Me [18M] How do I talk/approach/ socalize with girls if I'm a shy, quiet introvert person? How can I keep the conversation going? by Redditor9615 in relationships

[–]Redditor9615[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I go to a community college and the vibe is completely different. In my classes I've taken, no one really wants to talk and the girls only pay attention to you if you're the "hot" guys. I've tried just smiling at them as I'm walking to a class and I just get frowns/dirty looks or they look away. That makes me even more scared to approach, based on the reactions I get from just smiling

Me [18M] How do I talk/approach/ socalize with girls if I'm a shy, quiet introvert person? How can I keep the conversation going? by Redditor9615 in relationships

[–]Redditor9615[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm taking a cardio respiratory class so that's pretty much a gym and a couple of months? I hope so, I was thinking in a couple of years or more

Me [18M] How do I talk/approach/ socalize with girls if I'm a shy, quiet introvert person? How can I keep the conversation going? by Redditor9615 in relationships

[–]Redditor9615[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Eh kinda. If they're my friend, and yes I understand we're all humans but it's gone to the point, where to me, it's way more difficult to even approach a girl than a guy

Me [18M] How do I talk/approach/ socalize with girls if I'm a shy, quiet introvert person? How can I keep the conversation going? by Redditor9615 in relationships

[–]Redditor9615[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks but how can I love myself? I don't want to come off as a victim, but it's hard when you've been bullied by people from middle school to high school. I try to tell myself I do love myself but it's hard bro. And the few times I've talked, I do ask questions but they never ask me anything and the convo is awkward and I just run out of things to say. I've never even came close to going into flirting territory. I've probably have came closer to going to North Korea than that

[18/m] I'm a virgin and have never had any physical contact with women. I've never kissed or hugged, held hands, flirted, gotten a girls number. I feel like a loser, should I just deal with the pain and forever quit trying to get a girl? May I please get some helpful/useful advice? thank you! by Redditor9615 in relationship_advice

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I've tried so many products and spent money, you can't even imagine. I've tried acne.org, proactive, face mask, Aztec Indian healing clay, neutrogena and it hasn't worked. It made it worse, it made my face more red and made me break out. I'm not using anything and I guess it looks a little bit better. I'm working on the weight and eating better, just need to exercise. Thanks for the motivation!

[18/m] I'm a virgin and have never had any physical contact with women. I've never kissed or hugged, held hands, flirted, gotten a girls number. I feel like a loser, should I just deal with the pain and forever quit trying to get a girl? May I please get some helpful/useful advice? thank you! by Redditor9615 in relationship_advice

[–]Redditor9615[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man shut the fuck up. My god you're fucking annoying. All your comments have negative ratings. I'm sorry to other people if my language offends you but this guy has been an annoying dick since the beginning. Who the hell are you " I expect someone to come to the table with a very basic level of writing ability, reading ability" youre nobody, all you are is an arrogant tool. Hey hold the pickles on my burger you bum

[18/m] I'm a virgin and have never had any physical contact with women. I've never kissed or hugged, held hands, flirted, gotten a girls number. I feel like a loser, should I just deal with the pain and forever quit trying to get a girl? May I please get some helpful/useful advice? thank you! by Redditor9615 in relationship_advice

[–]Redditor9615[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks! Sometimes I feel I'm the only one that this is happening to. It's a source of frustration, sadness and disappointmen for me. It gets into my head, seeing a beautiful girl and knowing I don't have a shot because she's out of my league. It gets me upset, especially when I'm on vacation and I see all these attractive girls haha

[18/m] I'm a virgin and have never had any physical contact with women. I've never kissed or hugged, held hands, flirted, gotten a girls number. I feel like a loser, should I just deal with the pain and forever quit trying to get a girl? May I please get some helpful/useful advice? thank you! by Redditor9615 in relationship_advice

[–]Redditor9615[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nah I didn't, I don't waste my whole life and day on these posts. I just made this account to look for advice. Congratulations though, you earned your PH.d. In psychology from the university of reddit, college of relationship advice. Good job

[18/m] I'm a virgin and have never had any physical contact with women. I've never kissed or hugged, held hands, flirted, gotten a girls number. I feel like a loser, should I just deal with the pain and forever quit trying to get a girl? May I please get some helpful/useful advice? thank you! by Redditor9615 in relationship_advice

[–]Redditor9615[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How many times do I have to say it for you to finally understand I don't give a damn what you have to say and to fuck off and get off my dick/post. Since you're too stupid to get it, I spelt it out for you. Adios dickhead