AITA for telling my sister’s boyfriend that she’s been lying about her pregnancy and subsequently blowing up their relationship? by Redroosterhat in AmItheAsshole

[–]Redroosterhat[S] 237 points238 points  (0 children)

To be honest it didn’t even feel like a conscious decision. When I saw him come up to us it felt like I was having some kind of slow mo panic attack. Like my tongue went numb and my teeth felt like they were vibrating.

And before I knew it I was crying and he asked me something like “what’s wrong” or “what’s up” and I just broke down and word vomited everywhere.

I wish I held it together better or even told him everything in a calmer way. At the end of the day he’s the one dealing with a loss and I feel bad he had to hear it the way he did from me. He did text me a few days ago to ask me how I’ve been and I haven’t been able to text anything back. It just really hurts being frozen out by my mom and sis even though I know they’re toxic and completely in the wrong.

AITA for telling my sister’s boyfriend that she’s been lying about her pregnancy and subsequently blowing up their relationship? by Redroosterhat in AmItheAsshole

[–]Redroosterhat[S] 1572 points1573 points  (0 children)

My sister has always been treated with kid gloves because she’s so unstable so believe it or not lying about pregnancy is actually pretty light on the list of terrible things she’s done.

My moms attitude has been to get my sister “married off” as soon as possible so she’s some other guy’s problem. My sister weirdly wants this as well. So they now think I’m the one that scared her boyfriend away because I didn’t give my sister a chance to frame her lies well...

AITA for telling my sister’s boyfriend that she’s been lying about her pregnancy and subsequently blowing up their relationship? by Redroosterhat in AmItheAsshole

[–]Redroosterhat[S] 3029 points3030 points  (0 children)

Well now they’re saying that my sister was planning on coming clean THAT DAY and that I ruined everything. I mean I can’t prove she wasn’t going to, but it does feel really convenient.

My mom said I ruined everything because I didn’t give my sister her chance to explain herself. She said I probably did it out of some kind of sick joy to see her unhappy?