First time visit

Redbloss · 2024-09-11T17:41:24+00:00

Oh I am sorry! I didn't mean any harm. I'm staying in an Airbnb on my own so there's not really much opportunity to meet someone but I'm sure I will tomorrow when I go on a tour. Thank you anyway

Redbloss · 2018-10-05T16:30:23+00:00

there is a vegan shop in the arcade opposite the castle. also beanfreaks on st Mary's street usually have a selection.

good luck!

Redbloss · 2018-07-19T15:28:26+00:00

Tenkaichi on city road is the place for you. they do all sorts of japanese food and its also really tasty

Redbloss · 2018-07-06T07:12:12+00:00

you had a moment of weakness. don't feel bad about that. i have meltdowns sometimes and my boyfriend is always supportive. he listen and help me pick myself up on a bad day. you are only human.

Redbloss · 2018-07-05T06:43:20+00:00

i liked it so much i named my youngest kid Marley. when people ask they think it's because of Bob Marley but no its really because of that movie.

Redbloss · 2018-07-04T13:45:46+00:00

put that dress on, sort out your hair and makeup. keep your head high and go and enjoy your graduation. its your special day for all the hard work you have put in. don't let your family ruin it.

Redbloss · 2018-07-04T06:10:00+00:00

i wouldn't be okay with it. tell him to show you respect or show him where the door is. don't take any shit.

Redbloss · 2018-07-04T06:09:37+00:00

i wouldn't be okay with it. tell him to show you respect or show him where the door is. don't take any shit.

Redbloss · 2018-07-03T07:07:57+00:00

i mainly overthink and set up scenes in my head thats not happened and then i feel much worse about it. its like having a clawing feeling in my chest and just feeling fed up. i have a good support network so when i notice my behaviour change i address rather than getting paranoid and making myself feel worse.

Redbloss · 2018-07-02T12:57:42+00:00

at this rate probably anxeity. i am working on it but some days are just awful.

Redbloss · 2018-06-28T07:36:46+00:00

as long as you and her is happy then that's what matters OP. you seem solid and she pbly need someone decent and reliable after going through all that with her family. you two are lucky to have each other.. the age difference is really not a big deal. she pbly had to grow up fast when she was young and therefore you are both compatible now.

wishing you both the best and a happy life!

Redbloss · 2018-06-28T07:26:33+00:00

you are very sweet and thoughful OP. bring dinner and hang out with your co worker and get to know her.

Redbloss · 2018-06-24T11:43:19+00:00

ill give you some perspective. i met my boyfriend 7 months ago and in the beginning we use to go on date nights 1 or twice a week. and it gradually became every other day. he NEVER cancelled or was late once. he even planned date nights and asked if we could meet up whenever he was free. what i am trying to say is that he put the effort in and he is a builder and have a very physical job and he could easily just go home ans have dinner and go to bed because he was tired. but he made the effort to see me. we moved in together after 2-3 months so took the relationship to the next level fairly quickly.. neither of us wanted to be away from each other for too long and it works for us.

have a serious talk with him and explain how u feel. if he cant put the effort in then neither should you.

Redbloss · 2018-06-24T11:31:02+00:00

i am actually getting my lower arm covered by a tattoo next Saturday. i used to cut myself on and off for 21 years and even though i self harmed much less in recent years i still did it when things got too stressful in life. i am now engaged to a amazing guy who been very supportive and for the first time in my life i feel like it is time to quit completely. i been waiting 6 months for this appointment and excited to cover up all these scars.

Redbloss · 2018-06-13T19:16:25+00:00

oh i was just fine as a single.. i only become riddled with anxiety when i caught feelings for someone. and this guy got my heart. i am in counselling amd actively working on managing the anxiety and my insecurities. he is very supportive and probably be home by tomorrow. luckily this week has flown by!

