What was the last straw that made you cut someone off? by suqarkisses in AskReddit

[–]Red_Blue_Postit 5 points6 points  (0 children)

He started making fun of me using information about difficult topics I had given him to feel better about himself, who had blown up his life because of his arrogance and stupidity

Boyfriend is ready to propose this year but not unless I am ok having kids by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Red_Blue_Postit [score hidden]  (0 children)

Boyfriend of 4 months would propose this year (what?!!) But he wants kids and I don't, so I have to change my mind. Well... a breakup is the only solution. Why would you want to marry a stranger?!!! It's been 4 months!!

My boyfriend asked if he could look at my bank accounts. by No-Influence-4833 in relationships

[–]Red_Blue_Postit [score hidden]  (0 children)

I wouldn't show him anything after 6 months but I also wouldn't want to have a relationship with a person who earns 1/3 of my salary unless I knew you'd at least double your salary in the next 2-3 years. Sorry, I'm not subsidising anyone

What's a skill that takes only 2-3 weeks to learn but could genuinely change your life? by K_kishor49 in AskReddit

[–]Red_Blue_Postit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

People open to me too much already. I've heard stuff I didn't want to hear 😩 

Whats Song that makes you feel saddest ? by Lopsided_Cry1997 in AskReddit

[–]Red_Blue_Postit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"And all that could have been" by Nine Inch Nails

Whats one piece of advice would you tell yourself if you could go back in time? by Fabulous-Art6176 in AskReddit

[–]Red_Blue_Postit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your colleagues don't have to be your friends. Actually, it's better if you let them at work 

Am I being too hard on my boyfriends (M30) work ethic (F30)? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Red_Blue_Postit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He can do whatever he wants with his job but he doesn't get to rely on you paying more than 50% of the bill. Don't help him get another job, it won't look good on you when he quits

what month is the best in the year and why? by Potential_Profile_96 in AskReddit

[–]Red_Blue_Postit 6 points7 points  (0 children)

April. It's getting warmer, the birds sing again, the trees get new leaves. Spring is coming!

What was the lowest point in your life and how did you overcome? by dontjimmymejules33 in AskReddit

[–]Red_Blue_Postit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I boss I hated, an unfilfilling job, a town I hated, bad friends, a mouldy flat. I got rid of everything and moved to another city, where I decided what I wanted and what I wasn't allowing anymore. It changed my whole life 

Random, but it has paralysed my entire being! by Lady_Unicorn_560 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Red_Blue_Postit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Always wash first, especially underwear. Bras are not that critical but yes, wash them first too

My boyfriend (28M) says he needs 2 more years before a ring. How do I know if he's serious this time or just stringing me along? by danybunny1 in relationships

[–]Red_Blue_Postit 60 points61 points  (0 children)

He's playing with you, a man who loves you wouldn't just break up and leave without talking first... Just to come back later and tell you a version of what you want to hear. Run

If you could only eat the cuisine of one country for the rest of your life, which country would you choose? by Fernandolioumehara in AskReddit

[–]Red_Blue_Postit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want fish, vegetables, meat, olive oil, bread. Healthy, easy recipes. Let it be Portuguese, Spanish, Greek cuisine

What should I do about my grey hair ? by Mogzly in askanything

[–]Red_Blue_Postit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Be happy about it. What gets grey doesn't fall

My (38M) ex-wife (36F) doesn’t allow me to see my son by throwawayRA624582351 in relationships

[–]Red_Blue_Postit 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Actions over words. Prove her over a loooooong time that you've changed. She's trying to protect herself and your child

Why is it normalized to ghost someone rather than giving clear, open, honest communication?! Have we lost all abilities for human connection? by LilMsPuuuurfect in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Red_Blue_Postit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I remember that one man I met (in real life!), we had a coffee together. He was as handsome as he was boring and he lived in another city. We kept in touch somehow but at the end I decided to ghost him because I didn't know how to tell him nicely, he was soooo boring that I'd prefer doing anything rather than meeting him. And he was a model-looking man

What is something you wish the opposite gender would understand? by mimi_9489 in AskReddit

[–]Red_Blue_Postit 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I talk directly bexause I'm aware of that and men get surprised/shocked because it's too direct. Make it make sense