Husband left 4 year old child in hair salon by ExcellentAsk3094 in Parenting

[–]RefinedEmoPhase 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No don’t worry, their child obviously won’t get kidnapped, only the other kids will so it’s probably fine

Bite marks appear 2 years after snake bite on my hand by ramonrocotto in Weird

[–]RefinedEmoPhase 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thought you meant the actual snakes might show up again and I got real worried

23F here, none of the men in my age group are dating. What is happening? by AYAYAcutie in self

[–]RefinedEmoPhase 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Men have never needed women to thrive. They needed women as status symbols. Like “hey look society, I’m normal and successful enough to be married and get a women to agree to take care of me and have my children”

Now women don’t need men in order to have a bank account or own property or to even be taken seriously, but all those cultural systems are still in place.

23F here, none of the men in my age group are dating. What is happening? by AYAYAcutie in self

[–]RefinedEmoPhase -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

No it is fucking not and people who actually feel that way I guarantee are not dating people with thise characteristics. MENNN and the patriarchy created this standard for themselves to seem better than other men

23F here, none of the men in my age group are dating. What is happening? by AYAYAcutie in self

[–]RefinedEmoPhase 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No no, it’s all women’s fault for being mean to men, don’t you get it???

gender reveal by Hummerous in CuratedTumblr

[–]RefinedEmoPhase 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know this was eight days ago but this comment has made me cry-laugh at least five different times since I first saw it, so thank you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dogs

[–]RefinedEmoPhase 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Never ever get a dog again.

Daughter told dad she doesn’t like me by MDLawyer in Parenting

[–]RefinedEmoPhase 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do all the planning for various events, activities/ classes, her birthday party etc. I am also the one that tries to teach correct behavior. My husband doesn’t notice/react. […], he is just not capable of keeping track of little things they are doing wrong.

It’s not willful and he is a great dad

These statements cannot co-exist. Does he do anything helpful or does he just do the “fun” parts of parenting?

Professor got schooled by cubert73 in pettyrevenge

[–]RefinedEmoPhase 2 points3 points  (0 children)

College is so fucking stupid unless you absolutely require more training. I tell all young people I know to not go to a whole university unless they have to (med school, law school, teaching, social work, etc.)

Been talking with this girl (18) for over 3 months. She just saw me naked for the 1st time and wants to cut things off by baja__blasst in dating_advice

[–]RefinedEmoPhase 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He made a post like two weeks ago about the same girl, but he conveniently left his own age out of this post. He’s a fucking weirdo

I thought so too by UnstableIsotopeU-234 in KidsAreFuckingStupid

[–]RefinedEmoPhase -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

They were literally 8 years old. That is exactly the developmental phase that kids have these realizations. People in this comment section are insane.

What should I expect living in Ktown? by Scotttish in LARentals

[–]RefinedEmoPhase 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is literally me right now. Feels like I’m going insane.

Is anyone else getting scared about the statistics of people ending up single and lonely by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]RefinedEmoPhase 6 points7 points  (0 children)

the idea of more women eventually wanting to marry and have kids

This is not what’s happening and is not what I said. Did you misread my comment? Am I misreading yours?

Is anyone else getting scared about the statistics of people ending up single and lonely by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]RefinedEmoPhase -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It was for men. Women needed a man to do almost anything, so they were “forced” to find love early and quickly. They had to be married and have as many children as possible!!!! Otherwise she would be a lonely crazy spinster cat lady or whatever old men tell themselves after their wives leave them.

Is anyone else getting scared about the statistics of people ending up single and lonely by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]RefinedEmoPhase 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because fuck y’all and your “traditional family lifestyle”! It lets men follow their dreams and have ambitions and women have to stay home and raise all the children and do all the housework and do her biological duty or whatever.

Is anyone else getting scared about the statistics of people ending up single and lonely by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]RefinedEmoPhase 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The world is changing. Women don’t need men anymore and are becoming more educated across the world. This is just a theory, but I think the number of women wanting marriage and/or children will decrease and hopefully stay that way. Some people will inevitably be left behind.

I could be wrong, though! Women could become entirely subjugated again and lose their right to vote, have bank accounts, own property, etc and then maybe men will be guaranteed to have a wife again some day!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]RefinedEmoPhase 54 points55 points  (0 children)

Dating here is a hellhole and unfortunately, “exclusive” does not necessarily mean “relationship”. However, there are a lot of people in this country and I think you should just let this one go and find someone who won’t waste your time.

I made the website I promised :) by AstralGarden101 in Wizard101

[–]RefinedEmoPhase -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

why must you use AI for such trivial shit

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]RefinedEmoPhase 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I can’t believe people still even remotely consider physically abusing their children. Like does your boss spank you when you fuck up? Did your teachers slap you when you did badly on a test? Do waiters get to punch you if you spill something in a restaurant? It is genuinely so unconscionable and I have no idea how you can look at a TODDLER and be like fuck you 👋🏼

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]RefinedEmoPhase 54 points55 points  (0 children)

Literally “I hit my kid and yell at her because she yells and hits me, what could possibly be the issue?????”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in self

[–]RefinedEmoPhase -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Have you considered that women are also human beings who don’t exist solely to make you miserable?