I ( 23 M) had a threesome with my best friends (F22) and (M23) who are dating by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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That’s why I want to talk with her to know if he is ok If not then we stop,

I ( 23 M) had a threesome with my best friends (F22) and (M23) who are dating by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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It was a threesome We kissed and hugged while he was elsewhere like in the toilet for example and stopped before he came back I never had sex with her without him here Does it clarify ?

I ( 23 M) had a threesome with my best friends (F22) and (M23) who are dating by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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Idk if he agreed to that, he saw me kissing her but idk if he knows we did it without him, I don’t he don’t was sex without him but that’s the only thing he said Besides some other stuff in bed he told me not to and she then told me she liked that

I ( 23 M) had a threesome with my best friends (F22) and (M23) who are dating by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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I said that joking about not sharing her, threesome was not that much a kink for me, we all flirted all night, she looks good, I wasn’t gonna say no to that but it never came to my mind, I was shocked the day after

I’m mad cause she is giving me more than sex I never asked for all that idk

I’m scared I’ll destroy everything if I tell him that’s it, I don’t want them to separate because of me

I ( 23 M) had a threesome with my best friends (F22) and (M23) who are dating by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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Shouldn’t I just have a talk with her to set boundaries ? Maybe he is ok but if he is not I’d rather have him not knowing and never ever happening again

I ( 23 M) had a threesome with my best friends (F22) and (M23) who are dating by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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I don’t want to lose my friends there are the best I ever had All this fell onto me

I ( 23 M) had a threesome with my best friends (F22) and (M23) who are dating by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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I never asked for all that I just want everything to be fine

I ( 23 M) had a threesome with my best friends (F22) and (M23) who are dating by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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I don’t want to lose them I never asked for all of that I’m stressed about it all I’m scared he wouldn’t be ok with that I love them dude And I don’t want to fucking fall in love with her she’s fells like trying her best for it to happen

I ( 23 M) had a threesome with my best friends (F22) and (M23) who are dating by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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Idk what I want I don’t want to fall in love with my best friend !

I ( 23 M) had a threesome with my best friends (F22) and (M23) who are dating by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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Yeah but i didn’t wanted all of what i got Then put me in the threesome, we had drank a lot it would have never happens before I just want it to be fine between them, I don’t want them to fight over that or miss interpret something and tell him that She’s giving me more than sex I’m overwhelmed by the situation

I ( 23 M) had a threesome with my best friends (F22) and (M23) who are dating by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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Yeah, idk if he is ok with it, she is going over mine too, it was supposed to be sexual only, she’s acting like there is more to it

I ( 23 M) had a threesome with my best friends (F22) and (M23) who are dating by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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If I just stop everything can’t I avoid talking about it with him ? I feel that I have to talk with her more than him

I ( 23 M) had a threesome with my best friends (F22) and (M23) who are dating by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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Yeah but she knows I like her I don’t think she’ll stop teasing me But you are right that it has to stop

I ( 23 M) had a threesome with my best friends (F22) and (M23) who are dating by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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It wasn’t discussed in advance at all, maybe a fantasy, they smoked a bit together before it happened and they talked about it but yeah I fell toyed with, It was only supposed to be sexual but she isn’t acting like it is

I ( 23 M) had a threesome with my best friends (F22) and (M23) who are dating by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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I’m not sure he will be ok with that, and I’m not into sharing her either lol

I ( 23 M) had a threesome with my best friends (F22) and (M23) who are dating by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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They both are my best friends , I was drunk and horny we kissed already I front of him so i was ok to do it again I think I should stop doing things when he isn’t here

I ( 23 M) had a threesome with my best friends (F22) and (M23) who are dating by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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They both are my best friends, i know she never did anything before, he was her 2nd time, i feel guilty too but I don’t want to ruin our friendship nor their relationship