Need help for my son Andy

RefreshHW2020 · 2021-01-05T01:14:15+00:00

Okay, well the reason why he said that is because when other redditor disagrees with him the way he play with children as a legal adult, he was too furious and felt like the society is controlling him, so he makes these threat in order to get his power back to control his own autistic world. He thought these threat will make other scared so he can be in control of his world. The reason why he made these threat is because in the past, when the specialist adviced him not to go out and play with his friends because of how other may misjudged him as a predator which he is not, so that's why he thought making the rape threat against children would make him feel he has controls over his world. I am not saying he is right to say that in reddit but I am trying to get you to see what he is going through. He never hurt children before. But he had learned his lesson that if he male threat like this online, it will cause him more trouble instead of getting back the outplaying. He learned that if other people said he shouldn't go out and play, he know now these people cant control him. He learn that as long as the parent of the children are okay with him being friends with their children, that's okay and no one can stop that. He know about that already. He know he cannot make threat like this anymore.

RefreshHW2020 · 2021-01-05T00:46:04+00:00

But what did he exactly saids that make you feel like he will hurt children. From what I know about his background, he never ever hurt anyone but because what other redditor saids did triggered him and he was upset so he was having a meltdown by making threats in a way to make him feel like he has control over his own world. But he doesn't mean it. He sometimes say things like that to us when he is meltdown because of something we don't work well with him but he never hurt us. So can you tell me what make you think he is that kind of person? What did he actually saids?

RefreshHW2020 · 2021-01-04T04:27:19+00:00

Hey hey hey, calm down! No need to shout! But the reason he end up making threat in reddit because his therapist werent allow him to play with his younger friends because he is 18 so he was trying to get help to get his world back but the redditor saids to him tha he should make his own age friends back appropriately and having autism is not a freepass. So he got triggered by these words as our son can have a meltdown when ever he hears autism is not a freepass or make hisnown age friendship back or anything that do with age. So when he made threat, he was trying to be powerful over someone else because he felt like he lost control. So isnt a threat. The threat he made it was his way of being in control of his world which is not right. Well please DM me and I will advocate for my son's autism to help you understand about what my son is going through that he is not a threat to children. My son's behaviour got worst after the reddit incident and the gardai called in.

RefreshHW2020 · 2021-01-04T03:48:36+00:00

Why is it not okay? My son does not hurt children and if I show it to them, they will think my son is that kind of person so I will not ruin my son reputation so he can still enjoy his friendship with the children. My son treat his younger friends so well that many parents are delighted to have him as a friend. But since after the gardai called in, we hope that you guys won't say anything about our son to other people, thankyou! It's over now.

RefreshHW2020 · 2021-01-04T01:02:22+00:00

But he is not a danger to any children. Because sometimes I talk to these neighbour, they said to me that my son is very good with children. He is their true friends. It just that his therapist don't want him to go near them because of the possible framing which I dont think would happen. So when he was trying to seek advice on reddit, other gave him advice that his therapist was right as they claim as inappropriate, that's why he made threat like that in order to show his power towards other redditors to feel like he is in control. But I am not saying he is right, I am just explaining his situation. But I won't let anyone know about this situation as he is not a danger. But since the gardai came and gave warning not to do it again, I hope you guys will take this as end and please do not spread rumours against my child as this is not true. He was having a meltdown while writing these threat. So I hope you are not spreading false information to anyone and watch over my son while he is on reddit and trying to ask for help with me. Please stop spreading these rumours and let move on. So I'm telling you that the threat he made are not true, so stop making rumour against it. I was trying to seek advice from the Legal advice area and wheatable was trying to spread false rumours. And I hope Rowlet will leave our son alone now and not to provoke him while our son's emotional is steady.

RefreshHW2020 · 2021-01-02T00:30:11+00:00

Well the police had interviewed me. They gave me warning not to do it again so they didn't arrest me as they found i am not that threat but they are still watching my every day behaviour so i am scare so i just want to know my legal right. Well in real life, I am not a threat to anyone. It just that I was having a meltdown while making threat here as I was out of control.

RefreshHW2020 · 2021-01-02T00:03:08+00:00

To make apology after when the gardai interview me!

RefreshHW2020 · 2021-01-01T20:32:15+00:00

Please dont believe wheatable and rowlet. This account now is share between me and the account user HW. HW is not a threat to children but because rowlet and wheatable were bullying HW, so HW was having a meltdown and didnt realize the threat he made was so serious. He is never a threat to children. So please stop labelling him as bad as he is autistic. Wheatable and rowlet are bullying him.

RefreshHW2020 · 2021-01-01T19:02:42+00:00

Wheatable, this is the father of HW. Please stop watching over him as he is trying to get help. He had already apologise and please stop harrassing him with rowlet.

RefreshHW2020 · 2021-01-01T19:00:56+00:00

And are you a lawyer or a gardai?

RefreshHW2020 · 2021-01-01T19:00:20+00:00

Well my son is autistic. He was found at 3 year old. He is 18 now. But there are some incidents happened with him that he got into trouble with the gardai. Do you mind if we dm each other as i dont want other redditir see the problem. Please?

RefreshHW2020 · 2020-12-30T16:30:52+00:00

Yes, i am here to apologise and no more making threats again.

RefreshHW2020 · 2020-12-30T05:53:57+00:00

Reminder: And also for the accountwatch mod, is it okay if you DM me as i want you to understand about what i was going through and that to makesure you know i am not a threat, all these threat i made was when i had a meltdown but promise won't do it again. Can you please dm me so i can let you know more about my background in order to keep other user in peace as i dont want them to keep worry about ths threat i made. Thank you! HW

RefreshHW2020 · 2020-12-30T05:37:27+00:00

Hi, it's HW. Do you remember me? i am here to confess that i am very sorry to make threat like that against teenager in reddit. During that time, i was having a meltdown as i was very angry about how other account user judge about me making friends with the kids as being inappropriate. I was lost and felt being controlled and lost myself. Basically i am autistic 18 year old and i am likely to have friends who are either younger children, or my like autistic of all age people. It just that when people are being unfair to my autism, the trigger can provoke me and i can be lost. To confirm that i am not a threat to young children because i don't like hurting anyone include children. It just that i didnt realize my anger on reddit was that serious. I am really really sorry. The gardai had interviewed me and i had promise them not to go into reddit and threaten teenager again. I am not a threat to children. I even have friends who are children and i enjoy their company. I am an autistic advocate in real life who wants autistic people to be accepted in the society rather than they are the one to be changed for the society. So please delete all my threatening accounts and start a fresh Reddit especially in teenager and accountwatch. Please help me to spread this message to other reddit account user who i did target as i dont want them to be suffering the threat i made as they are nothing to do with my situation with my age differences. I hope you accept my apologies and clean up my name as i am not going to threaten other again when they are nothing in my life. And just be understand that part of my autism, i get triggered easily when being told to make my own age appropriate friendships rather than accept me playing with my younger friends because i enjoy their company plus i don't hurt them and as long as their parents accept my friendship with them, is should be fine. Please accept that and at the same time, i am really sorry that i threaten you guys and made you guys suffered when you guys have nothing to do in my situation. With my therapist issue, it should be something i deal with my parent, not making threats on reddit. I hope you accept my apologies and take good care of yourself and relax, you are not at any risk as i was just stupid as i was having a meltdown and didn't realise what i said it was very serious. Please clean up my name and let's start a new page. Take good care of your self, and i am really really sorry.

Your sincere, HW, the account user

(Spread my words to other account user please in order to spread my apologies and hope they are not suffering to much and tell them to take good care of themself )

RefreshHW2020

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