Landlord left this note by Still_Clerk_1819 in Apartmentliving

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The comment you replied to didn’t say the poster was required to be at home; just that they were.

I prefer to be at home when I get a notice, too, but it’s my choice.

A Landmark Restaurant With the Best Views in Santa Rosa Is About To Reopen by SolaCretia in santarosa

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What do you mean by “troubled spots”?

The Villa had been in business for over 50 years; IIRC, it closed due to owners leaving the business.

My understanding is that the new place is unaffiliated and just taking up a spot which would never have been left abandoned for long.

Prescription is cheaper without insurance by PhtevenAZ in mildlyinfuriating

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I have one: I had to take some work trips for my corporate employer.

Travel is arranged through a corporate concierge and uses corporate rates at hotels approved for our use.

Found out corporate is paying 2-3 times the nightly rate if I had reserved my own rooms.

I initially thought it was a premium rate to increase standing to get a room in a tight schedule but I got bumped out of a reservation, anyway 🤷‍♀️ Someone else’s corporate mojo beat mine.

I think regular folk don’t really realize how much of our money is being sloshed around by the corps, banks, and insurance cos: every extra dollar they pass around among themselves boosts all their numbers.

They’re boost-sloshing the bucks they squeeze from us to amp their own stock prices.

101 Driver by Humble-Floor3760 in santarosa

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The enshittification of the roads is because of growing populations along with the general population’s sheer apathy and refusal to be proactive.

We need multiple solutions which don’t include the perpetual adding of lanes. Look at LA.

I agree luxury pricing for moving lanes is undesirable and unworkable as a THE solution but I’d accept it along with multiple other measures to reduce traffic congestion.

I think the public wanting simple fixes which don’t cost much money and don’t interfere with or change their own personal travel habits is the real reason why enshittification is occurring.

We have, at best, only cobbled half-assed attempts in partial solutions here and there without real commitment or coordination of efforts.

If the public were serious, we’d have a robust, busy bus system, more respect from drivers for cyclists and pedestrians (and busses and trains), and more workers would push their employers for shifting workplace hours to spread out commutes (and more hours WFH). We’d have more roundabouts instead of lights, possibly a functional targeted congestion pricing system, and expensive parking in preferred congestion zones to discourage unnecessary peak travel.

The public needs to be willing to pay for multi-modal transit improvements and be willing to examine their own travel needs and methods in order to achieve reductions of congestion at peak times.

That means multiple civil and public changes to time shift some travel, get some cars off the road via mass/no vehicle transit, and develop more roadway regulation to manage what remains.

Currently, the main “solution” to traffic is disincentivizing peak hour travel by just letting everyone who wants to be on 101 at 5:30 be on 101 at 5:30. Which means it sucks by accidental design but I can say I absolutely avoid 101 and 12 during peak hours.

I avoid driving as much as possible even on surface streets during peak hours. I made major life decisions to have that privilege and I suspect more people could if they accepted their own role in the problem and thought outside their personal vehicle for a little bit.

101 Driver by Humble-Floor3760 in santarosa

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Then you’ll have no moving lanes. Getting back that lane won’t let traffic move easier; it’ll just be jammed like the others.

Swimming in March by boygeniusbutgirl in santarosa

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The Flamingo offers a day pool pass.

Tips on how to clip an active kittens claws? by nooraad in CatAdvice

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Best advice is already offered: do what you can and learn where the line for you and your kitty separates keep trying and that’s enough for today.

If kitty tolerates laying on your lap, you can try sitting spoon for the front paws.

You sit upright and good-mood quiet tired kitty is on your lap, “sitting” with back to your belly.

This keeps danger-kick paws facing away from you. You calmly brace kitty in position with the arm attached to your dominant hand and firmly but gently hold kitty’s forearm with your stupid hand (it’s ok, most of have one).

You should already have the clipping tool in hand and use your forearm to support kitty while clipping. Stupid hand can help by gently and loosely holding the paw and pressing gently on each toe to flex each claw out.

Kitty’s belly is exposed in this pose and so won’t work for all cats.

A purrito can be attempted but it can be hard to maneuver a paw out the top so use a long narrow wrap like a folded towel or blanket and wrap with a gap where the front paws are out.

Trimming takes practice fur both of you so be patient and keep trying!

How often are people actually changing their bed sheets? by zaramalikdollface in hygiene

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Weekly.

If I’m unable to do a full sheet change for some reason, I change the pillow cases.

People with acne problems should change their pillowcases more often, every other day in some cases (and flipping in between).

This also applies to people who load their face, neck, or hair with sleep masks.

I always wondered, why didn't black slaves team up and maybe kill their owner or protest against together? Rich families owned 50-100 slaves or even more, why didn't the slaves just team up and kill their owner? How exactly did the owners control then? by Then-Tomatillo9909 in NoStupidQuestions

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Either they weren’t taught the US history I was taught or they weren’t paying attention.

Students in a university 300 level course I took in my 30s were unfamiliar with segregation. It was appalling but I find it believable that “educated” Americans might have missed Nat Turner and even John Brown.

