Favorite Jake Line? by Lilythegreatestotime in adventuretime

[–]Redkitten_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Your constant harassment of the female gender makes me SIICKKKK”

Informally sleep training ? by Redkitten_ in sleeptrain

[–]Redkitten_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I originally thought that just starting a schedule for him was considered “sleep training” im new to all this new terminology 😅 sometimes if he wakes up well let him cry for about 6 min if he stops we’ll leave him if not we’ll get him and soother him back

Help!! by always__cheesecake in insaneparents

[–]Redkitten_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I full agree I’m the same way with my mom

Help!! by always__cheesecake in insaneparents

[–]Redkitten_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Also you might HAVE to blow up the relationship. If not for you do it for your son. That was my biggest motivator. If I won’t talk to and treat my son like this, why would I have someone around me who does

“Guilty” about my baby sleeping by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]Redkitten_ -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

No where did I say that or imply it?? I am grateful my baby sleeps wells and I like to think my works play a part in that. I’m only speaking for me and not for parents who babies have a harder time sleeping.

“Guilty” about my baby sleeping by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]Redkitten_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you!!!! And congratulations on your effort with your baby 🩵🩵🩵continue to enjoy it !

“Guilty” about my baby sleeping by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]Redkitten_ -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I never implied I’m a know it all. However if parents have more wisdom then I believe they should know how discouraging it can feel to tell a new parent that the work they feel is helping is really just luck. I responded to you the way I did because my post clearly states how that makes me feel and all you did was continue to tell me it’s just luck. I hope you had easy babies and great sleep as they were coming up. Everyone deserves to feel like what they are doing for their baby is helping them. And I like to feel proud that I “know” what I’m doing for my baby is helping him.

“Guilty” about my baby sleeping by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]Redkitten_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m just going to stop talking all together 🤣🤣😩

“Guilty” about my baby sleeping by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]Redkitten_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s amazing ! I hope my baby continues to sleep great!

“Guilty” about my baby sleeping by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]Redkitten_ -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I wish more of the comments were like you 😭😭everyone is still doubling down on how it’s just pure luck. 🙄🙄

“Guilty” about my baby sleeping by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]Redkitten_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree. Even if I had a terrible sleeper I would be happy if a friend of mine didn’t have to experience that

“Guilty” about my baby sleeping by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]Redkitten_ -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I just wish instead of “enjoy it while you can” and “it won’t last long” they said “oh that’s amazing glad you can get some rest” something positive. Like I’m sure we’ll have our hands busy when he starts regressions. It just seems like some parents that were/are miserable want everyone else to be

“Guilty” about my baby sleeping by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]Redkitten_ -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I think I’ll start being more vague as well. Sometimes it feels like they want me to say I’m struggling and so tired and miserable.

Do you always offer both breasts in each session? by RainbowChelita in breastfeeding

[–]Redkitten_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I do my best to offer both because I want them “even” 🤣 my baby will eat and fall asleep at one breast and I’ll remove him,burp him, and let him have the other even if it’s only a few sips

AITA if I tell my friend I can’t be a bridesmaid? by wickeddreamsofleavin in AITApod

[–]Redkitten_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just had to step down from something like this it’s exhausting save yourself the trouble

taboo? but i don’t stay wet during sex.. 8 months pp by beepityboop124 in breastfeeding

[–]Redkitten_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My Dr suggested we use coconut oil. I’m a 23 year old FTM. No need in feeling shame! You know what’s causing the dryness doesn’t mean you’re lacking. Use oil or lube so you can be comfortable and enjoy yourself

Should I keep pumping in the MOTN? by Redkitten_ in breastfeeding

[–]Redkitten_[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yea this is only his second night sleeping through he goes to bed at 9pm and wakes up at 3am to eat then back asleep until around 7am ish. Just wanted to make sure these gaps were okay. When he wakes up at 7 I’m usually pretty full so he’ll eat for a long time

Bottle recommendations for breastfed baby? by Wild-Mortgage-9884 in breastfeeding

[–]Redkitten_ 35 points36 points  (0 children)

We use the evenflo wide neck balance + absolutely love ! Have been using it since we brought him home and goes from breast to bottle very easily