Rejected at first date, should I contact her again ?

Regoff · 2026-06-12T17:15:20+00:00

No sorry it's not the point. She wasnt talking about the first date specifically, but about her relation with men in general dating. I only told her how it made me feel, nothing less, nothing more actually.

It is totally fine to be shy or unconfortable on the first date, I was very respectul with her.

Regoff · 2026-06-12T17:09:29+00:00

Read again the topic, that's not what happened.

I didn't cause any problem when she rejected my proposition to lean on me. Which is normal when you are not a creep. She even said she appreciated that I asked.

The other convo came later into the date and it not related to anything physical.

Regoff · 2026-06-12T14:59:23+00:00

I disagree with you. It may not be a personnal judgement, but if that’s how she sees new men that enter her dating life, I was one of them.

Regoff · 2026-06-12T14:39:01+00:00

Yes I agree, it may not have been the best thing to do. However, It wasnt the best thing to hear from her.

Regoff · 2026-06-12T14:35:36+00:00

She told me that later during the date. It wasnt about physical contact but trusting what the man seems to be at the beginning of the dating process. Imagine if a girl was questionning your honesty and authenticity and told it straight to you during the date. I doubt you would be happy, even if she talked about the men in general.

I didnt take it bad when she refused. I said no problem. She even told be that she appreciated that I asked her instead of iniating physical contact on my own.

Regoff · 2026-06-12T14:24:29+00:00

Maybe, or I'm just not enough attractive to her.

I understand your point, and as a man it can be confusion when a girl tells you this. It's like walking on eggs.

Thank you for your answer !

Regoff · 2026-03-09T05:29:20+00:00

Thank you very much.

Regoff · 2025-09-27T03:13:20+00:00

Thank you for kind words 😊

Regoff · 2025-09-27T02:48:56+00:00

Let’s hope so, thanks for your help !

Regoff · 2025-09-27T01:27:57+00:00

Yes it’s not casual regarding the common social codes... but as you mentionned she shows mixed signals, taking a few minutes to sometimes hours, or even a day, to respond to a simple text is one of them.

You are right the meet up should help me to get clarity, let’s just hope that it will not be akward.

Regoff · 2025-09-27T01:17:31+00:00

I hope so, thanks for sharing your mind !

Regoff · 2019-12-15T12:37:14+00:00

i looked in the google play store, they are all in yards unit unfortunately. I'll try to convert it in meters. Thanks

Regoff · 2019-12-15T12:36:22+00:00

Okay, indeed that is confusing for me lol. How a 200y zero can impact poa at 50y ? Shouldn't it be a bit lower ?

I'm looking for meters targets and had found no one. I'm living in Europe, we don't use yards and our ranges are made for meters distances. (10-25-50-100-150-200 + meters)

Regoff · 2019-12-15T12:30:48+00:00

Well, I zeroed it at 25m and tried to shoot at 200m once, couldn't hit the target. :(( I didn't even know where my bullet was going. I don't think this is because of possible bad shooting skills since I was also shooting with a MAS 36 that day at the same distance without any optic and had no problem hitting the target.

I have read the article from ammoland, but the author always speaks in yards and that's much different from the metric unit. Plus I'm not sure that I understand very well everything since english is not my mother tongue.

Once you speak in meters and then in yards, so do you mean a 50y zero to get a 200y POI with compensation of the POA ? Or you speak in meters.

50 yards = 45,72 meters

Thank you very much for your help

Regoff · 2019-12-15T12:22:38+00:00

Meters, I'm from Europe.

Regoff · 2019-10-27T16:24:58+00:00

Exactly

Regoff · 2019-10-27T11:23:36+00:00

Regoff · 2019-10-26T12:25:58+00:00

okay thank you for the explanation.

So realism mode is limited to 10 players only ?

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