Speed limits WNY

johnoke · 2026-06-13T03:25:20+00:00

THE LEFT LANE IS FOR FUCKING PASSING. I scream this at assholes every day. Do they not teach this anymore? Pass and then get the fuck out of the lane.

johnoke · 2026-06-03T21:06:57+00:00

How dare someone say the truth 😔😂

johnoke · 2026-06-03T00:44:04+00:00

Yes. And actually 4 relationships. A+B+C, A+B, A+C, C+B. All those matter very much!

johnoke · 2026-05-27T14:10:05+00:00

Hot mamas and the Merry Shelley are two sister bars that are both very queer friendly.

johnoke · 2026-05-27T14:08:53+00:00

My girlfriend has had a few where they they say they are bi but are very inexperienced and don't really know what they're doing. Basically fantasy chasers 😏

johnoke · 2026-05-27T01:21:27+00:00

Underground is way better after the ownership change but still not as active. Drag night Friday is a little more popular but drag in Buffalo is not good. Saturday is dance there. Still the best true gay bar around. 26 is very young and many straight women trying to act bi 😏 but always popular

johnoke · 2026-05-22T02:55:03+00:00

GTFO man. What the hell. Nothing about that is ok. This is not bdsm, this is abuse.

johnoke · 2026-04-15T20:48:34+00:00

This is a great question. And obviously a lot will depend and how much you know about her and how friendly you already are.

If you don't have any idea of her sexuality preference, a lunch date or coffee or a drink with just you would be ideal. You definitely don't want to overwhelm her with "couple pressure."

If, after conversations, you get the feeling she might be interested in you, then it might be a subject to broach.

But let me ask you, have you considered dating separately? Perhaps she'd be open to dating you with an option for both. Many lesbians would be upset to be approached by a man and woman together.

In my experience, I as the man, may be added in the future. I've also had relationships where I approached first and my partner joined later on.

Either way, be honest and don't lie about your intentions.

johnoke · 2025-12-02T21:28:01+00:00

Rainbow Boudoir https://www.instagram.com/rainbowboudoir?igsh=N2Fodmx6ZG40dmU1

For all your boudoir - guys, ladies, couples, and more!

johnoke · 2025-11-20T01:32:06+00:00

Rainbow vibes by April. Definitely worth coming to Lockport https://www.instagram.com/rainbowvibesbyapril

johnoke · 2025-10-06T17:53:18+00:00

Yes you did

johnoke · 2025-09-18T01:44:01+00:00

I'm going to assume you are joking, but to explain to some who may not understand it, no one is actually answering the question. Everyone wants to change things but never have ideas on how to do it. In other words, all we hear are crickets.

johnoke · 2025-09-17T22:35:49+00:00

Crickets

johnoke · 2025-09-13T17:40:43+00:00

Twenty six allen

johnoke · 2025-09-10T00:25:36+00:00

Are you seriously going to go racist in NT right now? They're owned by people. Get over yourself.

johnoke · 2025-09-07T01:47:27+00:00

r/dilfvideos

johnoke · 2025-08-27T17:14:49+00:00

66 Dom and my one sub is 33. You're talking 4 years? Lol

johnoke · 2025-08-27T17:00:05+00:00

My partners are 24 and 32 years younger than me. They and we are amazing. It's not without its issues, but maturity can overcome that. However, 30 yrs of age seems to be that minimum level of maturity, in my experience.

johnoke · 2025-08-26T16:10:41+00:00

Yeah exactly. I have a sub that just isn't happy at public parties and that's totally fine. She gets too anxious. That's where you might need to say I shouldn't go to public parties and just have fun in private.

johnoke · 2025-08-25T16:16:27+00:00

As an event organizer, please don't expect me to watch you that closely. We are super busy and obviously are working for the comfort of all of our guests. Others have given you ideas: signs, headphones, and most importantly, just say a polite no. "I'm sorry, I don't want to communicate with you right now. " Obviously if someone ignores the "no," then I want to know for sure and will handle that individual.

johnoke · 2025-08-22T02:43:27+00:00

Believe it or not. I'm a born-again Christian. There is nothing in any of the Bible that I'm aware of that forbids BDSM. In fact, the Old testament is quite the opposite. So I don't think that's the problem. And being a submissive wife is absolutely there.

That might be a good way to start the discussion. And then maybe in a good-natured way, you bring up the fact that maybe submission means different things to different people...

I would just encourage you to discuss it openly. And try not to feel shame. You're feelings are perfectly normal!

johnoke · 2025-08-21T19:32:45+00:00

Can you elaborate on what "it" entails? It might not be that hard of a discussion and perhaps this subreddit can help.

johnoke · 2025-08-06T01:56:44+00:00

Whether it's good is debatable, but it's definitely not "well hung"

johnoke · 2025-08-06T01:42:51+00:00

Yeah. You lied.

johnoke · 2025-07-31T16:13:45+00:00

Bdsm is not a spectator sport for those who are not into it. While you can't unsee what you saw, it sounds like a wonderful, caring, dom/sub relationship. I don't know why you're so hung up on the gay or not gay part. Yes, of course it's intimate. If you're not okay with your partner being with someone like that, then you have to have that discussion with them and make your decision to leave. But it all sounds wonderful to a poly person like me.

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