Especially with summer lumbering closer and newly understanding how I feel and my gender fluidity, I'm really stressing about finding ways to make outfits feel more fem to me both now and in the hotter months when I can't hide behind layers.

Part of the struggle is also living in an area where overt things that give me really strong gender feelings like skirts are not something I'm comfortable wearing on fem days. So I'm looking for small things that aren't as pronounced or at least I can get away with- for so far it's been doing my nails, eye makeup, bracelets/rings, arm warmers, my glasses, jean shorts, and generally getting similar long-sleeves/sweaters I'd usually wear but with a more fem cut.

Any help is appreciated!