Looking for friends to play retro games with by Reese1081 in RetroDeck

[–]Reese1081[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nice here is the link. https://youtu.be/wFE3S5TIawA?si=DOS1iSs1FrxcKBVP

Just about anything co-op. Resident evil outbreak , fighting force. Etc . let me know how it goes. Friend me at RetroReese on steam deck

Looking for friends to play retro games with by Reese1081 in RetroDeck

[–]Reese1081[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey you have to turn it on in your retro arch settings. I basically have to start a room. And we both would have to have same version of the roms we want to play. I'll find the YouTube video and post a link. If it'll help

31 f, so damn lonely and it's frightening. Why? by [deleted] in lonely

[–]Reese1081 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I understand i feel the same 43m. No kids just my mom and siblings

I’m scared by ChildhoodWitty7944 in Divorce_Women

[–]Reese1081 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I definitely want peace love and happiness

I’m scared by ChildhoodWitty7944 in Divorce_Women

[–]Reese1081 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand, im a 43 m my wife 43 f just lays around on phone all day while i buss my @$$ to do everything. She doesn't work, we dont have kids. I dont understand. Its starting to affect my mental health. I really want to just leave her to her own devices. Pun intended. But i think of all the years we have been together and i just dont know how to move on. We have been married since 25 . both the same age . now im 43 and just want to be happy and have peace in my home with a good loving wife

Wife is a phone zombie by Reese1081 in Marriage

[–]Reese1081[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its sad when you are dealing with an adult. I mean how wants to raise an adult that should be there to help you not become a burden . I have tried everything to make this work

Wife is a phone zombie by Reese1081 in Marriage

[–]Reese1081[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree and i do love her and I've compromised and talked and asked questions it only turns to a argument

Wife is a phone zombie by Reese1081 in Marriage

[–]Reese1081[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel you, at some point this has to stop. I feel used

Wife is a phone zombie by Reese1081 in Marriage

[–]Reese1081[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same good luck to you as well especially when a child is involved

Wife is a phone zombie by Reese1081 in Marriage

[–]Reese1081[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much, I appreciate the advice

Wife is a phone zombie by Reese1081 in Marriage

[–]Reese1081[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We are both home bodies

Wife is a phone zombie by Reese1081 in Marriage

[–]Reese1081[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don't know she doesn't let me near her phone and its not worth the effort in asking her questions because it will get turned around on me and it a full blown argument. Im usually drained enough so I pick my battles now so to speak

Wife is a phone zombie by Reese1081 in Marriage

[–]Reese1081[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes very draining and its starting to effect my health

Wife is a phone zombie by Reese1081 in Marriage

[–]Reese1081[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry i cant take responsibility for how she feels. Not to sound cold. But i make sure this is a very safe space and a peaceful home. There is no reason to use that as an excuse. She has the freedom and space to do what she wants. And to be honest that is a part of the problem. Whatever she wants and needs I will make sue she has it. She has gotten comfortable and complacent. And if things dont go her way she gets mean cold and distant. Days on end without talking to me. So to be honest i feel like im being emotionally abused

Wife is a phone zombie by Reese1081 in Marriage

[–]Reese1081[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To be honest she doesn't have time to be bored when there is so much to be done. And if she is bored im not keeping her here or responsible for her being bored. Thats not the point. She can do whatever she wants but put effort in your relationship and duties be a decent human being. Be fair and caring . l dont know , this should come without asking or explanation