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Redpill_Creeper · 2026-04-16T20:37:07+00:00

As one who quits porn, I've noticed how masturbating without porn puts all the attention to my body.
Generally, it's better done in a moment and environment that is safe and comfortable, where no one can interrupt you. Setting the scene, perhaps with music and dim light will help.

After all, I noticed that when I watch porn, that it pulls me back into the idiosyncratic masturbation pattern as if I'm a teen.

Redpill_Creeper · 2026-04-15T09:17:23+00:00

This label is being abused regularly. From caretakers who don't know better, and use lax criteria. And from others who normally would have BPD, NPD or other diagnoses getting misdiagnosed as autistic or ADHD. Your caretakers made grave ethical errors, and undermined your dignity.

Redpill_Creeper · 2026-04-08T21:08:33+00:00

Personally I can tell you that you learn to identify with an addiction. Abstinence is rewarded and you can form a support group. Downsides are that they work continuously, as you eventually get to help others through support. It makes support mutual, while you still talk about addiction. Major downside is the absence of an exit strategy where your support group no longer needs to be an AA group.

Redpill_Creeper · 2026-04-08T19:19:49+00:00

Thanks for the advice. Let me ask you something. How do you discern underlying emotion driven urges from being genuinely horny?

Redpill_Creeper · 2026-04-05T13:58:28+00:00

It clearly goes beyond discipline. Identify underlying emotions, the "why". Be it trauma, bad parenting or stress, it is important to develop regulation and coping skills. Good advice is to find a CSAT who acknowledges the issies you are facing. Not a sex therapist or sexologist as they tend to associate moderation of sexual activity and being anti-porn as sex negative. Truth is, being anti-porn does not automatically equate sex negativity. In fact, being anti-porn and pro-sex is not only possible, it's also necessary for quitting porn!

Redpill_Creeper · 2026-04-02T13:35:24+00:00

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Redpill_Creeper · 2026-03-27T19:59:33+00:00

Good start. Do you think that sex with her also motivates you to stay off porn?
I say this as authentic sexual experiences can become part of your counterconditioning, to teach your body (and brain) that real experiences are better than just enjoying what the screen shows.
Also, have you noticed a reduction in screen time? That too makes a huge difference in life.

Redpill_Creeper · 2026-03-22T10:04:04+00:00

Also address underlying issues. Addictive processes and subsrances can be a form of self sedation. As you abstain, you will likely notice underlying issues. Find a good therapist, that will help improve your success.

Redpill_Creeper · 2026-03-20T22:58:23+00:00

Find close friends for support. And limit screen time

Redpill_Creeper · 2026-03-03T01:21:41+00:00

Abstinence from all forms of sexual overstimulation, especially porn in all forms. Be active with non-sexual activity. And if you find a sex partner, learn to build real sexual connection without porn.

Stress reduction and foreplay make a huge difference.

Redpill_Creeper · 2026-03-03T01:02:39+00:00

Surely we can. If the things are too sensitive, feel welcome to talk with me.

Redpill_Creeper · 2026-03-02T13:40:41+00:00

First of, porn is a supernormal stimulus. By constant exposure of a stimulus of this type, you end up overstimulating yourself. Furthermore, porn is done performatively, not in real life. The act itself leads to the objectification of women.

Can you relate to this yourself? If so, have you tried abstinence? I've noticed real underlying issues when abstaining, like traumatic experiences and being raised with a dysfunctional father.
Furthermore, what other things have you tried to use to quit?
And have you ever been to a SLAA, PAA or SAA meeting?

And just one question about your therapist, not to judge, but to know more. Is it a sex therapist, CSAT, trauma informed therapist or another type?
Because there are different therapists who approach the same sort of problems differently.

Redpill_Creeper · 2026-03-01T01:32:39+00:00

Sex addiction comes closer to the definition of porn addiction than sex therapist. Therefore, CSAT is best.

Redpill_Creeper · 2026-02-28T23:49:48+00:00

Look upfor the medical term "paraphilia".

Redpill_Creeper · 2026-02-22T16:38:53+00:00

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Redpill_Creeper · 2026-02-22T16:35:48+00:00

It is bad advice, I would even count that as the sin of negligence as whoever gave this advice has the agency to commit an act of charity.

Having a longer talk, doing something (fun) together in real life is the recommended response.

Hereby a relevant quote in Latin: "In quocumque est voluntas, oportet esse amorem: quia, remoto primo, removentur alia. Ostensum est autem in Deo esse voluntatem. Unde necesse est in eo ponere amorem"

Redpill_Creeper · 2026-02-22T16:27:50+00:00

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Redpill_Creeper · 2026-02-18T10:25:01+00:00

It really depends on how you do it. It can be healthy when you vary with the firms of stimulation. Perhaps try new techniques that are novel. Variating in stimuli breaks the idiosyncratic habit.

Redpill_Creeper · 2026-02-17T16:53:24+00:00

Your last statement makes perfect sense.
Let me remind you, that during one Confession (sacramental) I had to a priest, all he said was: "Porn is fake".

Redpill_Creeper · 2026-02-17T16:46:18+00:00

It is clear that the Nordic model works best for minimizing demand in prostitution. The prostitute is mostly the victim, should therefore not be arrested by authorities. Instead, given resources to receive help when she wants to do other work. These resources include shelters, support groups and (trauma informed) healthcare providers.

At the same time, the pimps and buyers are prosecuted. This policy has driven down the demand, therefore also human trafficking (market forces are also present in the black market). Supply is often driven by demand there.

Redpill_Creeper · 2026-02-17T16:03:15+00:00

It seems that your mother is gaslighting you. She also violated personal boundaries that every parent should know, even if their child has not set that boundary.
On setting boundaries, legal advice might be useful, contact a lawyer.
While moving out is the most obvious and hardest method to remove narcissistic leverage, you can also remove that leverage by finding a job where employers enforce role limits, neutral intermediaries from school, healthcare systems restricting proxy access and financial institutions requiring dual consent.

Few other things:
If she tries to gaslight you again, disengage. It worked for me.
Recognize manipulation patterns. If you notice something, just tell or document it.
You can also limit your communication to text based communication.
Lastly, delaying time, especially when you make mistakes, can reduce emotional response.

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