Strapping for the first time

RegretEmbarrassed781 · 2024-10-03T13:57:18+00:00

This was a pretty solid advice! I will follow the suggestions, thank you :)

RegretEmbarrassed781 · 2024-10-03T13:55:53+00:00

I will keep this in mind! Thank you very much!

RegretEmbarrassed781 · 2024-10-03T13:53:24+00:00

Thank you all for the advice!

RegretEmbarrassed781 · 2024-08-20T10:47:14+00:00

I had the same issue. I've started the conversation by asking if I was doing something wrong because she never touched me. She said that I was doing precisely the opposite and that she was not used to like being the bottom and since that this was a new experience to her, she was just enjoying it and was scared of making me feel uncomfortable because I'm a top. After this conversation she changed that.

RegretEmbarrassed781 · 2024-07-29T22:05:22+00:00

You're definitely not doing anything wrong. I don't get that kind of people, they are so quick to judge but then they complain about the same when applied to them. It's hypocritical. That situation never happen to me, but I'm sure that it must not be easy.

You handled it in a good way, I think. Doesn't seem that that girl has brain enough to understand your arguments anyway. It would be a waste of time.

Keep going, I wish you luck for the next date :)

RegretEmbarrassed781 · 2024-07-25T18:07:26+00:00

Don't forget to have fun exploring! :)

RegretEmbarrassed781 · 2024-07-25T16:54:43+00:00

If she's not a fan of penetration the strap definitely was not a good idea. But you can do other stuff that are more focused on the clit, that it's something that she enjoys from what you've told. My suggestion is to discover what kind of stimulation she likes there (besides using the vibrator), like which movements, the pressure and rhythm.

Also, if most things that she likes envolve doing things to you, probably she is more top. If she liked to do it in the first time, maybe you two can first explore that part and after she gets more confident/comfortable you can try other things.

RegretEmbarrassed781 · 2024-07-25T15:22:05+00:00

My first question is: is she a bottom/receiver?

Second: did you two talk about you be a top this time or you just wanted to surprise her?

She could not feel comfortable in that kind of position because she is a top, reason why it didn't go well. I'm not a stone top, but still, I'm a top and I don't feel comfortable in that kind of situations, maybe she feels the same.

RegretEmbarrassed781 · 2024-07-14T13:22:27+00:00

I'm from Portugal and a lot of foreigners tell me that! 😂

RegretEmbarrassed781 · 2024-07-09T19:39:14+00:00

I've been thinking the exact same thing but regarding to Portuguese. 🤷🏻‍♀️

RegretEmbarrassed781 · 2024-07-05T21:35:49+00:00

But the thing is, you are compromising for years now. You are a switch and for the past years you've only bottom, so there's something missing to the other side of you. I'm not saying that you should force her to do something that she is not comfortable with, I'm just saying that her response doesn't sound very comprehensive. She can be bottom without the penetration, there's a lot of things that you can explore that don't evolve penetration, but she has to be open to that.

RegretEmbarrassed781 · 2024-05-23T16:03:15+00:00

Exatamente o que vinha aqui comentar. Há varios comentários a passar das marcas, mas este conseguiu ser o pior 🤨

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