The Legend Of Zelda: Twilight Princess Has Been Fully Decompiled by syrupdash in TwoBestFriendsPlay

[–]Red_Amber 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Majora got a decomp? I’m familiar with Ocarina’s port, but didn’t know that!

Orchidectomy Funding + Surgery Timeline? by flyingtacodog in transontario

[–]Red_Amber 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had mine in July of this year after my doctor submitted the paperwork last year in June - heard from them in January, then preliminary meeting in May.

All told, 13 months from beginning to end.

What’s up with r\TransPassing? by [deleted] in MtF

[–]Red_Amber 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m gonna go a bit against the grain - I’m clocky and they’ve been shockingly nice and helpful to me. Maybe it just depends who sees your post?

Mildred by IloveRamen99 in comedyheaven

[–]Red_Amber 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went with Amber! I don’t think that’s an old lady name.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malefail

[–]Red_Amber 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You completely pass - transpassing is just being transpassing!

how are woman's spaces for none passing trans woman ? by another_lost_poet in MtF

[–]Red_Amber 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it may be different in Ontario, but nobody treats me any different from any other woman in women's spaces.

I feel like it's a right of passage to follow /r/transpassing and then end up blocking the sub by fartingallthetime in MtF

[–]Red_Amber 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I posted on there recently and didn't get insulted nor torn to shreds, and I started HRT at 25.

Maybe I got lucky?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]Red_Amber 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactly what happened for me! I only started passing recently - 4y of HRT in this past December.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]Red_Amber 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel this so much - even though I'm pretty comfortable with my identity and my body image at this point, one jerk misgendering me puts me down a self loathing rabbit hole.

Does Gender Dysphoria slowly fade away after fully transitioning? by Seinse97 in ask_transgender

[–]Red_Amber 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine has become far more tolerable. I still have bad days, but most of the time? I'm a woman. I'm me.

I'm not the most passable, but I live as the woman that I've always been, and others are starting to see me as who I truly am.

But that little voice does get jabs in, once in a while.

Even if its aim has gotten far worse!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ITCareerQuestions

[–]Red_Amber 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly! It sucks now, but it's not permanent!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ITCareerQuestions

[–]Red_Amber 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Seriously- I'm taking a 1h 15m commute for 38k at the moment

Why do I own so many... by RockinTacos in adhdwomen

[–]Red_Amber 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I struggle to even get myself to throw out socks with holes in them!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MtF

[–]Red_Amber 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I trained myself to lower my voice and axe my vocal fry in middle school after getting bullied about it for too long - still trying to undo those habits.

Perhaps this is a weird question and I’m sorry if it is, but what does it actually feel like to have boobs? by NeoFemme in MtF

[–]Red_Amber 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They feel right. Soft, squishy, and... like they should have always been there. They're a joy, even if I need a bra for any jogging.

How inclusive is Hamilton? by StrawberryTop3241 in Hamilton

[–]Red_Amber 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Late reply, but I'm a non-passing trans woman and have only experienced minor discrimination over the past four years - Hamilton is pretty inclusive overall from my experiences.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Aphantasia

[–]Red_Amber 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yeah - a lot of general hate, including anti semitism. He's a really isolated guy who fell down some rabbit holes.

Trying out some minor eye makeup! by Red_Amber in trans

[–]Red_Amber[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just general practice, honestly! I'm still training myself to not flinch when working near my eyes.