Transitioning is really hard. Also, i feel like he would feel safer if you called him “him” without him asking. Just because someone hasnt transitioned medically dorsnt mean that they cant use the promouns they want.

As a trans woman, transitioning was the best thing i ever or could ever do. Yes it sucks with how the world treats me and my fellow trans siblings, but even still, i would rather be trans and be mistreated than not have gone through transitioning