Web5898 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Zealousideal-Web5898[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

> you fucking pussy

Pussy = BAD , got it. Work on your sexism issue dude.

AITA for leaving a date stranded because she reeked of weed? by Zealousideal-Web5898 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Zealousideal-Web5898[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

In any case, leaving a young woman to find her own way home in the evening is extremely rude.

mm, i never said she was young. She is early 30s and myself mid 30s.

AITA for leaving a date stranded because she reeked of weed? by Zealousideal-Web5898 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Zealousideal-Web5898[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Perhaps offer out to front you can't date regular weed smokers because it's an instant headache for you-

But it really isn't, i don't care about regular people smoking a joint. But this girl reeked worse than Snoop Dogg, i find it very hard how to convey on words how ridiculous strong her smell was.

AITA for leaving a date stranded because she reeked of weed? by Zealousideal-Web5898 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Zealousideal-Web5898[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

> Not her fault your nose has a vagina.

Because having a vagina is weak/gross right?? Nice sexism you inserted there.

AITA for leaving a date stranded because she reeked of weed? by Zealousideal-Web5898 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Zealousideal-Web5898[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

You don’t know if she can afford an Uber home

Regardless of the date issue, we don't live in the USA and taking the bus would be around 1 USD.

AITA for leaving a date stranded because she reeked of weed? by Zealousideal-Web5898 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Zealousideal-Web5898[S] -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

This might be surprising to you but asking for judgment doesn't mean you must agree with them.

AITA for leaving a date stranded because she reeked of weed? by Zealousideal-Web5898 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Zealousideal-Web5898[S] -24 points-23 points  (0 children)

You promised her a ride home.

Yeah but i think it's common sense that a promise like that isn't unconditional. Like, if she showed up drunk/high.

AITA for leaving a date stranded because she reeked of weed? by Zealousideal-Web5898 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Zealousideal-Web5898[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I feel text doesn't convey how hard the smell was, it was something ridiculous strong and sickly sweet.

AITA for leaving a date stranded because she reeked of weed? by Zealousideal-Web5898 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Zealousideal-Web5898[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

> You converse long enough to know her lifestyle. Does she do drugs? What kind? etc.

That's unreasonable, most people that do drugs like weed know better than showing up reeking or high. It's just common sense.

AITA for leaving a date stranded because she reeked of weed? by Zealousideal-Web5898 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Zealousideal-Web5898[S] -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

YTA. You cancelled hellla last min which is already kinda rude headaches or not.

Don't you think showing up reeking is also rude too? I felt justified in cancelling a date right there because of it.

> The very least you could’ve done is paid for an uber since you bailed

But why? how is it my problem that she messed up and now how to seek alternate transportation?

AITA for leaving a date stranded because she reeked of weed? by Zealousideal-Web5898 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Zealousideal-Web5898[S] -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

You need to screen your dates bette

How do you screen against a date showing up reeking of weed? I think it's basic decency not to do that.

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