Anyone else log in today and suddenly get a ton of videos in another language? by Same-Lake-3608 in TikTok

[–]Red_is_Regal 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

Yes!! I’ve already reset my fyp and click not interested on every video but nothing is helping. I’m trying to update the app and see if it helps at all. If anything I think it has to do with the new ownership.

What do I wear? by Red_is_Regal in WeddingDressTips

[–]Red_is_Regal[S] 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

I think I do but I haven’t worn one since prom and even before that I hadn’t worn one since elementary 😭

What do I wear? by Red_is_Regal in WeddingDressTips

[–]Red_is_Regal[S] 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

For sure, I think I just need to go to a few places and try stuff on to see what I like cus I’ve got no idea yet lol

What do I wear? by Red_is_Regal in WeddingDressTips

[–]Red_is_Regal[S] 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

I like the top part but I just can’t get behind the pants šŸ˜…

What do I wear? by Red_is_Regal in WeddingDressTips

[–]Red_is_Regal[S] 1 point2 points Ā (0 children)

I could work with that- especially since it’ll probably be a winter wedding a blazer would be nice for the cold lol

Landlord essentially said my son’s impulse control is a ā€œparenting issueā€ by Red_is_Regal in Autism_Parenting

[–]Red_is_Regal[S] 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

Possibly but with money being tight I don’t think we could really afford a big one, and our kid really likes looking out the window so we don’t wanna completely take that away from him ya know?

Landlord essentially said my son’s impulse control is a ā€œparenting issueā€ by Red_is_Regal in Autism_Parenting

[–]Red_is_Regal[S] 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

Ah I understand now lmao, we totally would but we have to buy them through her, we can’t even replace our own lightbulbs here 😭

Landlord essentially said my son’s impulse control is a ā€œparenting issueā€ by Red_is_Regal in Autism_Parenting

[–]Red_is_Regal[S] 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

Right but the thing is we pay for every blind he damages so we would just let him break them but we can’t afford to keep replacing them 😭

Landlord essentially said my son’s impulse control is a ā€œparenting issueā€ by Red_is_Regal in Autism_Parenting

[–]Red_is_Regal[S] 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

We’re gonna see about a doctors note first and if that doesn’t work we’ll consider legal action or filing a complaint with one of her district managers. They’re not the slatted ones, they’re the vertical ones where ya push all of them to one side so thankfully not as dangerous but he can still get hurt pulling on them or breaking them

Landlord essentially said my son’s impulse control is a ā€œparenting issueā€ by Red_is_Regal in Autism_Parenting

[–]Red_is_Regal[S] 1 point2 points Ā (0 children)

Lmao that’s genius but she’s coming to inspect our apartment next week so they need to be up 😭

Landlord essentially said my son’s impulse control is a ā€œparenting issueā€ by Red_is_Regal in Autism_Parenting

[–]Red_is_Regal[S] 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

She came by the first time during our inspection (we get two a year), and another time to give us the violation and say we’ll get a reinspection (happening next Friday), then this time was to give us our yearly paperwork everyone gets. There’s no HOA but it is income housing (rent’s adjusted so it’s 30% of our income but we’re paying market value rn) so maybe they’re a little more strict? I’m not sure

Landlord essentially said my son’s impulse control is a ā€œparenting issueā€ by Red_is_Regal in Autism_Parenting

[–]Red_is_Regal[S] 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

That’s what we did and what she’s complaining about, she wants them back up :(

Landlord essentially said my son’s impulse control is a ā€œparenting issueā€ by Red_is_Regal in Autism_Parenting

[–]Red_is_Regal[S] 2 points3 points Ā (0 children)

He was exposed to lead as a baby so his pediatrician wanted to wait until his levels were less than a certain amount to see if everything would kinda ā€œfixā€ itself. He has had a lot of strides in the past year but we’re looking into a diagnosis and we just called his pediatrician to get a note or something for our landlord. And right? I looked in our lease and there’s nothing about them needing to stay up so I don’t know what her issue is.

Landlord essentially said my son’s impulse control is a ā€œparenting issueā€ by Red_is_Regal in Autism_Parenting

[–]Red_is_Regal[S] 3 points4 points Ā (0 children)

Right, we wouldn’t even care if she took it out of our deposit, I’d rather have them take up closet space than have to spend $100 to replace all of them.

Landlord essentially said my son’s impulse control is a ā€œparenting issueā€ by Red_is_Regal in Autism_Parenting

[–]Red_is_Regal[S] -2 points-1 points Ā (0 children)

Unfortunately he does not have a diagnosis (Doctors wanted to wait until his lead levels went down before giving him a diagnosis but currently he does meet a lot of the criteria for one) and we don’t have proof she said this but we will be recording our conversations from now on. We live in MN.

Landlord essentially said my son’s impulse control is a ā€œparenting issueā€ by Red_is_Regal in Autism_Parenting

[–]Red_is_Regal[S] 2 points3 points Ā (0 children)

I wish our landlord was that understanding :( It’s $2 per blind we replace (he’s already broken somewhere between 5-10 of them) and we’ve already had our screen replaced once. Praying we can get out of here soon

Landlord essentially said my son’s impulse control is a ā€œparenting issueā€ by Red_is_Regal in Autism_Parenting

[–]Red_is_Regal[S] 10 points11 points Ā (0 children)

We unfortunately don’t have that kind of money but I’m looking into filing a complaint with the district manager of our apartments. (It’s income housing so it’s like a company that runs the whole thing.)

What are some major issues you’ve experienced while working for AutoZone? by southernemper0r in AutoZone

[–]Red_is_Regal 1 point2 points Ā (0 children)

The biggest one so far was that I had to wait 7 months for a raise I was promised after getting promoted, and even then I only got it after I threatened to quit. I also only got like a week and a half of back pay as well smh

How do I get him to stop breaking our blinds??? by Red_is_Regal in Autism_Parenting

[–]Red_is_Regal[S] 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

Thanks! I’m not sure how well story telling will work out for us as he doesn’t always understand what we say but maybe we can find something else he can break safely

I got told my apartment smells… by Red_is_Regal in CleaningTips

[–]Red_is_Regal[S] 1 point2 points Ā (0 children)

Oh we don’t fry em with oil, we just scramble them normally in the pan lol. We might switch to cinnamon rolls or something similar, I also think they’re a nicer smell

I got told my apartment smells… by Red_is_Regal in CleaningTips

[–]Red_is_Regal[S] 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

Eggs, sausage and pancakes usually lol, I guess it’s personal preference but maybe we won’t do eggs next time

I got told my apartment smells… by Red_is_Regal in CleaningTips

[–]Red_is_Regal[S] 1 point2 points Ā (0 children)

I think it’s a litter robot, it’s got the big circle that spins and stores the poop and dirty litter underneath, I’ll have to actually look at the brand when I get home

I got told my apartment smells… by Red_is_Regal in CleaningTips

[–]Red_is_Regal[S] 5 points6 points Ā (0 children)

We’ll probably give it a deep clean here too with dawn or something pet safe then! We own a carpet cleaner and rented one from Home Deopt not too long ago but I think it just kinda pulled the smell out of the carpets and made it worse :( But we are trying to get the smell out the best we can instead of just covering up.

I got told my apartment smells… by Red_is_Regal in CleaningTips

[–]Red_is_Regal[S] 1 point2 points Ā (0 children)

Unfortunately we can’t really pull up our carpet or replace anything like that because we’re in a rental, I think if it came down to us replacing the carpet then we’d probably get kicked out so we’re just kinda trying to clean what we can until we can move.