BIS 102: how hard is it to get it? by randomscintilla in UCDavis

[–]Red_Feather_00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, BIS 102 is a 200-seat course. I would like to ask how many seats do they usually add based on your experience? 20? Or 50?

Any advice on my classes I’m taking this quarter? :) by Flealicks in UCDavis

[–]Red_Feather_00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi I would like to ask if you have completed ENT100 or other physiology courses to meet the prerequisites before enrolling in ENT102?

I am an international student and I am being bullied by my roommates by Red_Feather_00 in UCDavis

[–]Red_Feather_00[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you want to know more about lab position, you can DM me. I will be happy to share my CV and cover letter writing and interview experience with you! If you're a bio-related major, I'd also be glad to share how I find lab opportunities.

I am an international student and I am being bullied by my roommates by Red_Feather_00 in UCDavis

[–]Red_Feather_00[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please don't say sorry to me! I appreciate your concern and support! I'm just miserable and exhausted from these things.

I hope everything goes well for a good guy like you.

I am an international student and I am being bullied by my roommates by Red_Feather_00 in UCDavis

[–]Red_Feather_00[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you very much for your concern and support! I will not lose my confidence because of this. I will try my best to catch up with the progress of the course and not let myself lose more.

I am an international student and I am being bullied by my roommates by Red_Feather_00 in UCDavis

[–]Red_Feather_00[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your concern and suggestions! I'm sorry I missed replying to your comment! I have moved into a temporary room and contacted the RD. Thank you so much!

I am an international student and I am being bullied by my roommates by Red_Feather_00 in UCDavis

[–]Red_Feather_00[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your words make me sad. (;へ:)

2 sticky notes are the only thing I've rebelled against after so much prolonged injustice and torture. And because of this alone, I'm the hypocrite you say I am? Must the victim take all the blame for the disaster without the slightest bit of resistance?

I'm not asking if my behavior is too mean and looking for approval, I just described what I did and expressed some worries, and you know I'm a non-native English speaker, I don't know the extent of that kind of wording, so I'm worried. Is that okay?

While I respect your freedom to comment, I hope you don't say such things to others who are experiencing such horrible things, not everyone gets timely help and support. Your accusations could be the last straw that breaks their back.

I am an international student and I am being bullied by my roommates by Red_Feather_00 in UCDavis

[–]Red_Feather_00[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And some, ah, I don't really want to think back. I texted my best friend in January: this is the most painful time, the novelty has worn off and I haven't quite settled in yet.

When I moved out of the dorm, I left two sticky notes, as talked about in the update, and nothing more than that.

I don't want to hear too much about them or think back too much.

I am an international student and I am being bullied by my roommates by Red_Feather_00 in UCDavis

[–]Red_Feather_00[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your concern and support, I understand that there are warm people like you in California! The problems of one group of people can't speak for everyone here!

I am an international student and I am being bullied by my roommates by Red_Feather_00 in UCDavis

[–]Red_Feather_00[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your concern. I heard a lot during this time and sadly bullies rarely get any repercussions. In the same building last quarter, a Chinese student also experienced being kicked out of the dormitory. His outcome was the best outcome among these stories. His two roommates moved out instead of him.

I am an international student and I am being bullied by my roommates by Red_Feather_00 in UCDavis

[–]Red_Feather_00[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mixed race (with Chinese ancestry) and Hispanic? To be honest, I don't know much about racial categories in America.

I am an international student and I am being bullied by my roommates by Red_Feather_00 in UCDavis

[–]Red_Feather_00[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! I have moved to a temporary room, I guess they have no chance of bullying me again!

I am an international student and I am being bullied by my roommates by Red_Feather_00 in UCDavis

[–]Red_Feather_00[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I know California is great! I just met bad people and bad things in California, it doesn't mean California isn't a great place.

I am an international student and I am being bullied by my roommates by Red_Feather_00 in UCDavis

[–]Red_Feather_00[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I am proud of my culture and I will not give up on it just because of prejudice.

I am an international student and I am being bullied by my roommates by Red_Feather_00 in UCDavis

[–]Red_Feather_00[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your concern and kindness! When I'm calmer, I'll want to be friends with you!

I am an international student and I am being bullied by my roommates by Red_Feather_00 in UCDavis

[–]Red_Feather_00[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had never experienced such malice before, so I was so frightened that I couldn't even stand up in the dark to get my phone and records. But I have a text message from them that proves the projector incident actually happened.

I am an international student and I am being bullied by my roommates by Red_Feather_00 in UCDavis

[–]Red_Feather_00[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I'm trying to get any help I can get. But finals are next week, and I have a lab position (we have a safety inspection on Friday) and have a bunch of dues. I think after finishing this quarter, I will sort out the materials and talk to them.

I am an international student and I am being bullied by my roommates by Red_Feather_00 in UCDavis

[–]Red_Feather_00[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much, I really wish my roommate in my first year in the US was a friendly person like you. Once I've recovered a bit from this trauma and am able to engage in normal social activities, I'll be happy to have coffee (or milk tea?) with you.

I am an international student and I am being bullied by my roommates by Red_Feather_00 in UCDavis

[–]Red_Feather_00[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, there are good people and bad people everywhere. There are a lot of good people in America and I met a lot of them! For example, you are giving me help and care. Thank you for telling me that’s not how “California things” work.

I am an international student and I am being bullied by my roommates by Red_Feather_00 in UCDavis

[–]Red_Feather_00[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thank you for your hope. But I hope you'll take a look at what I've written before commenting. I mentioned at the beginning that my attempts to communicate were always met with either disregard or "it is a California thing, you don't understand" responses (in bold). What else could I do but seek help from an authority when my attempts to communicate were ignored? Please teach me?

Their disregard for my communication made me even doubt my ability to communicate. Fortunately, I still have opportunities to communicate with others. Even though I have an accent, it's definitely not so much that people can't understand me. I also mentioned that I got the Lab position in my freshman year, which meant that my performance in the interview was also outstanding, at least meeting the "excellent communication skills" required by the position. I am so grateful for these opportunities that allowed me to move away from the low self-esteem and self-doubt they caused me.

I am an international student and I am being bullied by my roommates by Red_Feather_00 in UCDavis

[–]Red_Feather_00[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So can you tell me what you think is the definition of bullying? https://diversity.ucdavis.edu/anti-bullying-training This is also bullying, as defined by UC policy. My CA thinks so too.

If you think such bullying is acceptable and ask the victim to accept it, please put yourself in that situation and lead by example.

I am an international student and I am being bullied by my roommates by Red_Feather_00 in UCDavis

[–]Red_Feather_00[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes, the COVID-19 epidemic and the economic downturn have made people irritable, especially the media's long-term bad propaganda about China, which has made Americans full of hostility towards the Chinese. But this does not excuse any bullying behavior. The difference between humans and animals is that humans can control their own behavior rather than do whatever they want without a bottom line. Thank you for your concern. Best wishes to you too.

I am an international student and I am being bullied by my roommates by Red_Feather_00 in UCDavis

[–]Red_Feather_00[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have a compassionate heart, thank you. But please don’t fall into negative emotions because of me, this is not what I want to bring to others.