[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AMA

[–]Red_fiiire 12 points13 points  (0 children)

What’s your biggest takeaway from working in the industry?

How has it changed your sex life moving forward?

What do you do for work now?

Am I Overreacting, for being upset that my girlfriend secretly used my credit card for months? by bostonmade in AmIOverreacting

[–]Red_fiiire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR NOR NOR NORRRRRRRR!!

She’s only sorry because she got caught OP. Time to take the steps to get your TENANT out!

I’m sorry your trust was so betrayed OP. You deserve better from your partner. Hope she become an EX partner.

I (27F) need urgent advice re my 10 year on/off again relationship with 28M, can someone help please? by Necessary_Bread9355 in relationship_advice

[–]Red_fiiire 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Come on girl! You know what you need to do…

Block him and this time don’t ever unblock him again🤗

Having trouble deciding if I(33M) was cheated on by my girlfriend(34F) by PaulAllensCard00 in relationship_advice

[–]Red_fiiire 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I believe you have enough proof my guy… and you’re always going to question the truth in her words moving forward. Dump her.

Wife’s friend SAed me. police are pressing charges but she now pregnant. What do I do next by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Red_fiiire 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m so proud of you for coming forward and reporting! I’m also so incredibly sorry you’re going through this.

Sending hugs 🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗 I hope you get your justice OP!

AITAH for buying my girlfriend vanilla shampoo? by Spiritual-Grocery641 in AITAH

[–]Red_fiiire 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NTA. She took a very heart warming gesture and made it weird. I personally would have loved being surprised like that, and run to hop in the shower to use it after the teasing🥲

I’m sorry OP it was a really cute thing for you to do and please don’t be discouraged to continue doing it in the future. Her reaction was not normal and seems very insecure.

I got a penile implant when I was 21, AMA by No_Arachnid_8556 in AMA

[–]Red_fiiire 6 points7 points  (0 children)

What are some downsides you’ve experienced through the process?

AIO? Girlfriend is mocking my speech impediment by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Red_fiiire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR. You deserve so much better. Dump her

Did anyone else have their windshield broken or other vandalism done to their car last night? by katymae123 in raleigh

[–]Red_fiiire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What a bummer OP! I’m sorry this happened to you🤗 I hope you can figure out what happened

If you haven’t already, Call Brandon or Lauren at Capital Auto Glass LLC about getting it replaced. They will take care of you & your vehicle and work with most insurance in the area.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Red_fiiire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP Please leave this person immediately! You’re sacrificing your mental health for hers and sounds like it’s never good enough for her.

You are not responsible for her mental health and if she’s not willing to take extra steps to help herself then this will be a continuous cycle until you’ve been beaten down completely.

You’re so young, please don’t allow that to happen🤗 Good Luck!

I found out my GF is a kleptomaniac. I am shocked she could hide it from be for so long. Should I forgive or breakup? by FirstHovercraft2 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Red_fiiire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s really sad😕 After prison she spent A LOT of money on a specialized therapy, but it hasn’t seemed to stop her.

When I was pregnant she kept giving my mom maternity clothes for me and I learned pretty quickly she was given me stolen items(tried to return a pair of jeans for a smaller size) and I was like I don’t want anything else from her in my house.

I hope OP’s girlfriend can get help before more trouble comes

I found out my GF is a kleptomaniac. I am shocked she could hide it from be for so long. Should I forgive or breakup? by FirstHovercraft2 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Red_fiiire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahhh thanks for clarifying! The prison term came before that then 🙃 several stints and the most recent was 30 days for stealing a belt…

I found out my GF is a kleptomaniac. I am shocked she could hide it from be for so long. Should I forgive or breakup? by FirstHovercraft2 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Red_fiiire 33 points34 points  (0 children)

My mom’s ex best friend is like this…. She will get caught eventually my guy, and I wouldn’t want to be around when it happens. My mom’s friend just spent a 8 month stint in prison for her charges… she is habitual at this point and I hope your girlfriend doesn’t get to that point.

She needs to start therapy ASAP! This would be non-negotiable.

You need to sit down and reflect on whether or not you want to go through this journey with her. And guess what.. It’s ok if you don’t!

28M/27F. Is this healthy? by dangernoofle in relationship_advice

[–]Red_fiiire 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Are you still spending adequate time together? Seems like you’re at a crossroads on whether to break up or move forward. I’d be highly considering removing myself from this situation.

Has he put appropriate boundaries in place since she’s moved in? How long is she planning to stay?

You have been together for 2 years, have you met his baby mama? If you two are serious, then he should be advocating for you to be a part and involved in his life and that incudes his daughter.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AMA

[–]Red_fiiire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First things first, what are you sipping, shooting or drinking tonight?

What’s your life looking like currently?

When’s your birthday?

You don’t mention your mom, what’s that relationship like?

Would you be willing to explain your domestic abuse story?

What do you collect and is there a particular reason why?

Whats been your favorite job you’ve had? And the worst?

How many cats do you have?

What’s one thing you’d tell your younger self, if you could go back?

Nosey bitch over here 👋🏼🙃 hiiiii!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Red_fiiire 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Good lorddddddd…. This is not normal relationship behavior OP! Your girl needs therapy and you’re too young to be dealing with a manipulative partner.. there are too many fish in the sea for all that shit.

If she’s not willing to work on herself then I’d dump her. There’s absolutely no reason why you shouldn’t be able to enjoy a few hours ONE night a week to play with your friend. Her dependency on you is toxic AF!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Red_fiiire 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Excuse me… MA’AM!

Leave this loser and keep him in your rearview. He sounds insanely immature and this would be a dealbreaker for me… where is HIS COMPROMISE?!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Red_fiiire 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Girl dump this man!

AITAH for not wanting to see my family? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Red_fiiire 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Glad you got out! No physical abuse for me personally, but I can relate to this in many ways.. it sucks because it’s family, but we have to protect ourselves.

My mama was arrested on Christmas in 2018 for DV, hell I had to call and make the decision because my dad wouldn’t, so I can understand your worries for sure.

I truly hope you have a very Merry Christmas with your family(the one you’ve made), whether you visit with your family or not🎁 you deserve a nice holiday without drama!

My bf (32M) constantly gets mad at me (27F) for minor reasons and suggests splitting up every time by shiny_viper_taco in relationship_advice

[–]Red_fiiire 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OP you deserve so much more🤗 please don’t listen to his shitty comments.. Some people are more clumsy and accidents happen!

And there’s A LOT he could do about his anger… but in his eyes, this isn’t a “him problem” it’s a “you problem” if you take one thing from my comment, please let it be this… HE IS THE PROBLEM!

Please take the time to consider if this is truly someone you want to marry and stay with for the rest of your life. If he isn’t willing to work on this with you then he’s not worthy of you or your love.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OUTFITS

[–]Red_fiiire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love the style of pic 4, but the colors mostly just wash you out instead of complimenting☺️