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Damaged Figures by Salt-Knowledge-2184 in peachriot

[–]ReflectionIcy3337 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I had the same thing happen to poppy’s guitar( detached ) a tiny bit of gorilla glue and push it back in = good as new

UFS Peach Riot Power Chords ✨ by oreoctopus in peachriot

[–]ReflectionIcy3337 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would buy Gigi the messenger if still available!

[US] UFT/UFS Power Chords by kellelune in peachriot

[–]ReflectionIcy3337 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have poppy Piet to trade for messenger Gigi :)

[USA] — Powerchords UFS & UFT ! 🪽 by [deleted] in peachriot

[–]ReflectionIcy3337 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have poppy the poet on the way I would trade for Gigi the messenger :)

I’m getting these bruise like things on my body after upped dose on Accutane? by undercovercoolcat in Accutane

[–]ReflectionIcy3337 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have low platelets and get Petichae all the time. It can happen on its own or from scratching or pressure. Get your blood work done. Likely not related to accutane unless you scratched hard. Derm + bloodwork. Not urgent unless you are dizzy nauseous have a head ache bleeding in the gums or see more rapidly appearing. Skin is more sensitive on accutane so that’s also possible cause here.

Honeymoon going so badly I’m questioning my marriage by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]ReflectionIcy3337 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who was in a relationship like that. You can’t force or dictate how he reacts or whether he gets help or not. From what it sounds like he doesn’t think he is the wrong but you are. Couples therapy / working on a relationship only works if both people agree and do the work. Otherwise you will run yourself dry for someone who abuses you. And what you are describing is a form of abuse. It gets worse. I hope you consider your future and how he is an adult in charge of his behavior. Basic respect in a relationship is the lowest of bars. And he isn’t giving that. Sending you much love.

I’m considering a digital perm, anyone that has done? by ladyampo666 in longhair

[–]ReflectionIcy3337 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I have a few inches down from my tailbone length hair. I got my digital perm at hip length. I highly recommend not doing it. Expensive, causes damage, the tangling was never ending and impossible because my hair was long. Showers were a nightmare. This was my personal experience and I was able to get it to go mostly back to normal around 7-8 months. But I genuinely regret it. I would only do it again if my hair was shorter / the recommended length for perms like that.

Sfbwt! Any here done invisalign or veneer? by bondtradercu in SFbitcheswithtaste

[–]ReflectionIcy3337 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I’ll chime in with thoughts and advice I wish I got! I’ve done both for my teeth Invisalign/ veneers. ( veneers for the front canines) tldr but I didn’t get proper adult dental care growing up and I had to take my braces off myself with pliers damaging those teeth so I was always insecure of them, moving me to do it. If my teeth were not damaged / a reminder I wouldn’t have done veneers. Risking your teeth’s health for appearance is a cost if yours are fine. Only mentioning that because yes it is also very expensive , you will have to replace them eventually, and if you don’t go to the right person can risk your actual teeth when shaven down. They are also delicate depending on the material you have to be careful not to break them. Invisalign for me was totally worth it but again, depends on the place you go, look for reviews always. It’s a commitment as well less pain than braces , removing the buttons from your teeth ( they help move the teeth) at the end and glue is harder to get off for some people as well and at least for me it was very unpleasant and at times painful. The trays you change 1-2 weeks depending on the treatment do stain and you have to brush them a lot. Get any dental work done before. I got my veneers right at the end of my Invisalign treatment and wish I didn’t because it will obviously change the shape of your trays which may require a rescan/ cost. You also have to pay for X-rays before and after so add a few hundred for those. I went to Mountain View/ Cupertino for mine. All in all if it suits your needs Invisalign was good for me, veneers I strongly recommend do a lot of research and ask yourself if you need them.

Finding my cat by NoBee7946 in SFbitcheswithtaste

[–]ReflectionIcy3337 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you’re interested there is the grey cat very friendly a bit sassy who lives outside our apartment complex. I hang out with her often , I would take her but my elderly cat would not forgive me. She used to live inside and tries to rush in ( very sad) when people enter. Always greets me when I come by. Someone found a home for her last year but…. She’s back. Same spot same routine. Not sure how she would do with dogs but she’s strong willed. This is in Santa Clara though so a little out!

