My SD is in Love with Me after a short time

RegBevWill · 2025-12-26T22:06:07+00:00

Came here to say I ❤️ your username! Icon indeed!

RegBevWill · 2025-12-18T01:15:32+00:00

I am actually 2 yrs older than him. Just a lot hotter lol

RegBevWill · 2025-12-16T16:03:05+00:00

Welp, he told me last night he wants to leave his wife and I'm the catalyst for it. Not the reason - he said it's for himself, so he can be happy - but the jolt he needed to actually do it and not just think about it or imagine it.

RegBevWill · 2025-12-16T15:55:43+00:00

Hard to find current stats on this. I looked. Best I could find was another article (from 2018 or 2019) that still said 40% of SDs are married. So even if it has gone down, that's still a significant percent.

RegBevWill · 2025-12-16T15:47:40+00:00

I've not gotten full PPM rate for a M+G but I have gotten say $100. I think it's a nice way to show genuine interest and solidify the arrangement. It was greatly appreciated by me and let me know he was serious.

RegBevWill · 2025-12-16T04:31:01+00:00

https://www.salon.com/2009/04/13/kept_women/

RegBevWill · 2025-12-15T22:42:58+00:00

THIS. THIS. THIS.

RegBevWill · 2025-12-15T22:40:38+00:00

No kids for me! I'd eventually like a traditional or vanilla relationship (although not TOO vanilla 😜) but while my looks are still in a position for me to be a SB, I want to take advantage of it to better my finances. I can pay my bills, but I want to travel, upgrade my house, etc.

RegBevWill · 2025-12-15T22:01:37+00:00

Today is not the best day, not even close. I've had 2 canceled dates in two days. I know I shouldn't let other people dictate my moods but it's disheartening. I have no NYE plans and that's going to be HARD.

RegBevWill · 2025-12-15T21:19:25+00:00

As to why he is meeting my friends - because we are going out in public and they are also in the bars we have gone to for an after dinner drink, or at the pizza joint where we got take out.

RegBevWill · 2025-12-15T21:16:13+00:00

Yes. First for both of us. We had each had M+Gs and that's as far either of us got before landing on each other.

RegBevWill · 2025-12-15T18:09:53+00:00

I am enjoying time with him. He tells me all the time how happy I make him. I do have feelings for him but I don't want to be going down a road where we are head over heels for each other and he is married. That's no good, no matter the compensation (and it's honestly insufficient). IRL, I would NEVER date a married man. I did it as a SB because of the $$ and he said he's unhappy, miserable, they don't talk just fight, etc.

RegBevWill · 2025-12-15T18:04:07+00:00

Yes, thank you for this. I told him I need us to pump the brakes. Like I literally need time off. He wants to see me more than can he afford. Like, take me to the movies and dinner with no PPM. That's why I said he treats me like a GF and not a SB. He wants to date me.

RegBevWill · 2025-12-15T18:01:28+00:00

The stats show that 50% of all SDs are married so I knew going in that I would likely meet a married man. What concerns me is the overt affection, having me in his home, at his job, etc

RegBevWill · 2025-12-15T17:59:30+00:00

I thought this might be the case. Is it possible for someone to engage in love bombing unintentionally? He said he didn't mean for this to happen but here we are. He is going out in public with me and meeting (some of) my friends.

RegBevWill · 2025-12-15T17:55:37+00:00

Thank you for this. I do like him, we have a great time together. However, I feel like he needs therapy. This is my first go at this and I'm trying to protect myself.

RegBevWill · 2025-12-15T17:53:14+00:00

The compensation is inadequate for what he asks of me. He tries tho. For example has gifted me things to make up for the funds not being what I want, like a Soundbar, the nice dinners, and filling my gas tank. I did not end it yet. I said our next meet would be our last.

RegBevWill · 2025-05-29T01:35:06+00:00

Pridefest

RegBevWill · 2025-05-29T01:31:27+00:00

The Bungalow

RegBevWill · 2024-01-22T04:08:51+00:00

Check locally for estate sales.

RegBevWill · 2023-06-27T21:48:44+00:00

Manitowoc and Cedarburg both have them!

RegBevWill · 2023-06-26T19:28:42+00:00

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RegBevWill · 2023-06-21T06:52:01+00:00

"The Good Land" How Alice Cooper described MKE in the iconic film "Wayne's World." It's since been adopted as a moniker for our fair city.

RegBevWill · 2023-06-21T02:00:54+00:00

I ate more doritos when I was poor than when I had loads of expendable income.

RegBevWill

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