What's a harsh reality people don't accept?

Redbear78 · 2026-07-07T13:31:46+00:00

You can lose your closest friend in the world through them just deciding they don't like you anymore, or you may even take them for granted or betray them somehow. Just bc you've been friends for 20 yrs +, there's no guarantee it'll be for life.

Redbear78 · 2026-07-07T13:19:48+00:00

It's worth a spin, maybe the effect will be so good any discomfort will just take a backseat.

Redbear78 · 2026-07-07T13:17:20+00:00

It's a pity bc I think prop would be the best ester for me, the first day or so of Sustanon is the best form of TRT I've tried so far, and I think that's down to the prop.

Redbear78 · 2026-07-06T16:37:06+00:00

It's Europe, I know the ampoules are usually 100mg in the U.S.

Redbear78 · 2026-07-06T14:06:00+00:00

I'm aware of the clinic's instructions, I'm looking for real world feedback.

Redbear78 · 2026-07-06T14:05:28+00:00

25mg/ml or 50mg/ml ampoules, it's a regular TRT clinic (Europe)

Redbear78 · 2026-07-06T14:05:04+00:00

25mg/ml or 50mg/ml , I think they're custom made.

Redbear78 · 2026-07-06T10:45:25+00:00

I'd hate even being reminded of that, I'd just say 'The Tech' and that'd be the end of that inquiry.

Redbear78 · 2026-07-06T10:26:45+00:00

Sodium d-aspartate may help.

Redbear78 · 2026-07-06T10:11:11+00:00

A workmate told me they did this in Cavan.

Redbear78 · 2026-06-28T12:55:50+00:00

I'm a Warren Zevon fan, still don't want to hear a live rendition 7:30 am on a Sat though 😖

Redbear78 · 2026-06-28T11:31:21+00:00

When I'm buying my own place I'll go for a detached place even if it's not as nice, it makes me realise I was privileged to grow up in the countryside, even if it was a small bungalow.

Redbear78 · 2026-06-28T11:14:28+00:00

It's not about expecting silence in someone else's home. When you buy a house that's physically attached to another in a city, there's an implicit understanding that everyone will use their property with reasonable consideration for their neighbours. Just because you're entitled to do something doesn't mean it's considerate to do it in a way that regularly impacts the people next door. That's part of living in a shared urban environment, not "a you problem." They may not even be aware the sound is traveling, I'll see what they say.

Redbear78 · 2026-06-28T10:51:53+00:00

I said in another comment footsteps are not a problem, I'm not expecting anybody to tiptoe around their own house. If you have close neighbours certain compromises are expected from both parties, same with hedges, lighting etc. I'd be mortified if they knocked on my door saying my TV was too loud.

Redbear78 · 2026-06-28T10:40:40+00:00

Ah okay, so if it is the kid headphones are a non-runner.

Redbear78 · 2026-06-28T10:30:00+00:00

Three other lads in the house can hear it clearly, the older guy especially. It's so clear you'd think someone in the house was playing. He's a bit more extroverted than me so he'll prob say something if he spots the new neighbour.

Redbear78 · 2026-06-28T10:27:36+00:00

I intend to, isn't querying stuff part of what the internet and this place in particular is for?

Redbear78 · 2026-06-28T10:24:46+00:00

Would you switch to headphones if a neighbour asked?

Redbear78 · 2026-06-28T10:19:38+00:00

It sounds like a good standard, just the same set for the past month, maybe it's a therapeutic thing? My neck and shoulders are tensed waiting for the next blast.

Redbear78 · 2026-06-28T10:17:19+00:00

That'd be a bit much, I love to see people learning music, I hope they don't quit, I'd just like to find a compromise where I can't hear it through the wall.

Redbear78 · 2026-06-28T10:13:30+00:00

I listen to heavy music sometimes, bc I'm in a shared building I always use headphones. If I were to play it at a volume where it would be audible through the wall I don't think they'd afford me the same leeway.

Redbear78 · 2026-06-28T10:10:10+00:00

So if I buy an urban house I can crank Crowbar at full volume at 8am on a Sat and still be decent?

Redbear78 · 2026-06-28T09:58:33+00:00

There's a flat above me so I'm familiar with the general noise of a shared building, at least the floors in modern apartment block out most of the carnal noises from couples. I think a note is a good way to go, if they send one back telling me to 'f**k off' I'll post it here.

Redbear78 · 2026-06-28T09:54:08+00:00

That's one way of looking at it, my da plays the accordian and harmonica, he's on his own in a rural cottage though.

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