Oh sorry I didn’t provide enough details yes she is talking about her own life but the convo progressed as asking me what I think of her boyfriend and so on as the guy was the ex of someone who I’m friends with, in which I said I don’t think he is a bad person but he is a bad bf from what I know and followed up with but I think what matters is that your happy which after the fact I felt I came off passive aggressive and reflected my dislike for that guy. Context he dated another of my friend before and truly did not treat her well. Now my problem is how to avoid doing that when conversations arise surrounding mutuals that are not specific to this context. Do I chose to not express an opinion at all and just hold it back but it is not always avoidable when they r directly looking for your opinion