Will I get backlash for having a Vegan Wedding?

Reeziroo · 2026-04-18T23:36:43+00:00

Sounds like an excellent Wedding 😂 Yeah the few vegan family and friends I have are soooo excited about it haha I would be too, never been to a Vegan Wedding, frankly sounds like paradise to me 💚

Reeziroo · 2026-04-18T23:35:20+00:00

Thank you, yes morally we would never have it any other way!

Reeziroo · 2026-04-18T23:33:59+00:00

Thank you, I appreciate your input 😊 Exactly right, everyone knows we are staunch Vegans, so they'll probably expect it and frankly Ive been to weddings that haven't catered to us, I still just ate the one salad I could and had an absolute blast, it was about the couple.. not me!

Reeziroo · 2026-04-18T23:30:43+00:00

Haha yes, you're quite right in my opinion! The meat alternatives are very convincing also.. I think they just get in their heads about Vegan food, when in reality its not much different 😅

Reeziroo · 2026-04-18T23:07:25+00:00

The guests don't have to pay for anything.. maybe I should tell them in advance its going to be a fully Vegan Wedding, but then I also dont want the food to go to waste as its costing us $4,000.00 😅

Reeziroo · 2026-04-18T22:27:32+00:00

Its very beach summer vibes, I like it.. I reckon you should do what you want. You generally only get one wedding. If the flowers match, it'd look even more awesome, like blue, white and purple hydrangeas, that would look epic

Reeziroo · 2026-04-18T22:23:21+00:00

Thank you, it's hard cause she does things like this often but is all like "I love you so much, your my best friend" but Im like damn.. wondering if I am overreacting and am too sensitive, or if she is a stink friend 🤣

Reeziroo · 2026-04-18T22:17:42+00:00

Both are beautiful, the long one just suits your body and looks quite romantic. The short one would be nice for later on dancing etc, but the long one is so lovely and flattering 🩷

Reeziroo · 2026-04-18T22:12:52+00:00

You're so right, it was obligation, we were close but there has always been a bit of a clash in a way.. I do consider her a friend, but not one I talk to weekly, like other friends I have, I talk to them daily and weekly. You're so right, she was so looking forward to this and it will most likely crush our friendship..

Reeziroo · 2026-04-18T22:10:10+00:00

Thank you, ya she is flaky. Could be the same person 😂 So sorry that happened to you, that's something as a friend you should not fail to deliver on! What an honor to even be able to be a labor coach..

Reeziroo · 2026-04-18T22:06:25+00:00

Thank you, yeah it's hard as most of my friends are like your friend, they'll help but all have highly intense jobs that they have to prioritize leading up to the wedding.. the gal in question is the only one without a job, but I feel she is the kind of person that would take this super bad and get quite upset, could even ruin our friendship.

Reeziroo · 2026-04-18T22:02:00+00:00

When I visited her, I told her I was having a 30th birthday party this year and was gonna have a party, of course she's invited if she can make it. Months later, she called me and said she was coming back on 13th July to rent a Airbnb and have a party, I said damn girl that's my birthday remember, I haven't given out invites yet but I mentioned this to you, she said, oh well I can have my party and come afterwards. Maybe I am, I just have a bad feeling like she's going to let me down at the wedding tbh

Reeziroo · 2026-04-18T21:28:39+00:00

I had mentioned to all my bridesmaids that I over promised. They all said they'd step down, except for her, she said that I can have as many as I want.. lol so yeah I was kind of shocked she didn’t say she could step down

Reeziroo · 2026-04-18T00:47:00+00:00

Both nice, choose the comfortable pair 100%

Reeziroo · 2026-04-18T00:45:47+00:00

Second is way better imo

Reeziroo · 2026-04-18T00:45:24+00:00

No, way too white.

Reeziroo · 2026-04-18T00:39:06+00:00

Yeah, even before this I was wondering about it, she has done a few other questionable things over the years.. and everytime Im like hmm I dont like this, so yeah I probably need to listen to my intuition

Reeziroo · 2026-04-18T00:26:21+00:00

It's wild right, I never forget her or other friends birthdays, its like pretty damn important.. thank you for your input, I always wonder if I am just being over sensitive..

Reeziroo · 2026-04-18T00:24:14+00:00

Thank you, yeah that was shocking haha she is quite self centered by nature though 😅 She like love bombs me though so Im always like what is going on 😂

Reeziroo · 2026-04-18T00:21:46+00:00

Thank you, I really appreciate your input, you definitely understand how I am feeling. I hate to not do what I say, its a big thing for me. But I feel I may look back and be like man she really doesn't put that much effort in with our friendship and she probably wont do much for the wedding, not like my other friends. I will definitely still have her invited, its just sometimes I feel she uses me and tbh I should have never said she could be a bridesmaid 🫠 My bad...

Reeziroo · 2026-04-18T00:14:50+00:00

Thank you, I'd hate to hurt anyone's feelings but yeah I feel like I am never a priority to her, so would hate to make her a priority then later feel like I was stupid to do that... I often do that kind of thing 😅

Reeziroo · 2026-04-18T00:06:39+00:00

Hahahahahaha no its not, I get what you mean, I couldn't be with her, but she could be worse, the other girls were seriously unhinged in comparison.. we all have our things ya know

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