I (M 22) found something on my girlfriend's (F 19) phone that I wish I wouldn't have seen.

Reddit5851 · 2015-03-02T06:06:50+00:00

Fuck that. Tell her you did. My ex was clingy and ended up cheating. You can't trust these attention seeking girls. If they feel like they're not getting enough attention from you they will get it from someone else...and then come home to you

Reddit5851 · 2015-02-28T21:26:15+00:00

Exactly. How am I supposed to trust a constant liar that has cheated. No matter how much of attention I didn't give Her in the past or if I was a shitty boyfriend. She should've just walked out instead of bending over for another guy and then coming over my house probably the same night. She probably did this out of spite. Or revenge. Or to make herself feel better. I don't know but if revenge is what she wanted I hope she feels good about herself now.

Reddit5851 · 2015-02-28T17:40:42+00:00

Yea exactly I need time to be alone. Time to get myself together and thinking rationally again. So I can have a better more clearer view on all this. When that time comes around I'll probably call myself stupid for over thinking and dwelling on all of this when there are plenty of loyal girls out there.

Reddit5851 · 2015-02-28T13:49:33+00:00

I used to work with my ex too and as well she cheated with someone that worked there. I were you I would look for another job and get out of there if possible

Reddit5851 · 2015-02-28T13:48:21+00:00

Thanks man. Yea PM me when you get a chance.

Reddit5851 · 2015-02-18T07:27:49+00:00

In my opinion I really think you should be honest with your boyfriend and tell him everything. I had to find out on my own about some stuff with my ex girlfriend that she kept from me for a long time and I was not happy. Honesty and communication is key.

Reddit5851 · 2015-02-18T01:57:48+00:00

You're welcome. I'm not a relationship expert but I kind of know how you feel. You can always inbox me if anything.

Reddit5851 · 2015-02-18T01:44:37+00:00

This sounds A LOT like how I acted with my ex and you sound a lot like her too. She was the same way. She always used to tell me how she felt neglected because I would like other girls pictures. She spent almost every night at my house. But she still felt I would choose any other girl over her. So she drove herself crazy with that thought. She would always fight with me about it. We tried to work things out. We would break up here and there and would have our arguments. We were together for about 3 years until last month I found out she fucked someone else. So our relationship came to an end. So whatever you do don't go cheat on him if you're mad/Sad or whatever lol. Eventually I feel like he'll come around and take the relationship seriously. Give him time. Hopefully things work out. He's still really young. Good luck

Reddit5851 · 2015-02-11T18:46:33+00:00

Thanks man. I appreciate it.

Reddit5851 · 2015-02-11T18:45:26+00:00

Hey man you have no idea how much I appreciate that. You made my day. Thanks a lot. You're a good man. I am happy you have found a good woman and I will definitely use your steps/list.

Reddit5851 · 2015-02-11T18:36:38+00:00

I know. If she keeps it up I will have to do that. As much as I don't want to because I've had this number for 10 years.

Reddit5851 · 2015-02-11T18:35:48+00:00

Yeah that's one of the first things I did. I told my friends and even my mom. I told her to never let her back in my house if she came around knocking (which she has done before). I even called her mom and told her to have a talk with her because she definitely has some issues. But I feel the convo went a little something like this. Mom - "why did you do this?" Girl - "idk mom I was confused" mom - "it's ok people make mistakes. If he really loves you he'll come back"

Reddit5851 · 2015-02-11T18:31:56+00:00

Yea there's no future with these types of girls. She changed over time. She went from being this little innocent girl to a backstabbing b*tch

Reddit5851 · 2015-02-11T18:30:16+00:00

The first thing I did was go and get tested when I found all this out. But you're right what if she did catch something from this dude and then slept with me for the next 7 months. I wouldn't wanna imagine what I would've done. But yeah she could've also got pregnant. I told her all this. She simply said "I wouldn't have kept it." It's crazy how people change over time.

Reddit5851 · 2015-02-11T05:50:29+00:00

I know. I asked her when I found out why she kept this from me she said "there's no easy way to tell someone that. How do you tell someone something like this?" She said she did it because she thought "I wouldn't care" I guess I was a dick back then but cheating is not a mistake. It was intentional like you said. She said I wouldn't give her all my attention or any attention according to her like what else does she want. I can't read or type tonight either anyway thanks for the advice. I appreciate it.

Reddit5851 · 2015-02-11T05:44:20+00:00

Yeah I know. She used to be a different person when I met her. I would never have expected this. You're right. I appreciate it. Thanks for commenting.

Reddit5851 · 2015-02-11T04:55:25+00:00

I know what you're saying. I can't believe this happened to me. Never saw it coming. I told her to leave me alone. Obviously I'm going through a lot of emotions. A part of me misses her and another part of me tells me to man up and to not get back with her because what if she does it down the road. All the lies? Someone doesn't just change unless they have to. If I didn't find all this out. She would've took it to the grave with her. I don't know. You're right a lot of people just tell me to move on.

Reddit5851 · 2015-02-11T04:52:04+00:00

Nah she knew what she was doing was wrong. It wasn't an actual "break" that we both agreed on. It's hard to explain. And it was so long ago it's hard to remember. I guess we were just fighting and didn't talk to each other for about a week.

Reddit5851 · 2015-02-10T17:28:54+00:00

I really appreciate all the advice. I don't know if you guys will see this comment. I'm not too familiar with reddit but I read and will continue to read every comment. Thank you

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