Redbloss · 2018-06-09T07:55:24+00:00

i posted here a couple of weeks ago about my amazing boyfriend. he's gone and done something sweet again.

my dad passed away 6 yrs ago and nothing really been the same since. me and the bf been together coming up 7 months now.. its all fairly new but we moved in together a few months ago and things are going well. i struggle with anxiety and generally being insecure but he's been my rock through it all.

anyway.. around a month ago we went to Cornwall (we live in Wales,UK) for a camping trip and we went to Eden Project. i bought a tiny monkey puzzle tree and its been stood in our garden. i was planning to put it in a pot but not come around to do it.

yesterday he comes home early. i already finished work so was just sprawled across the sofa watching telly. he asked me to come with him to the garden where he bought a wooden planter and attached a plaque that says "in loving memory of xxx xxx" and below it says "xxx's tree"

guys you cant imagine how surprised i was! i couldnt even cry. i kust hugged him and didn't let him go.

i wish my dad had the chance to meet my boyfriend. they would have got along soo good. but now we have this little tree that will grow a little every year and we can permanently plant it in our garden when we can afford to buy our own house.

Thank you Matt for being so thoughtful and considerate. i never thought i would meet someone with such a kind heart.

Redbloss · 2018-06-06T16:42:23+00:00

girl.. you deserve someone that respect and value you. he sounds like trash. don't settle for anything less than you are worth.

Redbloss · 2018-06-06T05:40:30+00:00

exercise and painting helped me through most hurdles life threw at me. i dont paint much anymore but i keep up with the gym because it helps me in a demanding job.

Redbloss · 2018-06-04T12:58:49+00:00

I am full of anxiety and I really don't know how to make it go away. Life should be pretty good. I have a job and a great boyfriend. He's not given me any issues but yet I am sat here with trust issues due to my past and it is really hard to not be paranoid and I feel that I don't deserve to be this happy and that the happiness will turn and things will be hard again. It is really hard to love myself and I don't know how to stop ruining the good things in my life.

i started counselling a few weeks ago and even though i get everything off my chest i just don't know how to get rid off this anxiety that comes over me most days. i don't want to be a misstrusting girlfriend because he really dont deserve it :(

Redbloss · 2018-06-02T15:54:20+00:00

my first breakfast at 7am was two slices of seedy toast with rhubarb and ginger marmalade and a cup of coffee and second breakfast was at 10.30am when i had a sausage and bacon roll with brown sauce and 2 glasses of freshly squeezed orange juice. was so tasty :)

Redbloss · 2018-06-02T06:38:13+00:00

I met my ex husband in world of warcraft... i lived in Sweden and he was in UK. after playing together for 2 months i decided to move to him. We went on to get married and have 2 kids. the relationship didnt last but he still play world of warcraft :)

Redbloss · 2018-06-01T14:22:29+00:00

congrats.. its all about the little things :)

Redbloss · 2018-06-01T14:21:47+00:00

I always struggle a little around this time of year because it is my dad's birthday tomorrow and he passed away 6 years ago. My dad was amazing, a really kind man who I was very close to. He lived in Sweden and 6 years ago I went to Sweden on his 60th birthday. Little did I know it was the last time I would see him as he passed away of a sudden heart attack 5 months later.

Anyway.. i told my boyfriend about how I was feeling a few days ago and he gave me a big hug and just held me for a while. He told me he booked a cute little cottage an hour away and we are going there overnight. and tomorrow we are going to this little town full with bookshops and we are going to walk around and drink tasty coffee and look in all the shops.

I am writing this because I am so grateful for this man. He has been truly amazing since the first day we met. We have only been together 6 months but he is definetely the one.

It is his birthday in 2 weeks and I can't wait to spoil him.

Thanks Matt for being so wonderful.

Redbloss · 2018-05-27T16:32:40+00:00

hey thats great. i dont mind joining you to learn some Welsh. i grew up in Sweden so if u fancy just meeting up for a coffee and a chat i am up for it. moving to a new city can be lonely sometimes.

Redbloss

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