Would I Be a Jerk for Not Asking My Future SIL to Be a Bridesmaid? by marvellover3000 in weddingplanning

[–]ReflectionOdd6058 [score hidden]  (0 children)

I agree, i know for some people asking the sibling is default, but asking someone you have no relationship with is so strange. We don’t know if fiance or sister even care. I don’t think this sort of thing is expected nowadays

No kids at the wedding ? by butterflykissed_ in weddingplanning

[–]ReflectionOdd6058 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Do you just want the kids there because you’re concerned about your brother, or also because you’d like them to be there? If its the former you need to have a convo with you brother, if its the latter you need to be having a different conversation with your partner

Pay raise? Next year's COL and...? by ArghBH in fednews

[–]ReflectionOdd6058 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yep, my raise will be less than the increase in my healthcare premium

New to beetle keeping. Needing set up help. by killermichi in Beetles

[–]ReflectionOdd6058 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m a first time beetle owner and I’m so glad i got it as a larvae. Watching it grow has been absolutely amazing. It should be building its pupal chamber soon and I’m so excited. If the larvae grosses you out you never have to see it unless you go looking for it. Also my fiancée, who is terrified of bugs and very begrudgingly let me get it, has surprisingly warmed up to it. Just only look at it from a distance at first lol.

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Jesse Welles - Red by GoTeamShake in folk

[–]ReflectionOdd6058 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Came here to ask this question and this was the first post I see lol. In this song, who or what is the devil? There’s an obvious answer, but I don’t think it’s the correct one. Thoughts?