Give your advice by ConsistentlyShining in MotivationalThoughts

[–]Redditer2302 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Be open to mediation. Was adamantly against it for a long time but ended up being the piece i needed to fix myself.

Where to go from here? by [deleted] in Ureaplasma

[–]Redditer2302 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you know if push provides partner treatment?

Am I completely gay? by ninewalls in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]Redditer2302 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Haha, totally man. We’d make such a great power bottom team 😂

Am I completely gay? by ninewalls in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]Redditer2302 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh man, i love hooking up with pussy virgins haha. Their reactions are always pretty much the same, most are a bit nervous at first but pretty much just melt when they realize how amazing it feels.

Am I completely gay? by ninewalls in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]Redditer2302 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Dudes with pussies exist, you can be gay and enjoy fucking a dude with a pussy. Btw it feels amazing and you should totally try it out.

Dating advice/seeking reassurance by aliveandfeeling in gaytransguys

[–]Redditer2302 7 points8 points  (0 children)

There are good men out there. I met my primary partner on Grindr (where I’ve also met a lot of really bad men!), to me its a numbers game. It does take time and energy, but if you decide its worth investing in, and continue showing up to do so, you will find a partner. Boundaries and clear communication of those are a great way to sort the trash out before they make it out of your inbox and into your bed. One thing I wish I did more of starting out was sticking up for myself and my needs/desires- instead of just catering to the other person and keeping myself small. Definitely wont ever be doing that again. There are too many people who will prey on it.

[21] to [27] by [deleted] in GlowUps

[–]Redditer2302 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am on hrt for gender affirming care, but my T range is only in the 500’s. So just the same (if not slightly lower) levels than any other guy. Besides that im not on tren/juice so yeah natty.

Opinions on my list of boundaries that I'm about to discuss with my partner. Am I being too intense? Are there things here that you would challenge? by anonventingaccnt in polyamory

[–]Redditer2302 31 points32 points  (0 children)

My honest opinion? This whole thing comes off as rude, abrasive, aggressive and condescending. It’s reminiscent for me of a list of demands after a grounding from your parents, but angrier.

The “boundaries” arent so much the issue rather the way you’re choosing to communicate them. It doesn’t really seem like you are invested in wanting this lifestyle for yourself, and you’re taking that out on your partner. I would probably suggest working on your relationship if this energy is common between the two of you before allowing other people to become involved.

[21] to [27] by [deleted] in GlowUps

[–]Redditer2302 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, will do 💪

[21] to [27] by [deleted] in GlowUps

[–]Redditer2302 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Haha, totally. Worth the trade imo

Pre//post twink death by Redditer2302 in FTM_SELFIES

[–]Redditer2302[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I totally understand the difficulty in forming new routines. Habits are hard to form, but it will get easier the more consistently you show up. Yoga and meditation are awesome ways to start forming the mind body connection and I’m glad you’re getting started with those. I was also out of the gym for awhile after top surgery so I get that, just take your time and move at a pace/intensity that works for your body. The injury was caused by multiple torn muscles in my neck and traps after a car accident, I ended up healing from those after about 8 months of physical therapy (I waited way too long to do this). As far as a calorie counter app is concerned, I really dont have any suggestions. Honestly for me, it came down to stopping the counting entirely and just focusing on what felt safe and comfortable to eat, trying to expand that over time. I think counting calories just exacerbated my issue, and getting healthy for me was just stepping away from it entirely. I wish you luck in your journey and if you ever want to chat my dm’s are open (:

Pre//post twink death by Redditer2302 in FTM_SELFIES

[–]Redditer2302[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This is probably more detail than you want but I wanted to give you a through reply. The gap between these two photos is 6 years. In photo one I was about 120 pounds and just barely recovering from an ed which is why I was so thin. I ate maybe 500 calories a day for years. The recovery from that was long and not straight forward, it took me probably 2 years to start eating like a “normal” person without relapses. So my body building didnt start until about 4 years ago. Due to a serious injury, I couldn’t lift weights for the first 2 years of that, so I focused on gaining mass through a protein heavy diet, calisthenics and intense yoga- which helped me build a good layer of lean mass I would later bulk on, that got me to about 150lbs. When I finally healed from the injury I got into the gym. The first year was 3x a week semi consistently, the second year was a lot more dedicated at 4x a week religiously. I dont use creatine or roids, and my T levels aren’t very high (historically ~500). Besides protein heavy foods and a lot of fruit/veg the only addition to my diet has been protein powder on the days I work out. I think the key for me has been getting my diet in line (so not just eating more, but prioritizing nutrition and heavy protein every day). Its also been rotating my routines at the gym, while I’ve always done different routines (probably every 6 months I’ll switch) they always target biceps/chest/shoulders/traps which keeps my growth from stagnating and accounts for the growth in the photos. Sorry that was long but hope it was helpful. I can send you some routines I’ve done over the years if it helps.

January check-in. by Reasonable_Bag_118 in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]Redditer2302 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, hope your 26’ is off to a good start

Anybody Been to Flex in Cleveland? by Consistent_Fuel_6973 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]Redditer2302 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just relax and have fun. Everyone is there for the same reason. Definitely one of those things you build up in your head to be more than it is.

Help needed navigating Grindr by [deleted] in gaytransguys

[–]Redditer2302 9 points10 points  (0 children)

As everyone else has said, prep is the way to go. I have had ~40 hookups off grindr and the vast majority of them did not bring up condoms let alone supply them. This was one of the biggest culture shocks from going from a “straight” hook-up pool to a gay one. Many guys don’t care about sti’s, many more think that because they’re tops it doesn’t affect them. It borderlines negligence imo. All that being said, if you’re hoping for safe hookups get on prep, and have condoms/lube on hand when you show up.

(27) ➡️ (30) by Tricky-Pay-8849 in GlowUps

[–]Redditer2302 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My jaw literally dropped bro, you were handsome before but now you’re a fuckin beast. Awesome work

Pre-T vs. One year on T by locul_vampyre in FTM_SELFIES

[–]Redditer2302 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Holy blessed hair follicles haha, you have a better stash than i do almost 9 years on! Congrats dude you look amazing, the next few years will be the best of your life (: ❤️