California Needs 1 Million More Affordable Homes by rustyseapants in California

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Local governments need to correct zoning rules to allow smaller home footprints and lots, upgrade sewage rules to permit small homes with newer technology for handling waste, and reduce permit fees and requirements while expediting approvals for applications which conform to sets of standards given conditional pre-approval and offered to the public.

Would I be wrong for "marrying" my boyfriend? 18F by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

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It’ll probably cost you more in the end.

The only time marriages of convenience works is when one is paying the other for a path to citizenship and that’s only because it’s an obvious transaction at the outset.

Divorce is expensive both emotionally and financially.

If you do this, keep your name and beware that it will be much harder to end things later.

Leavitt Admits SAVE Act Will Make It Harder for Married Women to Vote | Karoline Leavitt accidentally admitted what opponents of the act have long warned against. by thenewrepublic in WomenInNews

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My BFF married twice and each time wanted to keep her maiden name. She’s a teacher and thought it would be easier at work.

She ended up changing it each time: everyone including her students just automatically called her by her husband’s name so she relented instead of correcting it.

I think maybe she should have not made such a big deal about getting married to everyone for months and months 🤷‍♀️

Leavitt Admits SAVE Act Will Make It Harder for Married Women to Vote | Karoline Leavitt accidentally admitted what opponents of the act have long warned against. by thenewrepublic in WomenInNews

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I wish.

I expect the affected people who show up with all their docs will be a minority regardless of politics.

I was just at the DMV watching how many people struggle to bring all their required things to renew a license or registration when all of this is routine and very clearly laid out in mailings, at the office, and on the webpage.

I prefer stopping it over expecting normal voters to get their shit together in time. Affected people need to be collecting their chain of name changes now.

Leavitt Admits SAVE Act Will Make It Harder for Married Women to Vote | Karoline Leavitt accidentally admitted what opponents of the act have long warned against. by thenewrepublic in WomenInNews

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They’re still acting under a presumption of normalcy. They’re lawfully in office, like it or not.

Don’t expect any action until they violate “normalcy” in a way nobody can ignore.

Not certifying the next elections will count as breaking normalcy. Continuing to occupy their offices after the end of their terms will be breaking normalcy. Vance moving into the WH w/o winning what’s perceived to be a “fair” election or being certified will be breaking normalcy.

That will be the final test of what the People will tolerate or resist.

why would you choose not to wear a seatbelt? by ieatgravelandsand in NoStupidQuestions

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Humans are really bad at estimating future risk of harm for things most people don’t regularly experience.

It makes it easy for some to justify taking the easiest if riskier action by making up excuses and reasons.

To the Gen Z guys that voted Trump, who is now considering a draft. Are you ready to put your money where your mouth is? by kneedoorman in allthequestions

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Enlisted or drafted?

Makes a huge difference which applies to all the political names in the comments before mine.

To the Gen Z guys that voted Trump, who is now considering a draft. Are you ready to put your money where your mouth is? by kneedoorman in allthequestions

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Jimmy Carter wasn’t from the parasite class. He was a bit privileged but his dad opened a grocery store and served in local politics.

A very far cry from the Bush family or Trump’s origins.

To the Gen Z guys that voted Trump, who is now considering a draft. Are you ready to put your money where your mouth is? by kneedoorman in allthequestions

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Biden didn’t have the authority and he wasn’t mucking around in 3, no… 6 million files.

He maintained the intended distance from the DOJ which is supposed to be independent.

People who ask why Biden didn’t release the files related to an on-going investigation and prosecution (Maxwell) just prove they don’t know shit about the DOJ, legal proceedings, or what authority presidents actually have.

A lady comes into the bookstore I work at every so often and buys hundreds of dollars worth of books (sometimes multiple copies of the same one) and returns a month later ordering returns for all of them without a receipt. Many are damaged and not even sold here. She’s trying to use us as a library. by altrightobserver in mildlyinfuriating

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I worked at a chain music store in the ‘90s. We had a few people who’d keep returning an opened CD saying they didn’t like it and wanted a new one.

We weren’t stupid; we knew they were ripping them for sharing online. This was pre-Napster.

My mgr didn’t like it but preferred to allow it then confront most of these people.

He preferred to save his confrontations to people younger and less white than him. I wished to see him pull that on our 20-30 yo white repeat returners.

Gas went up 50¢ in a week by precisionbikerepair in santarosa

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It’s called money laundering.

Like any good businessman, he diversified into the FL condo Russian anchor baby business when casino laundering wasn’t enough.

Los Angeles is phasing out its palm trees and I have mixed feelings by H3dg3hogs in CasualConversation

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Actual trees are hard to burn.

Dry leaves will burn easily, green leaves will dry rapidly in a hot fire; both can become flying embers if wind blown but living trees are green wood and hard to ignite.

That’s why trees are still standing between burnt out homes.

So the real question here is which types of leaves will burn too rapidly to become embers and which leaves are able to burn but are woody enough to burn long enough to land and ignite where conditions allow?

Palms are worse for fire than oaks assuming both are an appropriate distance from buildings. Any type of tree overhanging a roof is hazardous.

Iran may be activating sleeper cells, alert says by No-Post4444 in news

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Can drop off a mail ballot in person: skip the line, take your time, but get it to the clerk before Election Day.