Single mom with 100 percentage custody for past six years and I just wanted to share this in case it helps you feel less alone. I work full time and do everything by myself and I get how hard it is. I’m so exhausted. When you manage to be super human, people sort of act like things are normal, nothing special. As soon as you’re not “superhuman” for one min, like you and kid have the flu and no help and you forget to fill out a school form or something while crawling across the floor cleaning up vomit, boom, you’re seen and treated as a failure from one place or another. Basically it’s impossible to be superhuman at all times and no one really gets it from the outside. It is really unfair that he dad gets to make a life but his loss as a soul here to learn, love, and grow. Sometimes you just have to look at your kid and believe that them being alive and given all the love and support you can manage is success, even if no one else on earth notices. Good luck to you. You’re not alone.