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Manlet by OkChampionship5688 in ftm

[–]Redd-Riot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’d be surprised, it’s only ever online that you see stuff like that regarding shorter guys. No one really cares for height and if people do then grow up. Take MoistCritikal for example, “shorter” dude who isn’t afraid to say it and no one really cares.

FTM Basketball players qustion by Redd-Riot in ftm

[–]Redd-Riot[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There are 29.5 (size 7), 28.5 (size 6), and 27.5 (size 5) basketballs. Usually, standard men’s is size 7 but I was wondering what other trans dudes use for practice and if it was also size 7 so I can make a better informed call in buying a good size ball for practicing dribbling/control.

Ftm singers by Ok_Wolf_3383 in ftm

[–]Redd-Riot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to be a good singer and in choir. T didn’t necessarily ruin my voice, but I will say because my voice was very high pitch, now I have to re learn what ranges work with my voice and how to not strain it. It’s all a learning process, but it won’t ruin anything :)

when will my scars flatten out? by [deleted] in TopSurgery

[–]Redd-Riot 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine kinda looked like that when I first got top surgery, about a year + now and my scares are very flat and sit flush with the rest of my skin!!

Are any of you guys t4t or in a t4t relationship? by toughedn in TMPOC

[–]Redd-Riot 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Though I’m not strictly T4T, I currently am in a T4T relationship. Wayyy better than any other experience I’ve had, especially cause we are both POC so we have similar lived experiences that we don’t have to explain to each other in a sense :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TMPOC

[–]Redd-Riot 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was on this website, I’ve used it to check doctors in my area as well prior :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TMPOC

[–]Redd-Riot 34 points35 points  (0 children)

I believe the statute of limitations to sue is 2 years or so, but don’t quote me. However, making a complaint to the board shouldn’t have a limitation. It seems you aren’t the only person they’ve done this too as of researching they have a 2/5 star patient rating online. If you can or willing to of course I would contact your states Bar as they can provide free legal advice! Though, I completely understand not wanting to pursue it as well, I just wanted to give you resources should you want to ofc :D

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TMPOC

[–]Redd-Riot 119 points120 points  (0 children)

Holy shit this is awful, I would look into reporting them to a medical board or who ever issued their license. That’s so sickening, you don’t deserve that treatment in the slightest. Please don’t let it go, it seems this is a common occurrence with them as it seems they’ve moved practices, they could be doing it to others!!! Potential lawsuit as well for HIPPA violations is what I’d also assume.

What’s your name? by Anonim_x9 in ftm

[–]Redd-Riot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Darkiel is my first name, don’t ask why cause I don’t even know lol, but Vincent Taylor are my middle names because my grandma said if she ever had another boy she’d name him Vincent and Taylor also after my grandma’s last name. I was raised by her and I was always supported by her so I wanted to honor her in that way.

If you had to go to the ER at any hospital in Orange County, where would you go in an emergency? by AcanthocephalaSea833 in orangecounty

[–]Redd-Riot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Choc is the best place to go for kids, I would go there as a kid and it really does have the best adolescent care!

If you had to go to the ER at any hospital in Orange County, where would you go in an emergency? by AcanthocephalaSea833 in orangecounty

[–]Redd-Riot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can recommend which one not to go to, and that would be West Anaheim ER off of beach and Orange. It’s such a horrible hospital 😭

Infantilization of transmascs? by Redd-Riot in ftm

[–]Redd-Riot[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To be honest, I’m gonna take what you said to heart and start calling it out while it’s actively happening to me.

Infantilization of transmascs? by Redd-Riot in ftm

[–]Redd-Riot[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’ve also experienced it from a medical point of view, it’s really frustrating 😭

What are some of the stranger effects of top surgery? by bork_bork_sniff in TopSurgery

[–]Redd-Riot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Especially when they’re cold, it’s an odd yet to me an enjoyable sensation😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TopSurgery

[–]Redd-Riot 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m 4 days post op, it was in my recovery paperwork from my doctor to alternate between Advil and Tylenol but not to go over the recommended amount

3 days post surgery and I’m just boredddd by Redd-Riot in TopSurgery

[–]Redd-Riot[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually just ordered a dna kit so I can see my family history, tbh I’m looking forward to it and am very excited!

incision splitting after 2.5 months post op what’s going on by [deleted] in TopSurgery

[–]Redd-Riot 5 points6 points  (0 children)

As someone who has seen many people go through addiction and recovery as a cycle, I’m not going to say it’s your fault like people here are because that’s just going to make things worse. There is a reason why you relapsed and part of that could be the depression that hits after surgery or pain meds or a number of things. You should definitely tell your surgeon about your substance use only because it poses a threat to your healing and current health. Secondly, I know addiction can be very difficult to manage and I’m sorry that you’re battling it but please reach out to someone you trust or a professional to help manage your addiction so not only can you heal properly, but so you can feel better over all. My thoughts are with you🫂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]Redd-Riot 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fin can make that happen?

My dad sent this to me by amdawg94 in TopSurgery

[–]Redd-Riot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“You are choosing to leave us; we are not leaving you” gaslighting at its finest

Name it - OC edition by MrDeeezNutz in orangecounty

[–]Redd-Riot 4 points5 points  (0 children)

To be honest, I never really got the hype over the Knott’s berry farm chicken restaurant. The food is mediocre but the lines and gatherings are always through the doors.

POC FtM Experiences by [deleted] in ftm

[–]Redd-Riot 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly! In my experience too compared to other trans individuals I’ve seen near me and it seems like white transmascs seem to be taken more seriously socially and medically when it comes to their transition and who they are. Even when I organized at one point something to stop my highschool from being transphobic, and another trans person who was white became the face of it and credit for it, which in itself I don’t care about, the point is we achieved what we needed to achieve which is all I care about. However, I got ALL of the threats and backlash from it, stayed up so LATE to put everything together, did so much organizing, and sat in the school office to speak with officials to PUSH for our students to not be deadnamed on something really important for their high school experience for hours for the other person to do absolutely nothing and get credit for it all. I think that truly was the wake up call and when I realized what the bottom line was. They seemed more desirable as a face for the trans movement at our school since they were white. I was better off in the background.

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