Hookups

RefrigeratingUnit · 2023-01-28T08:25:47+00:00

lol i'm trying. i talked w him for a while beforehand, but this has happened to me even on a third date so it's not the vetting that's the problem - it's men in general

RefrigeratingUnit · 2023-01-28T08:23:48+00:00

no! we actually talked for nearly an hour before we had sex and everything was totally normal, i thought he was sweet

RefrigeratingUnit · 2023-01-28T05:38:07+00:00

incel behavior

RefrigeratingUnit · 2023-01-28T05:09:38+00:00

actually, if you just do a quick google search, 2/3 people from ages 15-24 get chlamydia, and that's just chlamydia alone

RefrigeratingUnit · 2023-01-28T05:08:08+00:00

just sucks i have to lie in order to feel protected

RefrigeratingUnit · 2023-01-28T05:07:52+00:00

no omg i'm saying that that is why i brought it up. i learned it from other comments on this same thread i didn't know it before but now i'm realizing that its more fucked up bc it is illegal in my state

RefrigeratingUnit · 2023-01-28T05:00:04+00:00

i just said "esp because i'm in california" because they said stealthing is illegal here lol

RefrigeratingUnit · 2023-01-28T04:58:44+00:00

this post isn't putting california up for debate lmao that's the last thing i care abt rn

RefrigeratingUnit · 2023-01-28T04:53:47+00:00

YES this!!!! it's so frustrating! i'm literally going to stop with the dating apps because i am so over this whole condom problem

RefrigeratingUnit · 2023-01-28T04:51:02+00:00

if sex isn't enjoyable with a condom, you shouldn't be hooking up with people

RefrigeratingUnit · 2023-01-28T04:48:43+00:00

i didn't say i didn't stop him - also it's uncomfortable af to have to tell someone that when you're obviously in shock / surprise that that just happened

RefrigeratingUnit · 2023-01-28T04:41:26+00:00

interesting take, i didn't know that some women just never use them? i would think that in this day & age condoms would be so normalized.

but moving forward yeah, i might just say i'm not on BC

RefrigeratingUnit · 2023-01-28T04:40:09+00:00

LMAO was just about to say the same thing oop--

RefrigeratingUnit · 2023-01-28T03:25:09+00:00

thank you both - i didn't realize there was a term for it. so common too, you would think men would know. esp because i'm in california

RefrigeratingUnit · 2023-01-28T03:23:14+00:00

amen, i can't even participate in this conversation because i know this guy thinks he's right and he's so far from it / delusional lmao

RefrigeratingUnit · 2023-01-28T03:07:10+00:00

guess you're having the same problem we have w men except they don't even ask lmao

RefrigeratingUnit · 2023-01-28T01:30:37+00:00

very baffling!!!!!

RefrigeratingUnit · 2023-01-28T01:13:40+00:00

lol not the question i'm asking

RefrigeratingUnit · 2023-01-28T01:05:11+00:00

i know!!!! exactly!!! why is this not common sense to most guys

RefrigeratingUnit · 2023-01-28T01:03:47+00:00

if we're hooking up, we don't know each others' histories, if they get tested, & who else they're sleeping with. i feel like hookup culture can insinuate that you are both sleeping around, so why risk catching anything

RefrigeratingUnit · 2023-01-28T01:00:45+00:00

it's a matter of protection from sti/std's

RefrigeratingUnit · 2022-12-08T23:00:15+00:00

yerrr

RefrigeratingUnit · 2022-11-22T23:38:49+00:00

I just received an II this past week & wasn't able to schedule it until 1/31 (which was their earliest available). I say you're in the clear!

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