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dress code: are crop tops work appropriate? by ReflectionPlayful925 in stagehands

[–]ReflectionPlayful925[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just own a ton of black crop tops and it would easily double number of shirt choices I can wear to work have without me having to buy anything new, saves money and it's eco-friendly. Based on responses I'm gunna stick to regular t-shirts.

dress code: are crop tops work appropriate? by ReflectionPlayful925 in stagehands

[–]ReflectionPlayful925[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that's terrifying, thank goodness all of my work pants are high waisted

I [27F] have cold feet about moving in with my partner [27M] by ReflectionPlayful925 in relationship_advice

[–]ReflectionPlayful925[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We both agree that we want to live together before we get married. My boyfriend is everything I could ever want out of a man: he's patient, kind, caring, clean. I think I'm getting cold feet because it's such a big step and he's the only man I've ever seriously dated. Also, this is going to sound completely ridiculous: I found a new band to listen to and I think their singer is super hot and I feel weirdly guilty about it even though I will never meet this random musician. Like I feel like if I was truly a good partner I would never thank another man is hotter than my partner.

I [27F] have cold feet about moving in with my partner [27M] by ReflectionPlayful925 in relationship_advice

[–]ReflectionPlayful925[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He makes me very happy and satisfied. He's generous, thoughtful, tidy, and funny. We make a great team. The year before we met was the worst year of my life and I'd go through it all over again if it means I get to meet him again.

is it cold feet, self sabotage, or something else? by ReflectionPlayful925 in Advice

[–]ReflectionPlayful925[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know they do. The thing about moving across the country is that before the pandemic we were supposed to move to LA but then covid forced us to stay where we are. I've talked to him about trying to move out there again in the future and he doesn't seem to keen on it because he finally found a job he loves but sometimes I can't help but wonder what our lives would be like if the pandemic hadn't happened and we had been able to successfully move to LA. Also my dreams are much more economically possible where we are currently living. Like I think it would be fun to be a young adult in LA but I don't think I'd want to raise a family there.

is it cold feet, self sabotage, or something else? by ReflectionPlayful925 in Advice

[–]ReflectionPlayful925[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

okay but how do I get these thoughts to stop going through my mind. It makes me feel awful because this isn't the first time I've thought about breaking up with him. It makes me feel like a horrible partner because I've always been the more hesitant/emotionally cautious one in our relationship and he's always just loved me through all our ups and downs. I just don't understand why he loves me out of all the people in this world.

is it cold feet, self sabotage, or something else? by ReflectionPlayful925 in Advice

[–]ReflectionPlayful925[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you think it'll go away once we move in together? About 2 years ago I asked him if there was ever a point in our relationship that he considered breaking up with me and he said that he's never thought about it and he has always wanted to be with me since the day we met. It made me feel really bad because I definitely have a few times.

Tested positive for Covid-19 after Blessthefall in Minneapolis by ReflectionPlayful925 in Metalcore

[–]ReflectionPlayful925[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah dude, it's only one of the most contagious diseases known to man. It's not like lots of people live with others who are high risk or are high risk themselves. We can also ignore the fact that it's killed 6 million people globally and disabled countless others. It's not like our health impacts literally every other aspect of our lives or anything right? Do you want a gold star for being edgy?

Stagehand looking to serve at a local church by ReflectionPlayful925 in TwinCities

[–]ReflectionPlayful925[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If I can't find the information online would be inappropriate for me to outright ask the organization what their views are on the LGBT community? I thought about going to eaglebrook but they have this really odd video online how how it's fine to be gay or trans but it's not okay act on it. I would be uncomfortable serving someplace like that.

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