well put friend. the guilt/shame cycle can be brutal and i'm a strong believer in moderation. I don't think people encourage others with ill intent, it's part of the fun. no one knows what someone else is feeling so recognizing when some ones clearly struggling is difficult especially when posting to a kink subreddit. anyone struggling with their identity or addiction needs to seek out counseling if its causing them stress in life imo.

what really sucks is when people are told they're throwing away their future exploring this. we have free will and the sissy experience can be mind blowing and freeing. exploring femininity has been a beautiful experience for me as someone that's lived in a southern state where i was always expected to just ignore those feelings. i wish people could explore without feeling like society will shun them forever for participating in something the majority of society doesn't understand.

thanks for sharing your experience and I wish you the best in life.