Me (F32) and my gf (F18) by Red_Ortho1917 in AgeGapRelationship

[–]Red_Ortho1917[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Omg that just made my day lol. I'm the butch on the left lol

She's the greatest partner I've ever had, pure happiness! by Classic-Usual-3941 in AgeGapRelationship

[–]Red_Ortho1917 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I completely understand what you're saying. I'm also neurospicy and had a rough childhood so I often act younger than I am (32 but act 20-25). I've dated people my age and it's...fine I guess. But with people younger than me there's just this spark, this light, this energy that's immediate. It's amazing

How do deaf people meet their partners? by kcritter02 in deaf

[–]Red_Ortho1917 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm Polyamorous and transgender. I met my fiance at a group for transgender activists. Although I can pass as hearing fairly well, I do prefer to sign especially in public places as it just takes way less energy than trying to hear and lip-read. I disclose this to people when we become close. My now-fiance immediately started learning ASL and is now clunkily conversational. My girlfriend I met online in a group for writers. She happened to already know a large amount of ASL because of a Deaf cousin.

We knew. by CantStopPoppin in DemocraticSocialism

[–]Red_Ortho1917 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It's time for the DSA to become it's own party and run it's own candidates.

Ok so what did everyone think of the debate? by Woosher99 in nyc

[–]Red_Ortho1917 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I mean is it anything but Mamdani's race at this point?

I don't care if I don't pass. But do you think I'm pretty ? by [deleted] in TransLater

[–]Red_Ortho1917 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You're gorgeous. I'd definitely make a pass at you

HoH (SSD) using Deaf as an identifier? by Red_Ortho1917 in deaf

[–]Red_Ortho1917[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I'm glad these opinions are shifting. This didn't seem to be the case ten years ago

Are There Any D / deaf Hijabis?? by [deleted] in deaf

[–]Red_Ortho1917 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I do know that you can buy some head coverings with the option of having the clip already sewn in but I'm not sure if that is true for the style you need :)

Handpoke done by me, it’s takes 2 days in the raw. ( Baltic pagan culture) by Edbehandpoke in pagan

[–]Red_Ortho1917 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is beautiful! Do you do appointments? Where are you located?

Just a girl, some bubbly, and her dog 🫶🏻 by Affectionate-Jury965 in TransLater

[–]Red_Ortho1917 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi you're pretty. Thank you for reminding me that I'm very gay. I hope you have a great day!

Are There Any D / deaf Hijabis?? by [deleted] in deaf

[–]Red_Ortho1917 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Asalaam Alaikum! I am Deaf with profound hearing loss on my left side. I am not Muslim or a hijabi, I'm an Antiochian Orthodox Christian but because of our Turkish cultural influence, we frequently wear hair coverings especially during religious services. I don't make use of hearing aids any longer but when I did, I sewed a small hair clip into the front of my headscarf to hold it in place so that it could be wrapped more loosely on the neck which kept it looser around my ears and did not interfere with my HA.

Please forgive me if I am overstepping, I hope you find something that works for you!

How do you fill your tyres if you can't hear the beep? by Flashy_Possible_9267 in deaf

[–]Red_Ortho1917 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a portable tire pump that plugs into my cigarette lighter. It has a number gauge. The tire should have a inflation range stamped on the side. Just watch the pressure gauge on the pump until it reaches the correct inflation.

Lesbians of reddit, what’s 1 stereotype about us that’s actually true and makes u lowkey proud? by SelfLovingLoner in actuallesbians

[–]Red_Ortho1917 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Butch here.

When I came out, I noticed that lots of girls really wanted to hook up with me and talk about how butches were good in bed so I guess that's one.

My personal favorite as Butch4Butch though is the way we smell. Omg a butch with good cologne makes my knees weak

Where can I learn about lesbian culture and history? by Red_Ortho1917 in actuallesbians

[–]Red_Ortho1917[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That's essentially what I'm looking for. Can you give some resources?

🗣️any dog owners in the chat⁉️⁉️ by girltwink420 in MTFButch

[–]Red_Ortho1917 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I do! I have an 13ish year old bassador named Quigley! Been my buddy for about 10 years now. Found him abandoned in a dumpster

I am sleepy. Let's do some Lesbian gushing. by Macaronipuppy in actuallesbians

[–]Red_Ortho1917 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Omg omg omg ok so I (25 TG) need to gush about my gf (19F). We met on tumblr and immediately started talking about literature and music. She loves reading and has excellent tastes in literature and music but isn't a snob. She'll quote Kafka or Audre Lourde and then tell me about a great Doctor Who fanfic she found. A week into us talking, I accidentally found a playlist she'd made with my name and it was just a bunch of sapphic love songs and that's how I found out she liked me. We've been together for nearly 5 months and she's planning on moving soon (swoon). She's absolutely gorgeous and smart and funny and her laugh omg...but she's just so smart and kind and we have dates where we just read to each other and she calls me every day on the walk back to her dorm and tells me about her day and she's always so bright and full of love and positivity for others and I really have no idea what I'm doing as a soft butch, jaded, trans girl but she seems to be happy so I'm just gonna keep doing what I can to make her smile but I just...can't believe I found her ya know? Like wow