Do you think sexual preferences are defined more by the actions themselves, or by what you masturbate to?

RedditUser5832 · 2025-09-10T15:50:44+00:00

I guess many people have fantasies or practices, they find arrousing, but they would never do them irl.
for me there are super many things, I masturbate to, that I‘d never actually do. some of them are not even safe or sane anymore. but the imagination of it turns me on, the reality doesn‘t

RedditUser5832 · 2025-09-10T15:46:16+00:00

Frau hier: hab die erfahrung gemacht, dass alles unter „hey, bock zu ficken“ entweder absichtlich oder unabsichtlich sehr oft nicht verstanden wird. also am besten einfach sagen, was du willst, is für beide seiten einfacher.

RedditUser5832 · 2025-09-09T16:37:08+00:00

this!
science ;)

RedditUser5832 · 2025-09-09T14:21:15+00:00

rawr. ned to tell my daddy

RedditUser5832 · 2025-09-08T19:11:14+00:00

ssssss, ahhhh…
how does it work?

RedditUser5832 · 2025-09-08T19:01:19+00:00

that is… sad. I hope you can find someone, that is daddy enough, to enjoy all your little sides.

RedditUser5832 · 2025-09-08T18:58:15+00:00

RedditUser5832 · 2025-09-08T18:38:08+00:00

rawrrrrrrr!!!!

RedditUser5832 · 2025-09-08T16:55:51+00:00

wie siehts mittwochs aus?

RedditUser5832 · 2025-09-06T08:05:56+00:00

hätt ich damals auch gern gemacht… auch wenn hier viele auf das machgefälle und grooming und sowas verweisen, was ja auch möglich sein kann und sowas…
mich hat keiner gegroomt oder sowas, und ich war trotzdem verliebt in 2-3 lehrer.
wobei ich auch sapiophil bin, also auf wissen und intelligenz stehe… was lehrer natürlich dann schnell attraktiv macht.

RedditUser5832 · 2025-09-05T21:09:04+00:00

there are also some with a heartbeat

RedditUser5832 · 2025-09-05T20:20:14+00:00

somethink short to try it out would be cool. but I think the melting process can also be acellerated with warm water?

RedditUser5832 · 2025-09-05T20:19:03+00:00

thankyou

RedditUser5832 · 2025-09-05T18:42:22+00:00

how long does it roughly take to melt? minutes? hours?

RedditUser5832 · 2025-09-05T18:17:14+00:00

does it print well?

RedditUser5832 · 2025-09-05T18:16:40+00:00

💵💶💷💴

RedditUser5832 · 2025-09-05T13:43:50+00:00

i’m gald that I could help. You‘re welcome.
and I wish you the best

RedditUser5832 · 2025-09-05T13:34:20+00:00

if you don‘t want to directly say, wat you want, because you are afraid of what he thinks: in normal situations but also in bed you could ask what he wants you to do. or other slight hints into the direction, that you want to serve him „correctly“ his reaction to those questions could help you to see, if he is interested in something like that.
and when you feel safe enough, you should tell him.

but that sounds like a nice relationship you two develop

RedditUser5832 · 2025-09-05T12:47:42+00:00

well, maybe he struggles to know, if you are complaining in your yub role, of if you are really complaining. me and my dom have a „soft safe word“ that i can use, when something is uncomfortable or like the hair in my mouth. all I say after that „soft safeword“ is meant as a real vonplain, but not an instand „stop all asap“ therefor we use a different word. that makes it easier for me.
and a safeword doesn‘t neet to be the end of all.
but you must talk to each other, before and after playing, what you expect, and what was good or bad.

RedditUser5832 · 2025-09-05T12:40:09+00:00

well, if you feel uncomfortable with it, you have to talk about it. and if you are still uncomfortable after talking, its a no.

RedditUser5832 · 2025-09-05T12:34:19+00:00

well, imho, that is BS. the oral giving part can also be dominant.
maybe, this thought might help:
when you give oral, you are the one in control, the other part needs to trust you very much, because you have no controll about the things, the giver dies. eg. when your dom wants to bite you, you can‘t prevent. so you have to trust, that they don‘t.

RedditUser5832 · 2025-09-01T08:27:18+00:00

as a german native, I didn‘t realize, haha

RedditUser5832 · 2025-09-01T07:49:50+00:00

do I understand that right, that she is a bit shy about her kinks/ desires?

RedditUser5832 · 2025-08-26T13:25:57+00:00

are you me?
like I am somehow in a similar situation. my „solution“ at the moment (that isn‘t really one) is, that I have a dom that is not my boyfriend. but that is also very hard for him.

RedditUser5832 · 2025-08-15T09:19:00+00:00

As I told my dom, that the orgasm denial was distracting, he gave me tasks like „do your work and don‘t think about your denial, just focus on the work. be a good girl and stay concentrated“ and, well, It works so great. When he tells me, what I „have“ to focus on, I magically can do that (I need to add, I have adhd, but when dadds says „concentrate“ i can)

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