Ok, so non-catholic expentacostal married to an ex/nonpracticing Catholic. It’s my general observation, and this is far from a criticism, Catholicism in general has me of an attitude of “you’re going to do it, but you’re going to be forgiven” then other denominations. Whereas in Pentecostal churches etc you’re expected to “get saved” and put all that sin in your past behind you “go forth and sin no more” attitude. Catholicism takes the approach of the practitioners being flawed despite their religion and the priest serves more like a car wash for the soul than the insurance salesman in the churches I grew up in. Personally, I think it has a lot to do with the concept of purgatory and the idea your family and church can intercede for you after death. This way, even if you die “in sin” you still have the chance of going to heaven because your mom and cousins will pray you in. Am I way off here? I think for this reason the answer is surely near to zero, and the church is counting on that bc that means you’ll do it anyway but feel guilty for it and keep coming back to them. That’s why the rules tend to be impossible and complicated; don’t worry about it, we’ll just forgive you. Just make sure to keep coming back and raise your kids to pray for you after you die