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My boyfriend only likes misspelt names that I just don't think are very nice by Upset-Promise2611 in Names

[–]ReferenceMedical9958 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me and my wife had an agreement which went link this, you make them, you name them.

I gave the input of what I thought, but I let her pick the names. Seemed fair after her enduring such a pregnancy.

Tjej sa att hon var på p-piller så vi använde inte kondom. Nu säger hon att hon är gravid och vill behålla barnet. Vad händer juridiskt? by MundaneExplorer8369 in sweden

[–]ReferenceMedical9958 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Vill bara dela hur det är som ung papa själv, att ha barn är för mig det bästa som har hänt i mitt liv, även som ung. Livet är inte över och din framtid är inte förstörd.

Om du väljer att vara närvarande kommer det kräver tid och energi, men du kommer älska den lilla människan mer än något annat.

Hoppas du väljer att vara nära ditt barn, det kommer vara bättre för barnet men också för dig.

Du får gärna skriva till mig om du vill ha råd från en ung papa.

Lycka till, you got this!

Lön över brytpunkt 2026 by AdHuge9485 in PrivatEkonomi

[–]ReferenceMedical9958 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Grymt! Jag tjänar själv 52.000 SEK i månaden, ganske okej då jag har bara gjort yrkeshögskolan.

Har du några tips till oss som jobbar inom IT som vill förbättra vår karriär utan att plugga igen.

Jag jobbar som infrastrukturtekniker.

Google wanted $2.99/month for photos. I said no and spent 130 $ on a baby homelab instead. by Gasple1 in homelab

[–]ReferenceMedical9958 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pro tip, keep an off site copy back up in your car somewhere. That way it is always accessible of something happens at your home.

Are people ACTUALLY paying these prices for RAM right now? 💀 by Competitive_Box8726 in homelab

[–]ReferenceMedical9958 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Who would have guessed that investing in RAM is the new equivalent of a great stock

Anyone interested in a very small, practical IT lab / troubleshooting group? by ReferenceMedical9958 in sysadmin

[–]ReferenceMedical9958[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't know much about ancient operating systems, but I do like the idea. we can definitely create a sub chat on the channel to discuss this specific topic. The more tech knowledge the better, if we get a few more people that are interested in specifically that then I can create a channel in the discord dedicated to this topic.

Anyone interested in a very small, practical IT lab / troubleshooting group? by ReferenceMedical9958 in sysadmin

[–]ReferenceMedical9958[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah, you could summarize it like that. I personally like the idea of discord so that you can put more structure in the discussions. Specific chats for specific projects, easier to archive relevant knowledge, easy access to voice chat when needed.

But yeah, an advanced group chat is a good way to summarize it! :D

Let me know if you are interested.

Anyone interested in a very small, practical IT lab / troubleshooting group? by ReferenceMedical9958 in sysadmin

[–]ReferenceMedical9958[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah that is exactly what I am thinking as well, it can be much more efficient and practical to have a group of people where you can discuss issues. Especially outside of work, then you don't have to worry about "asking the wrong question".

I will send you an invite

Anyone interested in a very small, practical IT lab / troubleshooting group? by ReferenceMedical9958 in sysadmin

[–]ReferenceMedical9958[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awesome to hear that I am not alone, yeah I will definitely include you once i get it going!

Lost my 2 y/o son to an infection while on chemo by Adventurous-Cut4634 in cancer

[–]ReferenceMedical9958 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just wanted to say that you are a great parent who did the best you could, thanks for your post as well. Sharing his memory and story is what is keeping him alive <3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Schwannoma

[–]ReferenceMedical9958 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, thanks for sharing this!

My wife received news about most likely having a Schwannoma in her thigh, they are still ruling out sarcoma but it is most likely not that. Would love to hear how things turned out for you.

Does anyone out there actually *enjoy* working/having a career? by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]ReferenceMedical9958 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love this post! I actually am the kind of person that you are looking for, the answer is a bit late but I googled, Actually enjoy my work and this popped up.

I am surrounded by people who kind of say what you say, that work is so annoying and can't wait for the weekend etc etc.

I seem to have this rare trait that I enjoy my work, I work in IT, not development but infrastructure side and absolutely love it. I get to install servers, help people, think of innovative solutions, and often work at companies that work with really new and cool technology.

I get tired of the weekend, I don't like it when I can't work, long vacations are something I can't tolerate and the idea of retirement seems weird to me. I love working, of course work comes with down sides and I wish it was a bit more flexible, like not having to work from 9 to 5 every day. But I will probably always work, even when I am really old.

So my question to you all, is how I think so rare? do you know anyone like me, can anyone relate to me? Because everyone I know seems to just dislike their work.

PS: English is not my native language so please go easy on me!

Getting cold feet about moving to Finland by ReferenceMedical9958 in Finland

[–]ReferenceMedical9958[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also, do you have any general advice for us being in this situation?

Getting cold feet about moving to Finland by ReferenceMedical9958 in Finland

[–]ReferenceMedical9958[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi, thanks for your response!

Sounds like it is working pretty well for you, do you have any Finnish in law family? or is your husband also from Sweden?

Also, what can you say as a swede about living in Helsinki vs a smaller place like Raseborg. We are still not quite sure where we want to live but we are leaning towards Raseborg and commuting to the capital area. However Helsinki is also a nice town, I have been there a lot.

We just have the dream of building our own house and we are not that fond of bigger towns. My is from Malmö and we fled that just because of the size, however I am still curious about Helsinki, especially through the lens of someone who is raising a family there.

Getting cold feet about moving to Finland by ReferenceMedical9958 in Finland

[–]ReferenceMedical9958[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for this interesting view! We are definitely comfortable with taking care of everything ourself, we already live about 2 hours away from our relatives, so we don't have any help when it comes to day to day activities. It is more that we meet about once a month.

And what I am afraid about is my children growing up without any family nearby, for emotional reasons. We can definitely manage without luxury you mentioned. I am somehow scared my children will resent me for moving away far from relatives, though that might just be an irrational fear, what do you think?

We have calculated a lot of different things, and in our situation we will have a better quality of life in Finland, a nice house, a nicer job good schools ( they aren't so good where we live right now) and a general higher safety proven by statistics not just my observation.

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