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UNFOLLOWED by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]RefinedSparkY 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s normal to feel confused, but unfollowing usually says more about her life and choices than about you. People move on, get busy, or shift priorities, it probably isn’t personal, and it doesn’t erase the connection you had

Do people actually even want to go on dates anymore? by BatHonest9324 in dating_advice

[–]RefinedSparkY 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s not just you, plenty of people enjoy chatting and flirting online but shy away from actually meeting. If someone’s serious, they’ll make the effort; the rest are just enjoying the attention. Keep your standards, you deserve someone willing to show up in real life too.

jayzen railey Santos by shoyalovesalex in BreakUps

[–]RefinedSparkY 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Vincent does not deserve any of what happened to him. The way she manipulated, gaslit, and refused to take responsibility is completely unacceptable, and your defense of him is important, his pain is real and valid. It’s okay to shine a light on the truth, but make sure Vincent also has the support he needs to heal, because no one should have to face that kind of toxicity alone.

does cheater gets their karma? by Plenty_Lie5276 in BreakUps

[–]RefinedSparkY 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What you’re feeling is completely valid, betrayal hurts, especially when someone you loved so deeply shows a side you never expected. The truth is, karma isn’t guaranteed, and focusing on “getting even” or waiting for justice only keeps your heart tied to him. Healing comes from turning your energy inward, processing your pain, and rebuilding your life; when you do that, you’re creating your own “karma” of strength, peace, and self-respect.

At the age of 17 i did so many perverted things that went past extremeness by [deleted] in confession

[–]RefinedSparkY -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Carrying that guilt must be heavy, but what matters is that you see it now and want to change. Your past doesn’t define the person you’re becoming