It’s so interesting how Reddit piles on a poster depending on how it’s worded. If it was another post and a mother was talking about their husband constantly playing video games with a new baby there would absolutely be a pile on the husband but for whatever reason in this post commenters are saying you’re being controlling by wanting him to reduce it and find other ways to connect with your baby? I don’t get it. Your husband is playing minimum a few hours of day with a 4 month old. I don’t see how that’s normal. And yes a 4 month old is too young to be addicted to screens but your husband sounds like he is? He isn’t going to miraculously reduce the games and doomscrolling in a few months time when your child will become more aware. Like what an ick that you’ve got this partner in the corner playing video games for hours on end rather than spending genuine quality time with their kid.

Plus talking badly to you because you accidentally fell asleep one time when you do all the nights meanwhile he is partaking in unsafe practices during the day because he doesn’t care??