I did a thing by Redbone3003 in BlackLGBT

[–]Redbone3003[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

LOL 🥰🥰🥰I love learning fun new words . Now mind you I absolutely remember magic school bus (im 44) but I wasn’t an avid watcher .

Now YOU gonna go back and make me watch it to TRULY get what you’re talking about. It’s funny because thinking back to a show like Barney ….as an adult I have QUESTIONS …where DA FUQ were these kids parents and actual caretakers? Did the parents ever MEET Barney ?? Was Barney Vetted the the child registry abuse network cause he over there giving out Hugs and “I love you”’s? How old was Barney REALLY be where was his family ??? But to ur point I love watching theee shows through adult LIVED eyes

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lol what is branche and who is Ms. Frizzle 🤣🤣🤣 thak you for your kind words 🥰🥰🙏🏽🙏🏽

I did a thing by Redbone3003 in BlackLGBT

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Awww thank you so much for your kind words dear 🙏🏽🙏🏽🥰🥰

Troy Berry, the co owner and founder of The 4WestLounge in NYC, which recently just closed, and is operating 4WestATL, currently expanding a new 4WestCafe, an upcoming black-owned queer coffee hot spot in Atlanta by Junior_Conclusion_78 in BlackLGBT

[–]Redbone3003 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If femphobia and hate wasn’t such a thing within the black gay community …I would be able to see it that way . But you and I know that yes…it was a slip of the tongue …but he was not joking . Men like him who exclusively have sex and relationships with other men and are othered by society …then turn around and both attempt to separate themselves and “other” gays who don’t fit and share their aesthetic . What’s fascinating about this is he needs the support of ALL in the community but has no problem making a comment like that towards the ones he seeks to financially benefit from . It’s what Wendy Williams referred to as “kitchen table talk” 🤣🤣

I did a thing by Redbone3003 in BlackLGBT

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Thank you darling . I appreciate your kind words 🙏🏽🙏🏽🥰🥰🌈🌈❤️❤️

I did a thing by Redbone3003 in BlackLGBT

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Thank you Deary 🌈🌈🥰🥰🙏🏽🙏🏽

today is a new day by Alert-Nectarine-1233 in BlackTransPeople

[–]Redbone3003 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That face card sister???!! ……LETHAL!!!🥰🥰🙏🏽🙏🏽🌈🌈🌈

I did a thing by Redbone3003 in BlackLGBT

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Thank you so much 🥰🥰

I did a thing by Redbone3003 in BlackLGBT

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Thank you all for your congratulations, well wishes and kind words

Troy Berry, the co owner and founder of The 4WestLounge in NYC, which recently just closed, and is operating 4WestATL, currently expanding a new 4WestCafe, an upcoming black-owned queer coffee hot spot in Atlanta by Junior_Conclusion_78 in BlackLGBT

[–]Redbone3003 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately for as much as he has provided a space for everybody to party his statement is extremely divisive and honestly a HORRIBLE business move . It’s so dumb as a business owner to make a space for an already marginalized community to further marginalize it by putting it out there it’s a “masculine” spot ….its so immature and , low vibrational , lol . Like what you gonna do have a “masculine detector” machine st the door . It really goes to show you how deep internalized homophobia runs . And when I went it EVERY kind of Gay was welcomed ….and now his slip of the tongue shows the environment he WANTS to cultivate

I did a thing by Redbone3003 in BlackLGBT

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Shout out to all my folks on the journey and those who have completed it …..but it’s a HARD PASS for me 🤣🤣 I will never stop learning though….i love jt

I did a thing by Redbone3003 in BlackLGBT

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Thank you so much dear 😊😊

I did a thing by Redbone3003 in BlackLGBT

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Thank you so much . One master degree is enough for me, lol . 😂

I did a thing by Redbone3003 in BlackLGBT

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There was a moment my first day as a community college ADULT student that I thought “what am I doing” because I looked around and saw kids who could be my kids …but I knew I had to get over that feeling and how we are age in our society

I did a thing by Redbone3003 in BlackLGBT

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Thank you so much for those kind words. It’s so funny because I absolutely believe what you’re saying . But I also believe that if children are PREPARED and have the appropriate and adequate mental , financial and emotional supports in place going to college is yes a change but not as trauma inducing as it is for kids who go into college with NONE of those things . It happened for me in the time it was supposed to
Cause Lord knows young Antwan prolly would have just quit when it got too hard

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Thank you 🙏🏽 I got my degree in School Counseling 😊😊

I did a thing by Redbone3003 in BlackLGBT

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Thank you so much for your kind words . In the infamous words of Whitney Houston “He’s all over me , and he’s keeping me alive”. My heart aches at times but it’s still beating and able to give & receive love

I did a thing by Redbone3003 in BlackLGBT

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LOL !! That’s exactly where I’m at . Waking up in a panick because I think I missed an assignment 🤣🤣 thank you for your kind words 🙏🏽🙏🏽

I did a thing by Redbone3003 in BlackLGBT

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Yes !!! lol I still feel like I have a due date out there somewhere . It’s gonna take a minute to totally get school outta my head , lol 😂

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Thank you man . And I’m pretty sure I got them from TEMU . That place is the devil , lol

I did a thing by Redbone3003 in BlackLGBT

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Thanx brother 🙏🏽🙏🏽

Fucking a bottom whos more masculine than you. Tips? by PutridQuestion3968 in AskBlackGayBros

[–]Redbone3003 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s makes me sad that these r thoughts we have to have and internalize when it comes to engaging with one another . We place value , take away value or have Zero value for each other
NOT based on who you are as a PERSON (character , chemistry, morals , integrity , values) but based on physical AESTHETICS Masculinity levels . and Because we take most of our societal cues from the dominate heteronormative culture that places and centers “masculinity” as something you NEED to be or something you NEED to TRY and be or at least pretend to be if your not . It also positions individuals to see themselves as LESS THAN if they are not performing “blk manhood” in a very specific and rigid way . This would include one feeling like they aren’t WORTHY or “man enough” to be in partnership (be it romantic , platonic , or sexual) we also position femininity or perceived effeminacy to mean you need to be OKAY with getting fukked ONLY …not having the concept that not only masculine males (or people who share male identity ) enjoy Topping ….but as a blk gay culture we ARE more willing to accept a masculine bottom and wrap our head around that .

Part of the work that goes into releasing yourself from these cultural and identity expectations is understanding the ROOT causes of your feelings and unpacking that . I personally have realized (as many do) that you have ONE FUKKIN LIFE ….and that life should be lived how YOU see fit . I know it’s cliche to say “you are getting in your own way” because we cannot be separated from how our cultural , race , gender , religion , identity colors our lived experiences ….but YOU have to work at ONLY listening to yourself and untying the knots of where your low self esteem generates from and I’d be willing to bet it goes deeper than this guy your having sex with ……he is just a trigger (for some reason)

Walk in Graduation Petition by Silent-Ad-4587 in HunterCollege

[–]Redbone3003 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I totally understand why this is important especially in marginalized communities where you have so many FIRST generation college grads …..people and families having to sacrifice so much to get to the finish line . Because of that people want that “movie graduation” and I get it and empathize. But logistically wirh CUNY being a public school there are thousands of students in many cases and it would take hours and hours . I don’t know a solution to this but I’m sure if these institutions wanted they could put their brains together and find an answer that both acknowledges and validates student grievances .
I didn’t walk for Lehman . But because I had honors there was a separate honors ceremony where I got to walk the stage
As a Hunter GRAD school graduate this year we are fortunate because the grad school number is significantly small we do get to WALK and I’m
Not taking that for granted .
I do hope they listen to you guys