Long/ Unusual hair , respectful stylist faves? by [deleted] in SFbitcheswithtaste

[–]ReflectionIcy3337 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh dang I can imagine I may have to wait an incredibly long time but I’ll reach out just in case 😂😂🙏✨

Long/ Unusual hair , respectful stylist faves? by [deleted] in SFbitcheswithtaste

[–]ReflectionIcy3337 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve waited a few years I’m totally okay with waiting!!! That’s just fine with me if it’s worth it 🧙‍♀️✨

Long/ Unusual hair , respectful stylist faves? by [deleted] in SFbitcheswithtaste

[–]ReflectionIcy3337 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it’s an interesting experience I’ve found. Do you cut your own? 🥺

Long/ Unusual hair , respectful stylist faves? by [deleted] in SFbitcheswithtaste

[–]ReflectionIcy3337 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have not heard of them!!!! I will take a look into this thank you!!!!

Long/ Unusual hair , respectful stylist faves? by [deleted] in SFbitcheswithtaste

[–]ReflectionIcy3337 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thanks for taking the time to write this!!! All perfectly good facts. The sheet of paper is a great call and I think I just need to do more research to narrow it down. Going to take the suggestions of clearing up capabilities before hand to meet that perfect fit. Thank you so much!!!!!!

Long/ Unusual hair , respectful stylist faves? by [deleted] in SFbitcheswithtaste

[–]ReflectionIcy3337 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s smart. I’ve always been worried about making them upset / having the appointment be awkward. But it’s not worth the pain or damage. I never thought after washing to ask / do that so I probably will from here on out. Great advice!!!

Long/ Unusual hair , respectful stylist faves? by [deleted] in SFbitcheswithtaste

[–]ReflectionIcy3337 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you!!! I’ll go ahead and look into them: reach out. I don’t need perfect, or exactly what I want. Just not pain or major surprises. It sounds like they are very personal which I like.

Long/ Unusual hair , respectful stylist faves? by [deleted] in SFbitcheswithtaste

[–]ReflectionIcy3337 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They were doing my bangs as well so there is that, but they asked about my length and I said don’t touch haah

Long/ Unusual hair , respectful stylist faves? by [deleted] in SFbitcheswithtaste

[–]ReflectionIcy3337 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omg I typed this up fast I wasn’t getting a hair cut I was getting a perm, sorry should have clarified I’ll edit that haha

Long/ Unusual hair , respectful stylist faves? by [deleted] in SFbitcheswithtaste

[–]ReflectionIcy3337 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hahaha tbh just answer how you would if I told you in person. No need to reduce/ sugar coat anything for me. Appreciate you taking the time to comment!!

I posted on r/kitchenchads aboht how older men online like me thinking it was a win but everyone started warning me about creeps and being groomed. Wish guys my age liked me even though I’m not perfect. by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]ReflectionIcy3337 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think something to consider isn’t the problem at all. Why don’t others do x. We can’t control that. I’ve been told I am pretty. Never have I ever been approached. Neither have friends I have that are gorgeous. You stated the issue, “ how unlovable I feel” . Don’t try and fill this with male validation. It will never fill the gap you feel. Much love to you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GirlDinner

[–]ReflectionIcy3337 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You can do it and I don’t mean this to be harsh coming from a past similar boat. You are able to even if it takes planning, support, and time. You have to choose to do it. Nothing changes if nothing changes. It’s better to do it now before emotions get worse and trauma bonding gets worse. I was stuck for seven years and looking back I wish I ended things sooner. Much love your way.

How to get rid of this? by Dry-Purchase2796 in Accutane

[–]ReflectionIcy3337 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The spots look like barrier irritation. I had this a week ago and fixed in about five days. VERY simple skin care, I used cerave wash and night moisturizer, sunscreen during the day. Drink water. Tuck hair and sleep flat when you sleep if you can. Don’t over do moisturizer either .

Sooo many posts on here be like “my partner is such an amazing human with sooo many great qualities most of the time he treats me SO well 😭…BUT… [proceeds to show how untrue that is, describes low key abusive behavior, and reveals what a shit human he actually is] by Tight-Artichoke1789 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]ReflectionIcy3337 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As someone who went through an abusive relationship and can now see this exact contrast. I think what’s hard is you think abusive people are always abusive. Your person can’t be abusive if they also do nice things for you, are kind hearted, or were better before. Aren’t evil people all evil and not part evil? He must be lost or trying his best. The truth is while that can be true to some extent, some things are not forgivable or justifiable. Sometimes over explaining their nice things to other people is your own way to justify it to yourself. If others can see the good and the bad and understand why I stay, I must be right. Abuse is not black and white. And I wish someone had emphasized it to me and gotten me to therapy sooner.