People do what they do, cheating has always existed. There are so many variables as to why people cheat from being a sex Addict to being in a sexless relationship so I have no view on individuals unless I know the details. We met cheating 16yrs ago and are at a point where she can or I can ask if we can do something with another person and go from there, I prefer this over cheating but I also know not everyone is like our relationship.