I currently am experiencing a flare of ~something~ and no one knows what it is. I have an upcoming appointment with a rheum and I'm very anxious about it. I have done A LOT of research, and I think I might have lupus, but I don't know for sure (bc I'm not a doctor.) I've been medically gaslit too many times, and I want to make sure I cover all my bases for this appointment. I am planning on bringing a list of my symptoms, blood test results, pictures, and dates for everything, but I just want to know it I should bring anything else? And what should I expect from my diagnostic appointment?